I see your point pal, but this is a matter of entertainment. I think it's a safe bet to say most of the posters in here are ashamed that they like wrestling - why? Cos it's fake? Nope. That doesn't matter, all entertainment is fake, that's kind of the point of it.
We're ashamed because wrestling at large has and continues to inflame contemporary social divisions to the objective of building simple face/heel dynamics. Wrestling wants either cheers or boos, and one of the easiest ways to go about that is to feed into pre-existing social biases. Look at how people chanted USA at Rusev when Roman came down the ramp, even though by any measure, Rusev is the more entertaining performer with more potential. They write it specifically to appeal to lowest common denominator emotional triggers. Patriotism, sexism, racism, homphobia, and classism. All the big ones.
So when you somehow continue to pay attention despite all that, having problems with all that, but still kinda love the spectacle - you at least hope that the performers in the ring are better than that, and that begins to become who you root for. People who are so good they demand big matches despite not fitting in to WWE (and wrestling in general)'s idea of what will get over big. Those people, you hope, are good people, people you can root for on a shoot level - like, I want to see this guy make a lot of money and have the crowd appreciate him.
So when you have someone like AJ Styles, who ticks many boxes in that regard - internationally interesting life, excellent in ring performer, good character work when it is needed - and you hear, oh, shit he's a homophobe? It's disappointing. Just like it's disappointing when you learn Brock is a homophobe. Or that even Cena, one of our current Good Guys, was fine with doing those homophobic promos, was also fine with it.
Wrestling isn't quite fiction television, it's something in between that, stuntman olympics and reality TV, so there isn't a clear comparison to make with it.
I agree there's no need to do a witch hunt on someone like AJ Styles, but I wanted to point out his opinions taint him, and that's something that performers in the future should take note of. It might make them take a second look at their insular views or, more realistically, might help them learn how to hide it, which will at least both stop it from spreading further as an opinion, and also help to continue to rehabilitate the image of wrestling.