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[Liu Kang Baking A Pie]

So last Saturday I hung out with a girl and its very obvious we clicked. We went bowling and to Batman because she wanted to see it. Afterwards we made out and talked about everything for maybe like... almost four hours into the morning until my car battery died because I'm retarded (she stuck around and helped me charge it up, making out in the rain while we waited). She said after this she'd be super duper busy, which I understand but I texted her Tuesday night and once (talking about her play she's performing in) Wednesday night, but she hasn't gotten back to me. (We texted several times a day before and after the date) Should I be worried? I really liked her and in person she liked me too, but over texts she seems lackadaisical (though I wonder if that's because of her work) and doesn't seem to respond to my flirting when I do it (like just takes the compliment but doesn't give one back)

What do I do? I don't want to scare her off because she's pretty awesome, but I'm worried.

edit: I messaged her going "you weren't kidding about being super busy I hope you have some free time at some point to hang out again, but I understand if you're booked!"

If she doesn't reply to that then I give up

Not sure that last message was necessary. She got your other ones.

Best advice: ignore her. It works. It makes her wonder rather than you like you are now. If she likes you, she'll get to you.

 

[Ghost_Protocol]

So last Saturday I hung out with a girl and its very obvious we clicked. We went bowling and to Batman because she wanted to see it. Afterwards we made out and talked about everything for maybe like... almost four hours into the morning until my car battery died because I'm retarded (she stuck around and helped me charge it up, making out in the rain while we waited). She said after this she'd be super duper busy, which I understand but I texted her Tuesday night and once (talking about her play she's performing in) Wednesday night, but she hasn't gotten back to me. (We texted several times a day before and after the date) Should I be worried? I really liked her and in person she liked me too, but over texts she seems lackadaisical (though I wonder if that's because of her work) and doesn't seem to respond to my flirting when I do it (like just takes the compliment but doesn't give one back)

What do I do? I don't want to scare her off because she's pretty awesome, but I'm worried.

edit: I messaged her going "you weren't kidding about being super busy I hope you have some free time at some point to hang out again, but I understand if you're booked!"

If she doesn't reply to that then I give up

This kind of bullshit is why I don't get my hopes up for any girl anymore until we've gone on 3 or 4 dates. Because by then, I don't have to wonder about whether she's interested. As a general rule, at least in my experience, the word "busy" is bullshit. Girls are glued to their phones 24/7 and it takes no time at all to send a quick response to a text. For whatever reason, she doesn't want to talk to you right now. Don't text her again, don't call her, just wait. If she doesn't get back to you by Saturday, it will have been a whole week, and that means she doesn't care. People make time to talk to the people they want to.

My advice is to try as hard as possible to give as little a fuck as possible about any girl, no matter how well you "connect", until you've gone out on multiple dates.

 

[pheonix991]

There's a girl I've known for a little while now, and lately we've been spending a decent amount of time together. She and her boyfriend of four years broke up recently, but the situation was still sticky as he was still living with her (he was only thrown out into the living room, but that's mainly because she and the other roommate still needed him for rent). Within the past week though it was found out that he had been looking at her FB messages as well as her phone (including sending me a text as her), so naturally she was pissed. Because of this he's been staying at a friend's house and from what I've heard wants to stay as far away as possible. Of course, this girl just happens to be the cutest fucking girl I've ever met and we at least seem to enjoy each other's company, but apparently she doesn't want to get back into a relationship right now. That's understandable, but that was also what I was told before any of this was found out. Should I still try to take things slow with her, or should I try to make my move now?

Been there, done that. Either you're in the friend zone already, or you're on your way there if you keep sticking around for too long.

 

[hawkshockey11]

Roommate decided to go to a club and I decided to go as well. I knew clubs sucked and that I would most likely be standing still on the side but I went in with an open mind. Started as expected, but a very cute girl came up and asked me to dance. Things got heated and we made out for a long time and then her friends wanted to leave and she said bye and bounced. Didn't ask for a number because it was just drunk club grinding and it doesn't sound like to much but it is the first sexual encounter with a girl in a lonnngg time. I am back BABY!

