Googling some articles is not research. You hide behind so many fact just so you can be unhappy.
Dating-Age |OT3| Positivity, Confidence, and Not Being a "Nice" Guy
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Googling some articles is not research. You hide behind so many fact just so you can be unhappy.
NotTheGuyYouKill
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Oh shiiiiiiiiiit.
Glorified G
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lol @ being a patient of his,
He just lurks the thread until you or some other repressed individual post their anxiety problems, so he can you insult you to make him feel better about himself. Your low self esteem makes you believe he's giving you tough love, but in reality, he's just using you for his own ego.
Devolution
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Dude, that's not hard to do. You have a wealth of self limiting beliefs, and I just tell you that they are not true. I don't know how that makes me anyone's therapist.
This is something I have to explore. I'm not sure if I'm doing this or not. I mean, I see someone say they hate women and that the world is awful, and I got to respond.
Devolution
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Just be upfront with all involved? Otherwise I don't see anything wrong with enjoying the company of multiple people.
Really glad you took your date positively, Sheap. More props to you for staying because you did it to remedy that curve ball thrown at you. If you guys became cool, I bet she would make a killer wingwoman.
I want to make sweet love to this post. Well said.
Jeez, just ask me out already.
I want to make sweet love to this post. Well said.
Jeez, just ask me out already.
Excellent fucking post.
Ether_Snake
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A random pretty Russian girl who helped pay for a cab (I'll spare you the details) and who gave me her email so I could reach her to pay her back tomorrow just sent le an email asking if I want to go out for a walk this evening.
I didn't do anything to deserve that, I owe a complete stranger 10$ and she asks me to go out with her, lol.
I didn't do anything to deserve that, I owe a complete stranger 10$ and she asks me to go out with her, lol.
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Sadly she doesn't seem to realize how far she is from my hostel, so it probably won't happen:|
Baconsaurus Rex
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Public transit? You ask her to meet somewhere? Surely you can work something out.
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Not that simple, I'm on vacation and just git here two hours ago, and so did she. We don't know the place and I can't pay for transport untim I exchange my pesos tomorrow... Complicated situation.
Edit: Won't work for tonight, she is wondering if we can do this tomorrow. I am trying to make it so that we might spend the whole day together tomorrow, but this might mean also being with her mother the whole day (she is traveling with her), and that's fine with me. It might mean her mother would stay at the hotel in the evening, at which point we would be togheter then by ourselves, but even if she brought her mother I woukdn'tcare, lol. I like how on this solo vacation I practically spent no evening, or even day, by myself.
Joel Was Right
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I've just registered with OKCupid. I don't like taking photos of myself so have very few, the only decent one, however, seems pretentious - I look like a poser and I dread to think what others may think of it in the context of a dating site. In short, I'm not sure if its appropriate for it.
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Joel Was Right
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Maybe I should just crop it to just the face.
Napoleonthechimp
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I would have more respect for you and your opinions if you made a single fucking attempt to know who I am and why I think the way I do. Because you haven't done that your opinion of me is based on nothing but pure assumption. However, I know how I have reacted to different stimuli over the years and so I would rather trust in my own insights about my mind rather than the hostile bullshit you're giving me.
scar tissue
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I know whom you mean, forgot the names tho.
I think she (white) was from Australia, and he (black) was from America?
starchild excalibur
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jarosh & cloudwalking?
I think jarosh lived in Germany (or somewhere in Europe?) and cloudwalking in N. America
Devolution
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Yes those two. There's another couple as well, I was told their usernames but I forgot.
scar tissue
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Found 'em: Tommy and Alyssa. The tag even is "A Neogaf Love Story"
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=378631
Biff
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Don't mean to be harsh, but don't get your hopes up dude. I hope everything goes well, but with online dating flakiness is a terrible sign. It most likely means she was on a date with another dude, not sick and sleeping all day long.
How do I know this? Same thing happened to me. When I went for our rescheduled date, she called me to say she couldn't go through with it... When I was already half-way there. As she was explaining why, I realized just how crazy she was... Saying that she didn't believe that a guy like me wanted to see her, I was too good for her, was going to hurt her, etc.
We hadn't even met in real life yet.
Again, not trying to tell you this to be a dick. Just keep her off a pedestal and go with the flow. If you meet, awesome. If she bails again, who cares, she's fucking crazy most likely.
Biff
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Sounds good to me. Dating success is all about confidence. Having options is a major key to that.
SuperAndroid17
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Time to step up to the plate tomorrow night...
Radiohead concert + me&her... something has to happen or its a done deal. This girl has been giving me mixed signals for a month. Hard to describe.
I know if I plan this out... it will fail miserably . I need to learn to be relaxed and go with the flow... but eh
Any tips to remain powerful + alpha style during concerts?
Radiohead concert + me&her... something has to happen or its a done deal. This girl has been giving me mixed signals for a month. Hard to describe.
I know if I plan this out... it will fail miserably . I need to learn to be relaxed and go with the flow... but eh
Any tips to remain powerful + alpha style during concerts?
Just one question though. Assuming OKC girl is legit, and other girl says yes, how would I go about playing off if the date with OKC girl was extremely successful?
ThanksVision
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Someone tell me how to get over a girl I see everyday for the majority of the day. I am infatuated, and it's killing me.
playing off?
you can date more than 1 girl at a time
not sure why you'd ever mention one to the other, especially on/around the first date.
you seem wayyyy too emotionally invested in putting the relationship on the pedestal man
I left out a word: Playing it off.
I guess that makes sense, it's just something I've never had experience with doing before.
electricshake
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Argh I have no idea what to put on my stupid ok cupid profile.
NotTheGuyYouKill
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Write about why you're awesome and someone that's good enough to hang out with.
Just don't make yourself look super-arrogant or douchey.
Joel Was Right
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This is what I put for mine after a few hours of scratching my head
Joel Was Right
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Lol.
Need to shorten it I suppose but have no idea what to write as I can't describe myself.
Need to shorten it I suppose but have no idea what to write as I can't describe myself.
Devolution
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So I went single on my okc as an experiment yesterday (I got timedog's permission since I didn't feel comfortable doing it otherwise) and it kind of bothers me how it decided to shout it to the world (I guess it would be best to do this when you are ready to be courted again) but still I had no idea it would blare it so loudly and my visitor number surged. And it made me realize how easily one could troll this site either faking a profile or using it as an ego boost of sorts. I wouldn't know the solution to this phenomenon either, it just kind of made me aware of how difficult this shit can be from the man's perspective.
electricshake
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Joel Was Right
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Biff
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Better?
I don't know what I'm doing
Just the third paragraph. That's it. Cut everything else out.
The other parts have depressing stuff in it. Like going to the movies alone... Wut. Don't be that honest.
If you want more edits you're going to have to cut-and-paste the text from your profile. We can't work with these screengrabs
Edit: leave the part about being confused for a girl in only if you're a good looking guy. If you actually look like a girl then don't draw attention to it.
Joel Was Right
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Can't have the text here...they might trace me back to GAF and unravel the horror there is under my name!!
Followed your advice, thanks
Followed your advice, thanks
This wouldn't exactly be exclusive to OKC though, you could do this with any free dating site....
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Biff
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Ok that's actually pretty clever. Paranoid, but clever. I was wondering why you were screencapping everything
Devolution
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Right. But guys who get down about these thinks should realize that women aren't necessarily rejecting their messages so much as they picked a troll or someone who wouldn't be replying in the first place and to keep on keepin' on.
By asking her out (unless she's married or a relative).
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