If a girl says "I already have boyfriend"
"He's a lucky guy" or something along those lines. After that you move on.
or "I just got out of a relationship"
Not sure there's anything you can really do here.
If a girl says "I already have boyfriend"
or "I just got out of a relationship"
Well the reason why I'm using those examples is because it seems like almost every girl (that I'm interested in) at my university already has a boyfriend.Needs some more context, but they are by no means negative statements.
Hmmm... I don't know about that. Why would they bring up their most recent relationship if they're in the mood for sex? Then again, I've never broken up with anyone before so I wouldn't know what type of mental state I would be in.A girl saying she just got out of a relationship is practically an invitation for sex.
Okay, that sounds good."He's a lucky guy" or something along those lines. After that you move on.
I guess I could say, "Okay then, see you around." ?Not sure there's anything you can really do here.
Would they be bothered if you did the same thing? If yes, then it isn't unreasonable. It's one thing to find other people attractive, but constantly mentioning how 'hot' people are in front of your boyfriend is a bit disrespectful IMO.
Don't.
Seriously, DON'T!
She's angry because you didn't put up with her bullshit. You shouldn't feel bad about anything.
Seems like GAf has spokenYou didn't hurt her. She's just jealous that you didn't play along with her games, and that other girls have your attention now.
Honestly, you're doing it right.
Don't add her to FB again, don't apologize for what you did.
Any girl who flakes on you once (let alone multiple times) without rescheduling isn't interested and therefore isn't worth your time. Recognize this and you'll waste less time and emotion stressing about girls who clearly don't give a shit about you.
If a girl says "I already have boyfriend" or "I just got out of a relationship" what is the best way to respond?
I'm still in no condition to be asking girls out but I just want some examples that I can fall back on when the time comes.
I already have a boyfriend
I just got out of a relationship
If a girl says "I already have boyfriend" or "I just got out of a relationship" what is the best way to respond?
I'm still in no condition to be asking girls out but I just want some examples that I can fall back on when the time comes.
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I rarely ask for advice. I've never been in this situation before. This is a first for me. I honestly have no idea what to do:
Alright. I work at a bank. Today, a really fine girl came in into today. All she needed was a simple deposit, nothing special. Now, I'm not the one to read to much into shit. However, as I said goodbye, she gave me a bashful stare and a slight giggle. Again, I didn't think much of it.
I remembered her name. I want to find out more about her and talk to her, but don't know how to go about it. Now, I don't want to do anything that would 1) make me a creep 2) invade her privacy or 3) get me in trouble and/or fired.
I probably should forget about it, but I hate to let would be good things, pass me by.
Yeah I don't think this approach would work me. Plus, no girl in their right mind would cheat with me because I'm not that spectacular.Gut check time. Look at yourself in the mirror. Look hard. Can you live with yourself if you fucked a girl with a boyfriend if all you're looking for is some ass for the night? If so, give her the most smug look on your face, move in a little closer and just say "So?"
Lets be real here. If a girl is willing to spread her legs for a guy she's just met, you're doing her boyfriend a favor by ending it sooner rather than letting him find out later that she's a skank.
Hopefully when I've accumulated enough self confidence I can use this line.Oh? So you're not looking for anything serious too, huh?
Yeah I don't think this approach would work me. Plus, no girl in their right mind would cheat with me because I'm not that spectacular.
"He's a lucky guy" or something along those lines. After that you move on.
If a girl says "I already have boyfriend" or "I just got out of a relationship" what is the best way to respond?
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I rarely ask for advice. I've never been in this situation before. This is a first for me. I honestly have no idea what to do:
Alright. I work at a bank. Today, a really fine girl came in into today. All she needed was a simple deposit, nothing special. Now, I'm not the one to read to much into shit. However, as I said goodbye, she gave me a bashful stare and a slight giggle. Again, I didn't think much of it.
I remembered her name. I want to find out more about her and talk to her, but don't know how to go about it. Now, I don't want to do anything that would 1) make me a creep 2) invade her privacy or 3) get me in trouble and/or fired.
I probably should forget about it, but I hate to let would be good things, pass me by.
Well even with the lack of details, I'd say your best option is to befriend her. Make her a lady friend. Some time down the line if she trusts you, she might introduce to some of her attractive single female friends.
This is great advice. People talk about getting "friendzoned" and shit like that, which does suck, but if you use it to your advantage, you could end up sleeping with all of friendzone girl's friends, which will make friendzoner jealous, which will take you out of the friendzone and into the fuckzone, and then you friendzone her so the friendzoner becomes the friendzonee. Or something like that.
"In life, unlike chess, life continues"
you could end up sleeping with all of friendzone girl's friends, which will make friendzoner jealous, which will take you out of the friendzone and into the fuckzone, and then you friendzone her so the friendzoner becomes the friendzonee. Or something like that.