 

[Log4Girlz]

Roommate decided to go to a club and I decided to go as well. I knew clubs sucked and that I would most likely be standing still on the side but I went in with an open mind. Started as expected, but a very cute girl came up and asked me to dance. Things got heated and we made out for a long time and then her friends wanted to leave and she said bye and bounced. Didn't ask for a number because it was just drunk club grinding and it doesn't sound like to much but it is the first sexual encounter with a girl in a lonnngg time. I am back BABY!

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[hawkshockey11]

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[disappeared]

Well guys, I need some advice.

Going on my second week of university, and I've been hanging out with a girl pretty much since school started. I met her by chance one evening out having a smoke. We get along nicely, and have similar interests and such. She's a genuinely great gal to talk to and hang around. But tonight was when the problem(s) started.

First of all, there's quite an age difference between us. I'm in my late twenties, and she's in her late teens. Now normally I don't think much of age so long as the two people get along, but it's been in the back of my mind since meeting her.

Second, we haven't slept together (but fooled around a bit). This is largely due to her not having slept with anybody before. So I'd be her first, and to be frank the thought of being her first terrifies the shit out of me. This is mainly because, simply, I don't know if I'm attracted to her fully. She seems very intelligent and well-spoken, but in terms of being physically attracted to her... I just don't know.

This leads me to think that something long term with her just isn't in the cards.

So back to what I said about this evening, I visited her at her place and we went to her room and she went down on me. After it was done she left and came back and was upset. She said she felt like I was just using her.

Now this is plainly not true, because I've always been grateful for any girl who gives me more than the time of day. I respect her too much to use her, but for the most part our "relationship" thus far has been nothing but physical stuff.

I just don't want this situation to continue, especially if things escalate and we were to sleep together. I'd feel terrible about myself if this happened. In all honesty I never even wanted a relationship with anyone right now. I want to focus on school.

She said she wants some time away, and she'd talk to me next week.

I'm at a loss as to what to do.

 

[hawkshockey11]

Well guys, I need some advice.

Going on my second week of university, and I've been hanging out with a girl pretty much since school started. I met her by chance one evening out having a smoke. We get along nicely, and have similar interests and such. She's a genuinely great gal to talk to and hang around. But tonight was when the problem(s) started.

First of all, there's quite an age difference between us. I'm in my late twenties, and she's in her late teens. Now normally I don't think much of age so long as the two people get along, but it's been in the back of my mind since meeting her.

Second, we haven't slept together (but fooled around a bit). This is largely due to her not having slept with anybody before. So I'd be her first, and to be frank the thought of being her first terrifies the shit out of me. This is mainly because, simply, I don't know if I'm attracted to her fully. She seems very intelligent and well-spoken, but in terms of being physically attracted to her... I just don't know.

This leads me to think that something long term with her just isn't in the cards.

So back to what I said about this evening, I visited her at her place and we went to her room and she went down on me. After it was done she left and came back and was upset. She said she felt like I was just using her.

Now this is plainly not true, because I've always been grateful for any girl who gives me more than the time of day. I respect her too much to use her, but for the most part our "relationship" thus far has been nothing but physical stuff.

I just don't want this situation to continue, especially if things escalate and we were to sleep together. I'd feel terrible about myself if this happened. In all honesty I never even wanted a relationship with anyone right now. I want to focus on school.

She said she wants some time away, and she'd talk to me next week.

I'm at a loss as to what to do.

Make a decision. Do you want to attempt a relationship with her or not? If not then tell her exactly why you can't.

 

[disappeared]

I understand. The answer is fairly simple, I know. It's just going to be difficult telling her.

 

[Log4Girlz]

Well guys, I need some advice.

Going on my second week of university, and I've been hanging out with a girl pretty much since school started. I met her by chance one evening out having a smoke. We get along nicely, and have similar interests and such. She's a genuinely great gal to talk to and hang around. But tonight was when the problem(s) started.

First of all, there's quite an age difference between us. I'm in my late twenties, and she's in her late teens. Now normally I don't think much of age so long as the two people get along, but it's been in the back of my mind since meeting her.

