CrazedProfessional
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I did like so many times in a row, didn't work she was like I want to just be friends then when I was like Okay and about to walk away it was a more "No, WAIT!" affair. Silly Silly.
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I think you should find someone else. Girl that doesn't know what she wants translates to troublesome...
AdventureRacing
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That's exactly what has happened with me. It has been a learning experience that's for sure.
Wauw. Wtf did I do to girls.
Speaking to a girl on that site. She's like yeah you shouldn't make a profile on here cause you don't look like the normal belgian guy's you like turkish/moroccan guy and we don't like them.
WOW... I'm only half fucking morrocan but still Wow can't believe what she just said to me.
I didn't even asked for this..
Speaking to a girl on that site. She's like yeah you shouldn't make a profile on here cause you don't look like the normal belgian guy's you like turkish/moroccan guy and we don't like them.
WOW... I'm only half fucking morrocan but still Wow can't believe what she just said to me.
I didn't even asked for this..
Thanks! That's how I see it too. It really took a long time to get through the break up, but I'm over it. Break ups are fucking tough and it took months to recover. Rebounds helped a lot. My ex has been really nice to me the last couple of days and texts me a lot suddenly. Dunno what's up.
EMERGENCY, EMERGENCY:
So got some new shelves today, I had all my figures out of my room while I put them up. Took a few days for me to actually get it done, so my room was like this for a day or so, felt so empty.
Back to this: (an hour ago)
Oh My God.
Oh dear.....
Atramental
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Something tells me that the tissue box, in the second photo, will be used up before the end of this week.
youngplaya21
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I feel so ashamed to know what anime those pillows are from....
So could a guy ever get a girl looking like this?
Probably. Would be a lot easier with a haircut and a nice pair of pants though.
Get rid of the poster and the pillows and we'll call that a good start. The top picture actually looked normal.
Although to be fair, look what thread you pulled that from EviLore. I don't frequent that thread, so maybe that's abnormal, even for that thread though.
Is it ok if I don't like long pants?
That isn't my house.
I was talking to the post EviLore made way above yours, you just cut in before I could post it. I'll make that more clear.
Wear whatever you want, and own it. If someone doesn't like it, who are they to judge? The fact that you even asked the question though, tell a story of its own. You don't believe in yourself and really need to start liking yourself as your first priority. You'd see a lot more success in life if you stopped caring so much
It seems to me that you're trying to change your clothing and seeking approval so you can get laid more (or for the first time, I don't know). That is not the way to go about it though. You can't dress up your broken inner self with fancy clothes, it'll always shine through. Trust me, I know from my own experiences.So yes, it's "ok" to not like long pants. If you don't, then wear short ones, who cares? It's not your clothing or long hair that's holding you back, it's your broken mind and inner self and nothing else.
Edit: For what's it's worth, I didn't see who it was that posted that picture but my first thought was "hey, isn't that Raw Power?". And it was obviously. That means you're recognizable and not just an insignificant blip on the radar, right?
Pollux
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So could a guy ever get a girl looking like this?
Definitely, but like others say, shorter hair and jeans are more traditional. There's definitely some girls that like long hair guys though. Not the most revealing picture with regards to face, body, height, but you're good enough that you could have any woman depending on how you handle yourself, money, and so on. That's not to say you're perfect and don't work on yourself. Everything you do improves your overall chances of success with more and more picky women.
I don't like long pants normally, but if I'm on a date I put on nice (dark, good fitting) jeans.
Money lets you do things. It lets you drive places in cars, or even cool / luxury cars, it lets you buy dinner and drinks. It lets you buy cool clothes and get medical care so you don't look all sickly. You can buy good food with it too!
Everyone has their different relationship with money, but most people like nice things. There's a lot of girls that won't need you to have much money, but you can't be broke and reliant on her unless she's very giving / sugar momma.
PSTEC would no doubt get rid of a lot of things, and it may even help manage OCD a bit. But OCD cannot sadly be cured yet (like all mental disorders).
You can manage it a great extent (mostly with CBT), but not cure it.
Having said that I can see why PSTEC could potentially help, so I'll give it a go!
Very true.
It's less about my looks since I actually do look rather young, but rather my mentality.
I'm still in the frame of mind of wanting a bit of fun.
I feel I've missed out a lot, and that's simply the reason I'm panicking.
Firstly great post man, really has lightened me up a bit!
Without having a job I just simply have the frame of mind that I'd be trapped, despite that not being the case.
One of the companies I'm aiming for is contract based, and I think for where I am right now that'd work best. After that I'd really like to go traveling as you said, and it's definitely something I'll do in a few years.
There's so much I want to do in my life right now, and I must do it. I enjoy various forms of art, and I really don't give myself enough credit of what I can actually do. Because of this I'd definitely like to mix things up a lot, and perhaps become a freelance jack of all trades. Alongside all of this I'm really determined to get my band going, not only because I enjoy playing, but because gigging would really help open me up as a person.
Only because you say things like that
However, it won't change completely over night. You gotta be patient with these things. It's no fun otherwise 
Good for you that you are trying, keep at it!I actually printed my "story" today so I'm working on it too. I've been deprecating my entire life basically and I'm bored with it
Also started a "the contest" with a buddy of mine. Gonna be an interesting month...I understand, but I'm reluctant to go overboard with it because I don't want to attract women for whom money will be a central component in our relationship.
Attackthebase
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Before he fixes his room, I want him to bring a woman in there. I want the lols.