A girl and I ended. Only problem is, we have almost every class together. How do I make things not awkward?
Yeah... I could definitely use a social circle/friends because at this moment I have none of those things...Well even with the lack of details, I'd say your best option is to befriend her. Make her a lady friend. Some time down the line if she trusts you, she might introduce to some of her attractive single female friends.
I have a couple like that.
Or even better she may even be the gateway to a great social circle. Which will expand your possibilities.
And believe it or not your female friends are often the best wing(wo)men you get.
Even though I am 21 my physical appearance is that of a burnt out, bald 30 year old. That's why I don't see myself as someone who is worth cheating on.... you need to realise your real value and get some confidence. If you stick to that belief you'll get nowhere. We all possess something interesting and unique. Something attractive about us.
Everybody does.
Generally, women look for alphas. Conceding defeat right away shows you aren't an alpha. Many girls will say that they have a boyfriend just to clear away the fodder. Remember, you have nothing to lose if you continue to press on after she says she has a boyfriend...unless her boyfriend is somewhere else in the bar getting drinks but that is why you scout ahead. Gotta have intel before you begin the mission.
"I have a boyfriend" in your mind should sound the same as "I painted my nails blue today". In other words, you shouldn't give a shit, and you shouldn't react to it at all. Completely ignore what she said and act as if she's single.
A lot of the time girls will just throw that out to test the guy. Since most guys will back down, it's an easy way for girls to weed out the men from the boys. The key is to be nonreactive - just act as if she told you she's single and keen.
In the worst case scenario, she gets a little annoyed and you simply move on to the next girl.
I personally wouldn't go the "he's a lucky guy" route, won't do anything for ya.
break the tension by saying something like "that's cool, he doesn't have to know!"
It's all in how you say it too.
Frame her for cheating and get her expelled.
Generally, women look for alphas. Conceding defeat right away shows you aren't an alpha. Many girls will say that they have a boyfriend just to clear away the fodder. Remember, you have nothing to lose if you continue to press on after she says she has a boyfriend...unless her boyfriend is somewhere else in the bar getting drinks but that is why you scout ahead. Gotta have intel before you begin the mission.
Yeah... I'm no where near that level of "alpha male-ness".
Despite having Satan as my avatar, I am a "nice" guy. Coming off as a guy that wants to fuck no matter what irks me to no end...
When I was watching those David X videos on YouTube I was blown away and somewhat appalled by how much shit he was able to get away with.
But I know that if I don't ditch the "nice guy" attitude I'll never get laid...
Also, speaking about never getting laid, I guess I shouldn't bring up the fact that I'm still a virgin to some girl, correct?
I always thought this was bullshit when i was single, but girls really do start throwing themselves at you when you're taken. Maybe its just psychological, or another reason, but man it is insane.
Yes...Atrametal...are you still down in South Carolina?
Yes...
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I rarely ask for advice. I've never been in this situation before. This is a first for me. I honestly have no idea what to do:
Alright. I work at a bank. Today, a really fine girl came in into today. All she needed was a simple deposit, nothing special. Now, I'm not the one to read to much into shit. However, as I said goodbye, she gave me a bashful stare and a slight giggle. Again, I didn't think much of it.
I remembered her name. I want to find out more about her and talk to her, but don't know how to go about it. Now, I don't want to do anything that would 1) make me a creep 2) invade her privacy or 3) get me in trouble and/or fired.
I probably should forget about it, but I hate to let would be good things, pass me by.
Girls can be attracted to your lifestyle, probably more so than the end results. Go to the gym and get your endorphines running (pun unintended). Change your attitude about it too. You're working out to better yourself, getting girls to notice you is a bonus. Even if you don't get results exercising on a regular schedule will certainly make you feel better and that will carry over to your everyday activity. Girls will notice that change in attitude and the positivity will certainly help you worry less on things you shouldn't be worrying about in the first place.And I know I should workout and try to get ripped but by the time that happens I'll already be out of college with absolutely no relationship/dating experience.
Given his post history I doubt Atramental is going to the bar looking for one night stands, just saying. If he was actually looking for a meaningful relationship I think he'd be better off being her friend or moving on and talking to her again if she is ever single.
Women can easily lie and say they have a boyfriend, I understand that much, but sometimes they *do* have one and aren't looking for anything more (and that's probably true of his likely college setting).
Yeah, once I get done with college I'll try moving to one of those places.You need to get out of thats state ASAP man, I've been thinking on this, get to a big city, maybe DC but ideally somewhere up north, Philly, Boston, NYC. Although I would suggest Philly or Boston. People are completely different and it's just a different environment. It might help you to go through a change of scenery as well.
Just a thought.