Second, we haven't slept together (but fooled around a bit). This is largely due to her not having slept with anybody before. So I'd be her first, and to be frank the thought of being her first terrifies the shit out of me. This is mainly because, simply, I don't know if I'm attracted to her fully. She seems very intelligent and well-spoken, but in terms of being physically attracted to her... I just don't know.

This leads me to think that something long term with her just isn't in the cards.

So back to what I said about this evening, I visited her at her place and we went to her room and she went down on me. After it was done she left and came back and was upset. She said she felt like I was just using her.

Now this is plainly not true, because I've always been grateful for any girl who gives me more than the time of day. I respect her too much to use her, but for the most part our "relationship" thus far has been nothing but physical stuff.

I just don't want this situation to continue, especially if things escalate and we were to sleep together. I'd feel terrible about myself if this happened. In all honesty I never even wanted a relationship with anyone right now. I want to focus on school.

She said she wants some time away, and she'd talk to me next week.

I'm at a loss as to what to do.

Be honest and tell her exactly what you just told us. She will be pissed of course.

 

[Gvaz]

Well that's real good then. Either she really is super busy and will find time to contact you soon, or she changed her mind and is moving on.

No matter which one of those two it is, there's nothing you can do about it so just do your best to relax and hope for the best right now. It sounds like you two had a great time. I'm sure it's just that she's so busy or something.

Not sure that last message was necessary. She got your other ones.

Best advice: ignore her. It works. It makes her wonder rather than you like you are now. If she likes you, she'll get to you.

This kind of bullshit is why I don't get my hopes up for any girl anymore until we've gone on 3 or 4 dates. Because by then, I don't have to wonder about whether she's interested. As a general rule, at least in my experience, the word "busy" is bullshit. Girls are glued to their phones 24/7 and it takes no time at all to send a quick response to a text. For whatever reason, she doesn't want to talk to you right now. Don't text her again, don't call her, just wait. If she doesn't get back to you by Saturday, it will have been a whole week, and that means she doesn't care. People make time to talk to the people they want to.

My advice is to try as hard as possible to give as little a fuck as possible about any girl, no matter how well you "connect", until you've gone out on multiple dates.

She actually responded to me after that text. She just got back from her ensemble rehearsal of The Wiz. We talked for a few hours again over text.

She had also not commented on an earlier text, and then apologized and mentioned it.

So I guess she really was busy...

 

[snoopen]

Hey, I was just wondering if this is being creepy:

Generally speaking, things aren't creepy unless you overthink them, be forceful and make them creepy.

 

[MoGamesXNA]

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[Pastry]

Shit just got real GAF. It's date night tomorrow night and I'm not feeling that alpha right now. I was primed earlier today.

Ideally she'll just shrink her nose up in disgust early on in the date and walk out so that I can head to the local Pizza House and gorge myself while playing some pinball.

I... what? Ideally? Come on. Nothing changed from earlier today to now. Keep your head up, stay positive, and enjoy yourself tomorrow. Try to not bring any of this negativity into the date. If she agreed to a date then she is obviously already interested in you.

 

[mjc]

Need a bit of advice GAF, although it might just be that I need to vent a bit.

So I met this girl about a month ago. We've been on 4 or 5 dates since then and things were going well. She's into a lot of the same stuff I am, she's fairly attractive, all that stuff. She's a really nice girl but I feel like the spark is starting to die off.

She doesn't have a car so she can't really go lots of places, and more often than not her conversation starters involve her problems at work. She doesn't seem to be energized about anything in particular. It just seems like we're going to be hitting a wall pretty quickly here and I don't want it to get to that point. I mean, it sucks being alone but if I'm feeling like the attraction is faltering, I should consider cutting it off right? Although I suppose before I do anything, the best thing to do would be to talk to her.

 

[SlipperySlope]

So anyway...

I know I shouldn't, but I still check up on my girlfriend's profile on OKCupid. She hasn't given me a reason not to trust her, but I get nervous. I'm in incognito mode. I just check to see if she's logged in. I check about once a week. When I'm not doing that my profile is deactivated.

