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Aaron Hernandez Dead by Suicide

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Futureman

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A representative of his is saying he wouldn't have taken his own life

Finding it hard to imagine how he would have been hung against his own will. Dude was a big, NFL sized guy. Only thing I could think of is someone knocking him out? certainly that would show up in autopsy.
 

Randam

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This picture of him after he found out he was not guilty of the double murder says a lot to me. Even before he killed himself, this picture really stood out to me.

He was found not guilty, but still has a look on his face like "My life is over." It's an incredibly tragic picture. Dude had everything and lost it because he was a dumbass. It feels like in this picture it has all culminated with the look on his face.
How does killing people in cold blood make you a dumbass?
 

Icolin

Banned
This picture of him after he found out he was not guilty of the double murder says a lot to me. Even before he killed himself, this picture really stood out to me.

He was found not guilty, but still has a look on his face like "My life is over." It's an incredibly tragic picture. Dude had everything and lost it because he was a dumbass. It feels like in this picture it has all culminated with the look on his face.

That's putting it very lightly.
 

Linkura

Member
How does killing people in cold blood make you a dumbass?

It's not smart to kill people? And he seemed to think he wouldn't get caught. Screams dumbass to me.

If people want me to not "sugarcoat" it, yes, he was a cold-blooded murderer. Jesus.
 
This picture of him after he found out he was not guilty of the double murder says a lot to me. Even before he killed himself, this picture really stood out to me.

He was found not guilty, but still has a look on his face like "My life is over." It's an incredibly tragic picture. Dude had everything and lost it because he was a dumbass. It feels like in this picture it has all culminated with the look on his face.

He has that look on his face because the murder he was serving for was to cover up these murders. The not guilty verdict is him realizing that all he had to do to was literally nothing and he would of got off scott free, instead he kept playing gangster and got caught.
 

Zee-Row

Banned
One thing I don't understand is what could he do for his daughter if he was still alive? He could possibly influence her on his gang activities and put her on the same path. It's kind of overrated but you don't need your parents to have a good life , people can make it without them. You just need support from other sources.
 
Truly saddening affair. I feel fro him and his family.

One thing I don't understand is what could he do for his daughter if he was still alive? He could possibly influence her on his gang activities and put her on the same path. It's kind of overrated but you don't need your parents to have a good life , people can make it without them. You just need support from other sources.

Are you really trying to convince us that it's good that this little four year old lost her father to suicide and prison?
 

Linkura

Member
He has that look on his face because the murder he was serving for was to cover up these murders. The not guilty verdict is him realizing that all he had to do to was literally nothing and he would of got off scott free, instead he kept playing gangster and got caught.

This is a pretty good analysis actually. I'd forgotten about the particulars of the cases since it's been a while since the charges were brought up.
 

Takuan

Member
First thing that popped in my head. Even though he was sentenced to life without parole, his family could still visit him right? his baby daughter could've still visited him through out her childhood right?

He should've manned up and made the best of what ever shitty life he got himself into. If anything, for his family.

I don't know the rules...but he took the easy way out of the fucked up life he chose to have.
I think he did it because he realized the lawyer fees would eventually bankrupt him and directly affect the well-being of his daughter and fiancee.
 
Was just excited about winning his double murder case and optimistic about getting an appeal granted for a retrial from his previous case and he killed himself?
 
he legitimately murdered people.

And? That doesn't mean this situation isn't sad? Even murderers deserve empathy and understanding. Imagine the pain his family is going through. You may think his murders absolves him and his family from understanding and empathy but it's the opposite. He went through real pain in order to get to this point, and the fact that you say it's completely okay is sickening.
 

Whompa02

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And? That doesn't mean this situation isn't sad? Even murderers deserve empathy and understanding. Imagine the pain his family is going through. You may think his murders absolves him and his family from understanding and empathy but it's the opposite. He went through real pain in order to get to this point, and the fact that you say it's completely okay is sickening.

I imagine the pain that the family of those he murdered must have had. Be as flustered as you want. I don't care about murderers. They are murderers. Line in the sand is drawn there.
 