Yeah, once I get done with college I'll try moving to one of those places.
South Carolina is just... ugh.
Okay then. I'll get my ass back to the gym ASAP. Anything to make me feel better about myself is worth doing.Girls can be attracted to your lifestyle, probably more so than the end results. Go to the gym and get your endorphines running (pun unintended). Change your attitude about it too. You're working out to better yourself, getting girls to notice you is a bonus. Even if you don't get results exercising on a regular schedule will certainly make you feel better and that will carry over to your everyday activity. Girls will notice that change in attitude and the positivity will certainly help you worry less on things you shouldn't be worrying about in the first place.
Yeah, it would make a huge difference. Plus, living in a big city has always been a dream of mine.I promise you, you would feel much more at home in a place like Boston vs. South Carolina. I thnk that type of change could make all the difference in the world.
Well, she's right. You're not in the position (you're not her boyfriend or even seeing her) to argue because she doesn't have a reason she should be respecting you higher than "every man," like she said.I said to the girl I like " Please don't call me "Kid", It annoys me".
She replied something like " I call every man "kid", if you don't don't like it, well sorry."
Kinda bitchy, isn't it?, shall I try to call her with any nickname or word that she doesn't like?
I said to the girl I like " Please don't call me "Kid", It annoys me".
She replied something like " I call every man "kid", if you don't don't like it, well sorry."
Kinda bitchy, isn't it?, shall I try to call her with any nickname or word that she doesn't like?
seems appropriate.
Thread Guidelines said:4. Continuing onward from the above, don't be a misogynist piece of shit in this thread. Using words like "bitch/cunt/etc." to describe someone who, say, flaked on you isn't a good look for you. She's not a bitch, but you are a sore loser when this happens.
I said to the girl I like " Please don't call me "Kid", It annoys me".
She replied something like " I call every man "kid", if you don't don't like it, well sorry."
Kinda bitchy, isn't it?, shall I try to call her with any nickname or word that she doesn't like?
Yikes... wait to see if she comes in again. I think any other option is total creeper material. Think cop/ticket/lawsuit story from a couple of weeks ago.FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
I rarely ask for advice. I've never been in this situation before. This is a first for me. I honestly have no idea what to do:
Alright. I work at a bank. Today, a really fine girl came in into today. All she needed was a simple deposit, nothing special. Now, I'm not the one to read to much into shit. However, as I said goodbye, she gave me a bashful stare and a slight giggle. Again, I didn't think much of it.
I remembered her name. I want to find out more about her and talk to her, but don't know how to go about it. Now, I don't want to do anything that would 1) make me a creep 2) invade her privacy or 3) get me in trouble and/or fired.
I probably should forget about it, but I hate to let would be good things, pass me by.
Read the thread guidelines, please.
There's no reason to come off as an insecure twit. Trying to "get back" at some woman means you've given her control over your emotions. Brush it off and move on like a man, not a child.
He asked if she should call her a nickname she wouldn't like. No one likes being called a cunt, except if you're Australian, where we call people cunts all the time in jest.
Even though I am 21 my physical appearance is that of a burnt out, bald 30 year old. That's why I don't see myself as someone who is worth cheating on.
And I know I should workout and try to get ripped but by the time that happens I'll already be out of college with absolutely no relationship/dating experience.
Last time I twisted the handle I got slapped ...oh not literally. Whoops.In order to find out whether a door is locked or not, you have to twist the handle. Walking up to it is not enough.
You're joking, and I understand this, but you're not offering him advice since that's the case. And it's not in the spirit of this thread.
I won't be here to backseat moderate all the time, so you don't have to be worried about that, but just know that I'll always call people on this kind of behaviour when I do see it. It's not a good look because negativity is not attractive. Even if it's only joking.
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Another question relating to my virginity:
If I do eventually have sex will it be fairly obvious to the girl that I'm a virgin when we're going at it? :|
I mean how hard could it be? (no pun intended...) It's just a simple back and forth motion.
Another question relating to my virginity:
If I do eventually have sex will it be fairly obvious to the girl that I'm a virgin when we're going at it? :|
I mean how hard could it be? (no pun intended...) It's just a simple back and forth motion.
Another question relating to my virginity:
If I do eventually have sex will it be fairly obvious to the girl that I'm a virgin when we're going at it? :|
I mean how hard could it be? (no pun intended...) It's just a simple back and forth motion.
Depends how old you are. Im 28 and a virgin. Im fucked and it will be detectable instantly. I imagine the younger you are the less likely girls will notice anything.
You just have that other problem of a girl not thinking you are any good and want to drop you, which then brings up the question do you admit the reason why you arent any good or do you not care? Basically it sounds like virgins arent looking at any real relationship potential until they've slept with a bunch of girls.