Anyway, she hadn't logged in in about three weeks. Then yesterday I saw that she had logged in. Needless to say, I was a little concerned. I called her that night, but didn't bring it up. I won't bring it up, it'd sound creepy.

We were chatting like normal, then later she asked if I could send her a pic of me. So perhaps she logged in trying to locate my pictures, couldn't since my account was deactivated, then asked me directly?

I'll never be able to tell if she tried to access my profile since it was disabled, and I'm in incognito mode anyway.

Anyway, that's my update. I need to be more trusting.

Oh, regarding the pic, I asked if she wanted one with clothes or without. She said with. So I sent one. She later texted me that she'd like one without clothes. I replied that I could get her one by tomorrow. She replied don't bother, she'll take one herself of me this weekend.

 

[Perspicacity]

So the ex wants to come by tonight and drop off my stuff. Included in that is my old Wii which I had just informally given to her basically as a gift after she mentioned she wanted to do Wii Fit. I insisted that she keep it but she keeps saying she thought it was a loan and wants me to take it back.

Giving it back to me would be fine, except she mentioned that she is also dropping off my birthday present. It just kind of strikes me as a bit fucked up that she's forcing me to take a gift back and giving me a birthday present.
Also, I am definitely not ready to see her in person.

Not necessarily looking for advice here, just wanted to vent a bit.

 

[bjb]

So anyway...

I know I shouldn't, but I still check up on my girlfriend's profile on OKCupid. She hasn't given me a reason not to trust her, but I get nervous. I'm in incognito mode. I just check to see if she's logged in. I check about once a week. When I'm not doing that my profile is deactivated.

Anyway, she hadn't logged in in about three weeks. Then yesterday I saw that she had logged in. Needless to say, I was a little concerned. I called her that night, but didn't bring it up. I won't bring it up, it'd sound creepy.

We were chatting like normal, then later she asked if I could send her a pic of me. So perhaps she logged in trying to locate my pictures, couldn't since my account was deactivated, then asked me directly?

I'll never be able to tell if she tried to access my profile since it was disabled, and I'm in incognito mode anyway.

Anyway, that's my update. I need to be more trusting.

Oh, regarding the pic, I asked if she wanted one with clothes or without. She said with. So I sent one. She later texted me that she'd like one without clothes. I replied that I could get her one by tomorrow. She replied don't bother, she'll take one herself of me this weekend.

I'm not sure if I understand this correctly, but I know someone else brought up something similar. If your girlfriend is looking at dating sites, then it's time to move on. She is obviously NOT 100% committed to your relationship.

If she's doing it to you keep tabs on you - making sure you're not doing then same thing, then you guys have issues and need to resolve them. Otherwise it's doomed for failure.

Need a bit of advice GAF, although it might just be that I need to vent a bit.

So I met this girl about a month ago. We've been on 4 or 5 dates since then and things were going well. She's into a lot of the same stuff I am, she's fairly attractive, all that stuff. She's a really nice girl but I feel like the spark is starting to die off.

She doesn't have a car so she can't really go lots of places, and more often than not her conversation starters involve her problems at work. She doesn't seem to be energized about anything in particular. It just seems like we're going to be hitting a wall pretty quickly here and I don't want it to get to that point. I mean, it sucks being alone but if I'm feeling like the attraction is faltering, I should consider cutting it off right? Although I suppose before I do anything, the best thing to do would be to talk to her.

I can't really tell you what to do other than my own personal experience which is being around negative people sucks. Over time it will really drain you, and you will almost certainly feel dependent / responsible to make them happy.

 

[Omegasquash]

So the ex wants to come by tonight and drop off my stuff. Included in that is my old Wii which I had just informally given to her basically as a gift after she mentioned she wanted to do Wii Fit. I insisted that she keep it but she keeps saying she thought it was a loan and wants me to take it back.

Giving it back to me would be fine, except she mentioned that she is also dropping off my birthday present. It just kind of strikes me as a bit fucked up that she's forcing me to take a gift back and giving me a birthday present.
Also, I am definitely not ready to see her in person.