Good riddance? The guy killed multiple people yet I see sympathy for him here. I don't see how this is any different from the manhunt guy who killed himself yesterday.

The guy was a monster no doubt. But suicide affects the family and he had a kid right?

You can wish a lot of shit on people but leave suicide off the wishlist please.
 

Zee-Row

Banned
Truly saddening affair. I feel fro him and his family.



Are you really trying to convince us that it's good that this little four year old lost her father to suicide and prison?

She's four , she won't remember him. She has her mom and grandparents. Hopefully they raise her right and send her on the right path. Her father was a bad dude and won't have that bad influence to put things in her head if she were to visit him.
 

LionPride

Banned
And? That doesn't mean this situation isn't sad? Even murderers deserve empathy and understanding. Imagine the pain his family is going through. You may think his murders absolves him and his family from understanding and empathy but it's the opposite. He went through real pain in order to get to this point, and the fact that you say it's completely okay is sickening.
Fuck him

His family is fine, but him? Hell no, fuck him. Only sad the fucker didn't live and die in prison deciding to end his own sad pitiful life.
 
She's four , she won't remember him.

And that makes this situation...good? This is just incredibly sad and the fact you're vindictive and saying "well, she won't remember him this is good news" to someone killing themselves is completely lacking any shred of morality.
 
He has that look on his face because the murder he was serving for was to cover up these murders. The not guilty verdict is him realizing that all he had to do to was literally nothing and he would of got off scott free, instead he kept playing gangster and got caught.

The suicide makes some sense in that light, like that picture is him finally understanding how much he fucked up and its his fault alone.
 
Truly saddening affair. I feel fro him and his family.



Are you really trying to convince us that it's good that this little four year old lost her father to suicide and prison?
In the long run its a good thing. She would grow up wanting to see him, having her head filled with nonsense etc etc. She is going to grow up and one day and find out her father was a monster. That is enough to deal with. Her life is fucked regardless mental state wise. From what I've been hearing the mother ain't that great of an individual either.
 

h1nch

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And? That doesn't mean this situation isn't sad? Even murderers deserve empathy and understanding. Imagine the pain his family is going through. You may think his murders absolves him and his family from understanding and empathy but it's the opposite. He went through real pain in order to get to this point, and the fact that you say it's completely okay is sickening.

Oh won't somebody think of the convicted murderers!?
 

Lemaitre

Banned
And that makes this situation...good? This is just incredibly sad and the fact you're vindictive and saying "well, she won't remember him this is good news" to someone killing themselves is completely lacking any shred of morality.

Hernandez chose to commit murder and he chose to end his life. He made life choices that separated him from his daughter forever. I have no sympathy for fathers whose actions show he had absolutely no intention of acting like one.
 

Zee-Row

Banned
And that makes this situation...good? This is just incredibly sad and the fact you're vindictive and saying "well, she won't remember him this is good news" to someone killing themselves is completely lacking any shred of morality.

I'm not saying that money creates happiness but she will inherit whatever fortune he had and will be presented with a greater opportunity that most kids with both parents never experience. My father is also in jail for terrible things and as an adult I could careless about him and never see him again either.
 
She's four , she won't remember him. She has her mom and grandparents. Hopefully they raise her right and send her on the right path. Her father was a bad dude and won't have that bad influence to put things in her head if she were to visit him.

She'll be reminded of him by other people. At four years old you can't block out important stuff like this.
 
I'm not saying that money creates happiness but...

No, that's exactly what you're saying.

My father is also in jail for terrible things and as an adult I could careless about him and never see him again either.

That's a terrible situation, but I think you're applying your own unique situation to other people. The fact he murdered people to begin with is unfortunate and sad. Much less throwing his life away and tearing his family apart. And now he kills himself and his daughter is four years old and cognizant enough to remember it the rest of her life?

It's just sad man, and none of your "well, good, she's set for life" makes it any less sad.
 
