Hey guys,
I thought it might be of some value if i shared my experience with all this.
The first thing i would like to recommend each and everyone is to always save money, each month. I have taught myself trough self development programs to control my income, and only invest and buy things that i really need. If you can teach yourself this, and break free from the many factors that ultimately influence your spending behaviours you have a lot to gain in the long run.
This obviously goes hand in hand with having a steady regular income stream. The reason why this is so damn important is that you NEVER know what actually can happen in the job market. If i should give a practical task/example, try to start save like 20 or 30% of your monthly salary and see how your brain reacts (whatever starting amount that you feel comfortable with but that also is a bit outside of your comfort zone).When you have built up a solid capital i would recommend that you start to count how long you could live of that, if you of some reason where laid off. It makes things clearer and you can be better prepared, if you are being laid off as i was.
I was unemployed for more than a year, and It was probably one of the most depressing times i have had in my entire life. During this period I found myself in a very dark place where i actually started to think what would happen if i kill myself. I basically lost all my motivation to live.Around 6-7 months into that period i took a very important decision. I decided i would put a large amount of my saved money in a solid education, investing in myself, and ultimately make myself more attractive to the job market, but also open more career roads and opportunities that previously where closed to me. You see i did not have any education after finishing high school many years ago.
And you know what..?, recently i signed a new job contract!, and i know my education played a part in them wanting me. This interview process was quite different from the previous ones iv had. Basically i contacted them during my education on mail, saying i was interested in their company, but that i was studying now (of course i name dropped the education and school in the mail since i know it has a very good reputation). They replied saying they didn't have any open positions at that time but that we should keep contact. After a few months they contacted me on mail, sending me a job description and asked if i where interested. We then met and i spoke largely about who i am, whats important for me, and where i am in my life. Another interview happens after a week with their country manager and the department manager i met in the first place. Again i talked about who i am, whats important for me and where i am in my life. They where NOT detailed oriented regarding my previous jobs, and i think that had much to do with me knowing EXACTLY how i should express myself and my career with as few, yet relevant words as possible. 3 days after that second interview they sent me a concrete job offer, witch i without drama negotiated to be a little better (mainly the base salary), and after that i meet with them and signed. The package they offered me is overall the best iv ever had in my 10+ year long career, and i think the personal chemistry will be great between me and them.
Some things i learned during my journey.
- Your social network and contacts is almost always a better road than a good resume. There is even recruting firms who now says ”the resume is dead these days”.
- I know many dont like this but you need to start think more in terms of ”your personal brand”. Information travels fast these days, and sometimes its good to keep your mouth shut about bad management, or previous horrible job experiences you had. If you would like to open your mouth on things like that, you should really know how and what to say.
- If someone wants you to send them their resume on mail, or register on their site, try to book a lunch meeting or something similar instead. You do NOT want to be placed in a large database with thousands of others where its hard to see why you are so much more valued than others. Know this aswell, that many companies use programs and services that scan all the resumes for important keywords. If a resume have xx amount of keywords it get placed in the right pile, if not it gets no attention.. Also dont be surprised if you go into a interview, finding that the person on the opposite table dont have read a single word on your resume except your name.
- Practice, practice, practice and try to sell yourself with your own words! Iv made so many misstakes going into interviews thinking ”well my resume sells itself”. WRONG!.
- Keep track of EVERY job application you make, write down what works and whats not working. Use a spreadsheet for this!
- There is much information and knowledge FREE on Linkedin such as how you can prepare and answer ”the 10 most common yet stupid interview questions”.
- When you get a mail response from a interview / or job application you sent that says something likes ”Hi mister xxx , we really liked your application/meeting and think you would be a very good addition to our team, but have decided to move forward with others” . Realize that this is their basic response to EVERYONE not just yourself!