Not necessarily looking for advice here, just wanted to vent a bit.

Good luck, and stand your ground on everything. You know what's cool and what's not, because you define those boundaries.

 

[Xun]

They were complaining about being too disusting for your tastes

Dancing guy: Now's a perfect time to learn to dance. Make yourself a better person

Ha, I guess so.

To be honest I don't think they were talking about me, but my mind always likes to jump to the worst conclusions, especially when drinking.

Fact after that a cute girl gave me a huge smile, but I kind of ignored that stupidly.

 

[CrudeDiatribe]

Anyway, that's my update. I need to be more trusting.

Delete your OkCupid account then.

If your girlfriend is looking at dating sites, then it's time to move on. She is obviously NOT 100% committed to your relationship.

If she's doing it to you keep tabs on you - making sure you're not doing then same thing, then you guys have issues and need to resolve them. Otherwise it's doomed for failure.

Regarding the former, OkCupid can be a fun site even if you're in a relationship and have no interests in upgrades or dalliances. It could be a warning sign, but it could be nothing.

Agree with the latter about spying on each other.

 

[Loona]

Anyway, she hadn't logged in in about three weeks. Then yesterday I saw that she had logged in. Needless to say, I was a little concerned. I called her that night, but didn't bring it up. I won't bring it up, it'd sound creepy.

Maybe someone sent her a message and she just logged in to read it, I know that if I was sent a message I'd at least bother to check it, even if I wouldn't reply. At least checking the e-mail notifications I get about those, the whole message doesn't appear, just the beginning, so I'd have to log in to read the full thing.

 

[SlipperySlope]

Maybe someone sent her a message and she just logged in to read it, I know that if I was sent a message I'd at least bother to check it, even if I wouldn't reply. At least checking the e-mail notifications I get about those, the whole message doesn't appear, just the beginning, so I'd have to log in to read the full thing.

She has a dumb phone which can't do OKCupid.

 

[RionaaM]

I can't really tell you what to do other than my own personal experience which is being around negative people sucks. Over time it will really drain you, and you will almost certainly feel dependent / responsible to make them happy.

The same applies for girls hanging out with negative dudes, right? I really should work on that. Self-loathing and depression bring nothing good, and seem to act like a women repeller. It'll be hard, but it has to be done.

Or I could be alone for the rest of my life and stay at home all day, playing video games. But the former seems more attractive to me.

 

[Perspicacity]

Good luck, and stand your ground on everything. You know what's cool and what's not, because you define those boundaries.

Thank you. To be honest I'm most worried about myself crossing some boundaries, I still love her and want her in my life as a friend but saying anything would be bound to hurt us both.

She has a dumb phone which can't do OKCupid.

You don't find it just a tad bit hypocritical to be worried about her going on OKC when you're doing the same? You're just bring more discrete about it.

 

[Minamu]

Ha, I guess so.

To be honest I don't think they were talking about me, but my mind always likes to jump to the worst conclusions, especially when drinking.

Fact after that a cute girl gave me a huge smile, but I kind of ignored that stupidly.

I know the feeling. Yes, some girls aren't gonna like you, but there's three billion of them so who cares what their opinion is And as you say, some of them smile at you so some obviously like you in some way Personally, I feel a need to start talking more when I'm out. Even just a simple hello to people around me on the dance floor. Most of them get ignored unless they initiate. Not sure why that's important in the long run though. I must let go of this desire.

SlipperySlope: You need to stop being creepy When are you gonna see what we see and realize that a serious relationship is NOT the best thing for you at this time?

 

[Omegasquash]

Thank you. To be honest I'm most worried about myself crossing some boundaries, I still love her and want her in my life as a friend but saying anything would be bound to hurt us both.

If things keep up the way they are, I'll be drunk tonight from all the drinks I need to have in the name of GAFfers that need relationship healing. Keep where you stand in mind and at the forefront.

 

[TheSchwab_7]

She sounds like a loser. Why are you with her? What are her positive qualities?