And that makes this situation...good? This is just incredibly sad and the fact you're vindictive and saying "well, she won't remember him this is good news" to someone killing themselves is completely lacking any shred of morality.

Arguably, she's better off not having a murderer in her life at all. Fucked up that she'd be visiting him in prison for a good chunk of her life. I'm sure it will have negative impacts on her life, but so would him being alive. If her family is decent, they'll work to put him behind her. The piece of shit put his kid in this situation in the first place. He had more victims than just who he murdered.
 

Mesousa

Banned
Hernandez chose to commit murder and he chose to end his life. He made life choices that separated him from his daughter forever. I have no sympathy for fathers whose actions show he had absolutely no intention of acting like one.

I think he killed Odin before his daughter was born.
 

3rdman

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And? That doesn't mean this situation isn't sad? Even murderers deserve empathy and understanding. Imagine the pain his family is going through. You may think his murders absolves him and his family from understanding and empathy but it's the opposite. He went through real pain in order to get to this point, and the fact that you say it's completely okay is sickening.

please understand
 
And? That doesn't mean this situation isn't sad? Even murderers deserve empathy and understanding. Imagine the pain his family is going through. You may think his murders absolves him and his family from understanding and empathy but it's the opposite. He went through real pain in order to get to this point, and the fact that you say it's completely okay is sickening.

I'm certainly not trying to be combative here, but it's almost as if people are going overboard on the sympathy for him. Of course it's sad and families were affected on both sides of the gun. I'd guarantee that if the story was about a random someone's racist father who was convicted of murder that ended up committing suicide, this thread would be filled with "good riddance" vibes.

I certainly don't think "good riddance" in this case, but have a hard time garnering a lot of emotion towards it. He played with fire, got burned and threw away his family and career in the process. He was an active participant and likely understood the risks involved with playing gangster with people.
 

Zee-Row

Banned
No, that's exactly what you're saying.



That's a terrible situation, but I think you're applying your own unique situation to other people. The fact he murdered people to begin with is unfortunate and sad. Much less throwing his life away and tearing his family apart. And now he kills himself and his daughter is four years old and cognizant enough to remember it the rest of her life?

It's just sad man, and none of your "well, good, she's set for life" makes it any less sad.

People with money of course have the capacity to screw up like OJ and Hernandez but if you're poor and in the gutter your likeliness of joining a gang or being a career criminal is increased dramatically. That's the point I'm trying to make.
 

Nere

Member
And? That doesn't mean this situation isn't sad? Even murderers deserve empathy and understanding. Imagine the pain his family is going through. You may think his murders absolves him and his family from understanding and empathy but it's the opposite. He went through real pain in order to get to this point, and the fact that you say it's completely okay is sickening.

What about the familes of the victims, I don't see you mentioning them. Also what about the victims themselves who lost their lives because of that idiot. You victimize the murderer here and not the actualy victims.
 
All I'm saying is there exists a pervading lack of understanding on these boards and you people can do better. Many of the same people who cheered when Trump voters with high potentiality for getting cancer had the possibility of losing health insurance are offering similar pleas as to why this is actually a good situation for his family and loved ones in this thread. It is gross.

What about the familes of the victims, I don't see you mentioning them. Also what about the victims themselves who lost their lives because of that idiot. You victimize the murderer here and not the actualy victims.

I haven't brought up the victims because they've been dead for a long time and have been laid to rest. Because I haven't mentioned his victims doesn't mean I don't think they're worth mourning over. I just find the entire thing sad in general and I feel for everyone involved.
 

Goro Majima

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Exactly. Even murderers are people, and this man killed himself. This doesn't absolve him from his crimes but he was a human too.

Yeah sorry no.

I could imagine a post on OldGAF circa 1945

"Adolf Hitler killed himself"

"Well even murderers are people and this doesn't absolve him of his crimes but he was a human too"

If that sounds ridiculous than I feel like we'd be disagreeing over just how many murders a person has to commit before you don't feel sympathy for him. I think for most of us, that line ends prior to someone committing murder and not after.
 
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