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Leeroy3101
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Is it possible that the friend zone is something too many men and women blame themselves, or the other person involved, for falling into? It seems like this word that ends up becoming a blanket reason for everything and anything?
Vermillion
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Now, now, that's mean. You know which thread you pulled that from
I don't think he's looking for anyone
Vermillion
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I figured it was when you moved too slow and ended up missing your window as the other person thinks of you as a friend/sibling.
Not the same as rejection, IMO.
it doesn't exist to me
NotTheGuyYouKill
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Who teases you for the way you look? You're 20 something, right? If people your age haven't grown out that assholish behaviour, then fuck them.
If someone teases you, just give them the death glare. They will shut the fuck up quick, dude.
I can see you pulling The Glare off.
I'm still waiting for that photo of you in a jacket and tie. Just so you know.
Who teases you for the way you look? You're 20 something, right? If people your age haven't grown out that assholish behaviour, then fuck them.
If someone teases you, just give them the death glare. They will shut the fuck up quick, dude.
I can see you pulling The Glare off.
I'm still waiting for that photo of you in a jacket and tie. Just so you know.
It's usually college kids in the safety of their cars, and middle and high school kids (I live near both). A lot of the 30 somethings I see sometimes feel threatened by me, for whatever reason. Parents will nudge their children away from me and girls my age or older/younger will cross the street as I pass them. They must think I'm a crazy person or something. D:
oh me oh my
I don't want my post to get lost on the last page.
It's usually college kids in the safety of their cars, and middle and high school kids (I live near both). A lot of the 30 somethings I see sometimes feel threatened by me, for whatever reason. Parents will nudge their children away from me and girls my age or older/younger will cross the street as I pass them. They must think I'm a crazy person or something.
I hate people so much.
Who teases you for the way you look? You're 20 something, right? If people your age haven't grown out that assholish behaviour, then fuck them.
If someone teases you, just give them the death glare. They will shut the fuck up quick, dude.
I can see you pulling The Glare off.
I'm still waiting for that photo of you in a jacket and tie. Just so you know.
It's usually college kids in the safety of their cars, and middle and high school kids (I live near both). A lot of the 30 somethings I see sometimes feel threatened by me, for whatever reason. Parents will nudge their children away from me and girls my age or older/younger will cross the street as I pass them. They must think I'm a crazy person or something.
I hate people so much.
AzureSkies
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Okay guys.
Where to start? For the past week or so, I decided to make a move on a girl I liked, got her number and facebook and we chatted for a long time. It turned out that she had a gigantic crush on me. Keep in mind that I'm currently in High School and I've had quite a bit of relationships before. We decided that we'd go on a date today, it went pretty well but felt awkward at the same time. She didn't feel like the same person that I had met and enjoyed being with.
I asked her out and she said yes. At one point we were talking about past boyfriends, she was saying how she dumped this guy after he bought her expensive jewelry etc. This came off to me as a completely different person to the woman that I originally met. She sounded like someone who I really wouldn't want to be with and I was having serious regrets. Three hours later I got a text from her saying that we should just be friends because it's going too fast. At this time I got a message from a friend on Skype saying that she checked her tumblr and from the posts she can see that she was going out with a guy at least two weeks ago and there's a high chance that I was just a rebound.
She still wants to go out with me though, I just don't like the idea of being toyed around more. I just said that I feel that our personalities clashed too much and that we should leave it at that. I basically friendzoned her after she tried to friendzone me. I'm not going to regret what I did, I just feel like the girl that I knew before I started dating her for that small period of time was a completely different person that I absolutely enjoyed spending time with and that I wish this was how she really was.
Where to start? For the past week or so, I decided to make a move on a girl I liked, got her number and facebook and we chatted for a long time. It turned out that she had a gigantic crush on me. Keep in mind that I'm currently in High School and I've had quite a bit of relationships before. We decided that we'd go on a date today, it went pretty well but felt awkward at the same time. She didn't feel like the same person that I had met and enjoyed being with.
I asked her out and she said yes. At one point we were talking about past boyfriends, she was saying how she dumped this guy after he bought her expensive jewelry etc. This came off to me as a completely different person to the woman that I originally met. She sounded like someone who I really wouldn't want to be with and I was having serious regrets. Three hours later I got a text from her saying that we should just be friends because it's going too fast. At this time I got a message from a friend on Skype saying that she checked her tumblr and from the posts she can see that she was going out with a guy at least two weeks ago and there's a high chance that I was just a rebound.
She still wants to go out with me though, I just don't like the idea of being toyed around more. I just said that I feel that our personalities clashed too much and that we should leave it at that. I basically friendzoned her after she tried to friendzone me. I'm not going to regret what I did, I just feel like the girl that I knew before I started dating her for that small period of time was a completely different person that I absolutely enjoyed spending time with and that I wish this was how she really was.
Pollux
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Have you thought of rocking the pony tail?
Been there, done that.
lawlohwhat
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High school drama. Stay away.
luckyboyceo
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If she's not mature enough to know what she wants, there's no reason to even bother with her.
What kind of stuff do you deal with? Is it just the hair? Is it the way you dress? There's always things you can change IF you want to 'fit in' better and vice versa.
If the hair isn't working for you, lose it. If you like it, live it. If you're out of shape you can get in shape. You have a lot of options, ultimately you are in control here, and you're not a freak that would stand out if you made some small steps to become a normal boring person.
Anyways, on my side things are finally (although a few weeks of relative slowness wasn't bad) starting to pick up again, and as they say, when it rains it pours.
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