I'm really debating why I'm with her. Yesterday was my birthday, but I had to teach from 8-3 and had class from 3-5 right after that so it's a pretty long day for me. Anyway, I go home and text my girlfriend to tell me when she's close and I lay in bed just to rest my eyes for a bit, but I end up falling asleep. So when my girlfriend comes over, my roommate lets her in and she wakes me up when she gets here. Since I'm really tired and rather grumpy when I wake up, I just lay in bed for a little longer talking to her.

We end up going to a restaurant I like for dinner. When we get there, she takes out her phone and starts texting or browsing facebook or something. She's clearly more focused on her phone, so I tell her to put it away. She gets all pissed off and shit about it and doesn't talk for the rest of the meal. I ask her what's wrong and she doesn't say anything. I ask her why she isn't talking and she says she doesn't know what to talk about. So when the check comes I end up paying since she didn't say anything at all about her paying. So I'm like great I have to pay for my own birthday dinner.

We get in the car and she's like are we gonna talk about what happened? We end up arguing about me telling her to put her phone away since it was something stupid for me to get upset about and that. Then I got mad cause I had to pay the check and she's like oh I was going to, and I'm like you didn't say a single word all night about paying.

Idk, it was a shitty night overall. I mean it was my birthday, so I expected things to be about me for once in our relationship, but nope.

 

[Cubsfan23]

you guys need to start brainwashing yourselves

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Khmk4yRP0i8#t=0s

 

[PumpkinPie]

I was going through a period of dwelling on the past and beating myself up over a failed relationship from long ago, and then out of nowhere this girl added me to Facebook and I've become good friends with her. It's like fate or something. I never approach girls but this looks like an opportunity too good to miss, Imma ask her if she want to go to the zoo with me. Fuck those normal boring dates.

I feel like a changed man recently. Normally I'm worried about taking chances, but now I'm thinking 'nothing ventured, nothing gained'. The worst that can happen is she says no.

 

[UFRA]

SlipperySlope: You need to stop being creepy When are you gonna see what we see and realize that a serious relationship is NOT the best thing for you at this time?

No kidding. Every time this dude posts it creeps me out and I worry for the girl.

 

[Bam Bam Baklava]

you guys need to start brainwashing yourselves

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Khmk4yRP0i8#t=0s

I can't even tell if this is a joke post coming from you.

 

[Minamu]

you guys need to start brainwashing yourselves

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Khmk4yRP0i8#t=0s

Thanks, will download

I can't even tell if this is a joke post coming from you.

No, it's real, alright. Free your mind

No kidding. Every time this dude posts it creeps me out and I worry for the girl.

I know, right? It's so frustrating to see advice being ignored. Good opportunity to be carefree though. This thread is excellent for that.

 

[g23]

Was at the bar last night and hear from a friend that this girl that i'm into when asked what she thought about me "reminds me of her brother". So right then i was like Fuuuuu! am i getting friend zoned?

Anyways later that night and a few drinks in, said girl starts getting really touchy with me and we eventually ended up grinding on the dance floor. Thing is we always tend to end up flirting and feeling up on each other every time we hang out. We're not dating or anything, but their is obviously a connection there that i'm sensing. Anyways first time on this thread haha, any advice GAF?

 

[UFRA]

Was at the bar last night and hear from a friend that this girl that i'm into when asked what she thought about me "reminds me of her brother". So right then i was like Fuuuuu! am i getting friend zoned?

Anyways later that night and a few drinks in, said girl starts getting really touchy with me and we eventually ended up grinding on the dance floor. Thing is we always tend to end up flirting and feeling up on each other every time we hang out. We're not dating or anything, but their is obviously a connection there that i'm sensing. Anyways first time on this thread haha, any advice GAF?

Take it for what it's worth, but I've read numerous sources that say when a girl thinks of you like her brother you are friendzoned.

All I'd say is go with the flow and see what happens, but don't get your hopes up or try to push too hard for anything.

 

[demon]

you guys need to start brainwashing yourselves

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Khmk4yRP0i8#t=0s

YOU ATTRACT BABES

BABES ATTRACT YOU

YOU'RE A BABE MAGNET


c'mon dude.

