Shoulda taken that gov job and slowed it down as much as possible. Keep trying with that recruiter.
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Applying for jobs is exhausting and soul-crushing
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Shoulda taken that gov job and slowed it down as much as possible. Keep trying with that recruiter.
entremet
Member
I've had three interviews in the past month and no job offers. Starting to think it's me.
Hell, one of the jobs even let me do one day of training two weeks ago and then radio silence...during that day the owner seemed like he was gonna call me back but nothing...
I wouldn't read into it. Job searching is tough. You should be improving and adapting your strategy along the way. Each interview should become more polished.
Using gamer terms, you should be "leveling up" during this process--learn new skills, network, polish your LinkedIn, resume, etc. This should be positive pressure to get better.
Think of yourself as prize fighter in training camp. It's gonna suck, but you will be better at the end of it.
Hey guys, had 2 phone interviews for a position, and now have a 1 hour intrerview in person. It'll be 2x30 min interviews with 2 different people. I assume it will be the last interview. Do you think it will be alright to ask about the salary or shall I just leave it and wait for their response? I'm a recent graduate so salary isn't a huge motivator ATM as long as its decent (I'm living at home as well so saving won't be an issue).
crazy monkey
Banned
would you take job that you are not excited for but might be safe or job that you love for next 4 years.
What's the pay difference? Can you afford to live comfortably doing the job you love?
I'm going to quit my job due to serious reasons. I'm working as programmer.
The idea of returning to job-applying hell is fucking terrible
Find your next job before you quit! Trust me it me more hell when you're unemployed. Not trying to be pessimistic, and I don't know your resume/experience so it may not apply, but sitting at home for 2/3 months can get depressing.
wind_steaker
Member
Having seen the process from both sides, assuming you know it's going to be in the right ball park (based on adverts, and perhaps initial conversation with the agent or whatever) I wouldn't mention this unless they bring it up. Which they might, it's 50/50. It's more something to discuss if they're actually interested.
NeOak
Member
Like wind_steaker said, only bring this up when they mention salary in the interview.
Don't ask about salary.
Hi fellow job searchers, hope everyone is doing well.
After applying cold for ~4 month, I haven't really had any results (not even invitations to phone interviews). I've tried my school's career center and received some advice on how to contact employers and update my resume/cover letter. But I'm still not seeing results. Any advice on how to actually get noticed?
Yea, unfortunately, I really don't have many contacts or in a great position (IRL) to make them; unless it's through contacting people online (which often gets ignored as well).
After applying cold for ~4 month, I haven't really had any results (not even invitations to phone interviews). I've tried my school's career center and received some advice on how to contact employers and update my resume/cover letter. But I'm still not seeing results. Any advice on how to actually get noticed?
Yea, unfortunately, I really don't have many contacts or in a great position (IRL) to make them; unless it's through contacting people online (which often gets ignored as well).
I applied to a job, then contacted the hiring manager on LinkedIn, and we had a phone interview a few days later, and he said he really likes me,but I should another member of the team. We then set up a time to meet over coffee before deciding whether I should move on to an in-person interview. A couple days later, he changed his mind and just wants to skip to the in-person interview instead. Now, we're apparently waiting on upper management to decide who will be involved since it will be a panel interview. The wait is killing me, and the decision to forego coffee has me wondering if this is good or not.
NeOak
Member
Usually, skipping steps ahead is a good sign.
Congrats! That's awesome news.
Congrats to you as well! That's terrific.
Unless I misunderstood, they weren't offered the government job.
I'm sorry to hear it. Is there any other source you could seek out for help with your resume and cover letter? Just in case that's part of why you haven't been selected yet. Also, if the person at your career center hasn't been able to successfully assist you, is there another person there who might be able to offer additional or different advice or assistance? If at all possible, try to be oo discouraged or take it too personally, employers receive so many applications and it's entirely possible you were the next person to be called for any nunber of applications. All you need is one good response, one good interview and one good offer. Each of those will often lead to the other. So each person who rejects you is hopefully one step closer to better luck and success and a good job fit. I think most successful people say they had several "no"s before their successful "yes." I'm hopeful and confident with continued perseverance you'll get a great job soon. Wishing you the best of luck!
I try to avoid this thread because I dont want to depress myself. But after these past couple months I must say, applying for jobs is exhausting and soul-crushing. I find myself curled up in the fetal position every night wondering where did I go wrong. But that wont stop me. The thread title is perfect though.
toadsworth
Banned
about to take a coding test after coding all day at work. job searching suuuucks
Syphon Filter
Member
Most likely have a phone interview tomorrow for another internship. If I get it I am not sure I can balance this and a retail job so should I take the risk and leave the retail job for the internship?
Definitely. Even though I'm employed already, looking for another job is still stressful. I got lucky that an ex-coworker referred me after I applied to her company.
Here's hoping. I still haven't heard anything, though. The looming Thanksgiving break probably isn't helping.
