That certainly is a satisfying answer, except for some points :
A) Fuck that
B) Fuck you
C) Fuck the idea that somehow fangirls, who only seem to be really loud about a perceived subtext in a work of fiction, if we're gonna go by your description, are in any way equivalent to bronies, who claimed a space created for little girls as their own and then proceeded to loudly and proudly pollute that space with all manners of terrible shit that end up alienating the very people the show was made for in the first place.
D) Fuck your point about the double standard, as if one joke about fanboys was somehow equivalent to the torrents of shit women in this space get every single day from assholes like you acting all high and mighty questioning everything about their passion because they dared to be of a different gender than yours
E) Fuck the idea that because some women may have endorsed it it's okay to ignore the thousands of women that haven't, and that see that fucking piece of shit shirt for what it is, which is a way to tell them "Get out, you don't belong here, you never have and you never will as long as fuckers like me still exist because I'll make sure of it"
F) And finally, fuck you. Again.