Thank you Max for your kind words. Indeed, the only way ahead is to keep applying. Though like you said, I probably need to augment my methods, if current ones are working. But I think I've ran out of human resources for me (already asked my co-workers/students, professors, and career center professionals for help).
Same. 4 months since my graduation, 0 interviews. I'm so fucked.
I have no words to say, other than I understand how you feel since I'm in the same exact position. Some days I'm extremely sad (feeling like a failure), and some days, I'm anguished at myself and my lack of ability to locate a job. It's definitely not building up my self confidence, for sure.
Thank you Max for your kind words. Indeed, the only way ahead is to keep applying. Though like you said, I probably need to augment my methods, if current ones are working. But I think I've ran out of human resources for me (already asked my co-workers/students, professors, and career center professionals for help).
I have no words to say, other than I understand how you feel since I'm in the same exact position. Some days I'm extremely sad (feeling like a failure), and some days, I'm anguished at myself and my lack of ability to locate a job. It's definitely not building up my self confidence, for sure.
We can start a support group or club. Been anxious over this because I think I could get a job in an unrelated/unskilled position, but I feel I need something relevant.
I could also get an unskilled job (watier/bartender) as I have experience and 'contacts' in the hospitality industry, but I feel as though this isn't the right thing to do as a young maths grad.
Terareflection
Member
After getting let go of a job three months ago as an RN., I am having a hard time finding work. I can get interviews. I can answer questions well. And I try to be personable. But I can't get anything. I am always beat out by someone with more experience, even though I applied for a new grad position.
Not asking for advice. Just venting. I just feel lied to right now.
Not asking for advice. Just venting. I just feel lied to right now.
JordanN
Banned
Well screw it, I think I'm just going to join the military now.
I traveled all the way to another city, for a job ad that said they were hiring a lot of people, only to show up and be told I would be put on a wait list behind 15 other people. This is just warehouse work.
Naw, I'm tired of this stuff now. The job market has gotten too insane for even simple labor work. Feels like only the army is the last place for any kind of job security.
I traveled all the way to another city, for a job ad that said they were hiring a lot of people, only to show up and be told I would be put on a wait list behind 15 other people. This is just warehouse work.
Naw, I'm tired of this stuff now. The job market has gotten too insane for even simple labor work. Feels like only the army is the last place for any kind of job security.
SolidSnakeUS
Member
Barring something insanely stupid showing up on my background check (where nothing bad will show up) I will have a job starting on the 1st . Even though the pay is less than what I was getting at my past 2 jobs ($15 for this one an hour, $16/$22 an hour previously), I get some good benefits. One, it's directly with a company. Two... Three, the PTO rate is kind of awesome. Every 80 hours gives 10 hours of PTO. So if I worked 6 months, I can get 3 weeks off. Or work 10 months and get 5 weeks off. Better than any other place I know of.
. Even though the pay is less than what I was getting at my past 2 jobs ($15 for this one an hour, $16/$22 an hour previously), I get some good benefits. One, it's directly with a company. Two... Three, the PTO rate is kind of awesome. Every 80 hours gives 10 hours of PTO. So if I worked 6 months, I can get 3 weeks off. Or work 10 months and get 5 weeks off. Better than any other place I know of.many places
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I am being laid off as of dec. 2. The analysts are already out the door. Luckily I am an assistant and was placed on the transition team where funnel the contracts to different offices in different states.
opticalmace
Member
"I'll get back to you by the end of the week."
4 weeks later nothing. And before you asked, I already followed up earlier. It's kind of lame when there are only 3 people on the shortlist that the employer can't contact you to let you know. Just rude imo.
4 weeks later nothing. And before you asked, I already followed up earlier. It's kind of lame when there are only 3 people on the shortlist that the employer can't contact you to let you know. Just rude imo.
Mr. Blonde
Member
Don't ask until you have an offer.
entremet
Member
Why are you limiting yourself to simple labor jobs?
Got my itinerary today. Wednesday morning I will have several interviews, including panels of people who made games I really like in the past. It will be very interesting. Oh, and they are also taking me to lunch so if I end up not getting the job for some reason, I'll at least get a meal out of it!
DigitalRicket
Member
Wife has applied to about 20 different places around town and not even a single callback. Man, things are ruthless...
I've been out of work since I moved to California over two months ago so I feel yall on the job to get a job. I was fortunate to be hired last week for a company that I never thought would hire me. Here's a tip that worked out for me. If you were fortunate enough to get an interview, either in person, via phone, or even webcasted, be sure to email the recruiter a thank you note the day after.
It doesn't have to be long, about two paragraphs. Basically thank them for their time as well as the opportunity, inform them that you are interested in the job and you feel you are the most qualified for it, and leave your contact information. Also make mention of something off the record during the interview, like if the recruiter gave you a bottle water, the recruiter mentioning anything involving their family, or if someone gave you a tour of the facility. The recruiter who eventually hired me occasionally coughed and apologized for it, so I mentioned that I hope she got over whatever ailed her during our time of the interview.
What this does is it keeps their memories of you fresh in their minds during the phase where they begin picking the people to hire. It definitely does not hinder the chances of getting the job, quite the contrary. When I got the hiring call from the recruiter, she actually thanked me for sending the note as it reminded her to pull up my resume to the consideration pile. She also thanked me for caring about her well-being due to one sentence. So make certain that you get the recruiter's contact information before your interview ends.
I wish yall the best of luck in finding employment. Yall can do this!
It doesn't have to be long, about two paragraphs. Basically thank them for their time as well as the opportunity, inform them that you are interested in the job and you feel you are the most qualified for it, and leave your contact information. Also make mention of something off the record during the interview, like if the recruiter gave you a bottle water, the recruiter mentioning anything involving their family, or if someone gave you a tour of the facility. The recruiter who eventually hired me occasionally coughed and apologized for it, so I mentioned that I hope she got over whatever ailed her during our time of the interview.
What this does is it keeps their memories of you fresh in their minds during the phase where they begin picking the people to hire. It definitely does not hinder the chances of getting the job, quite the contrary. When I got the hiring call from the recruiter, she actually thanked me for sending the note as it reminded her to pull up my resume to the consideration pile. She also thanked me for caring about her well-being due to one sentence. So make certain that you get the recruiter's contact information before your interview ends.
I wish yall the best of luck in finding employment. Yall can do this!
Welp, nevermind. They just canceled Wednesday on me. The recruiter told me upper management decided to go a different route, but she said the hiring manager is bummed.
She also said I have a lot of potential, my work is as good as any she's seen, and she wants to help me get on somewhere else. Needless to say, I'm fucking crushed.
She also said I have a lot of potential, my work is as good as any she's seen, and she wants to help me get on somewhere else. Needless to say, I'm fucking crushed.
Fallout Phoenix
Member
I'm officially giving up on finding a job. Trying to get work so I have some extra money for school but it always ends in me not getting the job and me feeling stupid for even trying.
Syphon Filter
Member
You don't need school for a lot of good jobs. What are you interested in? Self study that while you apply for jobs.
nooooo
I really don't know what to do now.
People will scoff, but I hate my job. Hate it. I've never been so stressed out in my life. I can't sleep, I overeat (gained 20 lbs. in 10 months of working there), I drink excessively nearly every night now. When I'm not at work, I dread going to work. I've seriously had moments recently where I've almost walked out.
And last week, the only person who I ever bothered talking to about any of it quit. So now I'm alone. My schedule makes a social life impossible, so I have no friends (I don't get along well with anyone at work, either). I actually regret moving to Seattle. It's been nothing but a shit show here from day one for me.
People will scoff, but I hate my job. Hate it. I've never been so stressed out in my life. I can't sleep, I overeat (gained 20 lbs. in 10 months of working there), I drink excessively nearly every night now. When I'm not at work, I dread going to work. I've seriously had moments recently where I've almost walked out.
And last week, the only person who I ever bothered talking to about any of it quit. So now I'm alone. My schedule makes a social life impossible, so I have no friends (I don't get along well with anyone at work, either). I actually regret moving to Seattle. It's been nothing but a shit show here from day one for me.
NeOak
Member
anonymous_abc
Member
Usually around here we say don't quit unless you have something else lined up. But this sounds as if it is destroying you mentally and physically.
I say let it go.
Pimplitosaurio
Member
I think I might be visiting this thread again
Last time I was in a dire economic situation. But at the right time I got an offer, we had to relocate to another state, but the job would pull us through if it was stable enough(Meaning we need a few months to stabilize and then we could start paying down debts)
It seems that it wasn't stable enough
I really hope its just me being paranoid, but in any case, it's time to get to networking again, just in case
Last time I was in a dire economic situation. But at the right time I got an offer, we had to relocate to another state, but the job would pull us through if it was stable enough(Meaning we need a few months to stabilize and then we could start paying down debts)
It seems that it wasn't stable enough
I really hope its just me being paranoid, but in any case, it's time to get to networking again, just in case
anonymous_abc
Member
I think I might be visiting this thread again
Last time I was in a dire economic situation. But at the right time I got an offer, we had to relocate to another state, but the job would pull us through if it was stable enough(Meaning we need a few months to stabilize and then we could start paying down debts)
It seems that it wasn't stable enough
I really hope its just me being paranoid, but in any case, it's time to get to networking again, just in case
It's always time to be networking.
But I hope you don't need it.
Mobile Suit Gooch
Grundle: The Awakening
Feels like the only job I can get are through Temp agencies. *sigh*
I agree with the first sentiment. I've been trying to find another job in the area for 5 months with no luck. Unfortunately, I have to leave my industry due to a contract with a no-compete clause. Seattle is home to a lot of gaming and tech companies, but they don't have a lot openings for video production. My other option is to leave the area entirely, which isn't out of the question, but it does complicate things.
Still, yeah, it's taking a toll on me, so I'll have to take some sort of action soon.