 

[pheonix991]

Well, cock blocked by this girl's work, and her living like 25 minutes from me. Why do I have to like the pretty smart ones with ambitions, and working 2 jobs while going to school full time... Such a curse.

 

[Perspicacity]

So the ex just came by to drop off my stuff. We didn't say more than a couple words...
The birthday present was a shaving kit and a really nice scrapbook of a trip we took back in May. I don't remember a time I've felt worse than right now.

 

[Entropia]

So the ex just came by to drop off my stuff. We didn't say more than a couple words...
The birthday present was a shaving kit and a really nice scrapbook of a trip we took back in May. I don't remember a time I've felt worse than right now.

Stay strong and enjoy King of Trios this weekend! ;D

 

[Fou-Lu]

I'm starting to think that girls like me BECAUSE I'm disinterested in them or something. Every girl I express interest in rejects me, but girls I hold no interest in and mostly have nothing to do with come out of no where with confessions. I also think I'd rather be rejected than be the one to reject people, makes me feel terrible.

 

[Perspicacity]

Stay strong and enjoy King of Trios this weekend! ;D

Thanks. Better now, but that was really brutal at first. I wanted to curl up and die or hop in my car and chase after her. I still want to call but I'm pushing that down. Hope this doesn't bum me out or fuck with my head during my OKC date tomorrow.

 

[Vermillion]

I give up. Tonight, I saw my friend who does literally nothing make out with a chick for like 15 minutes (then 45 more that I wasn't around for). Want to know how this went? He was talking to me, he turned, girl asked his name... end of story. He didn't come back with her b/c of her friend, but honestly - standard night for him.

FML. Sorry, just venting. Keep trying every one else!

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

I give up. Tonight, I saw my friend who does literally nothing make out with a chick for like 15 minutes (then 45 more that I wasn't around for). Want to know how this went? He was talking to me, he turned, girl asked his name... end of story. He didn't come back with her b/c of her friend, but honestly - standard night for him.

FML. Sorry, just venting. Keep trying every one else!

What.... how?

You should ask him for tips. I wanna know how he got from Point A to Point D.

 

[Vermillion]

I try to force HIM to make moves. He never does. So...

 

[Bam Bam Baklava]

I give up. Tonight, I saw my friend who does literally nothing make out with a chick for like 15 minutes (then 45 more that I wasn't around for). Want to know how this went? He was talking to me, he turned, girl asked his name... end of story. He didn't come back with her b/c of her friend, but honestly - standard night for him.

FML. Sorry, just venting. Keep trying every one else!

Some people just got it going on. Can't do much about that.

 

[Log4Girlz]

I'm really debating why I'm with her. Yesterday was my birthday, but I had to teach from 8-3 and had class from 3-5 right after that so it's a pretty long day for me. Anyway, I go home and text my girlfriend to tell me when she's close and I lay in bed just to rest my eyes for a bit, but I end up falling asleep. So when my girlfriend comes over, my roommate lets her in and she wakes me up when she gets here. Since I'm really tired and rather grumpy when I wake up, I just lay in bed for a little longer talking to her.

We end up going to a restaurant I like for dinner. When we get there, she takes out her phone and starts texting or browsing facebook or something. She's clearly more focused on her phone, so I tell her to put it away. She gets all pissed off and shit about it and doesn't talk for the rest of the meal. I ask her what's wrong and she doesn't say anything. I ask her why she isn't talking and she says she doesn't know what to talk about. So when the check comes I end up paying since she didn't say anything at all about her paying. So I'm like great I have to pay for my own birthday dinner.

We get in the car and she's like are we gonna talk about what happened? We end up arguing about me telling her to put her phone away since it was something stupid for me to get upset about and that. Then I got mad cause I had to pay the check and she's like oh I was going to, and I'm like you didn't say a single word all night about paying.

Idk, it was a shitty night overall. I mean it was my birthday, so I expected things to be about me for once in our relationship, but nope.

That is unfucking acceptable. Listen, this is what's up. She's bored of you. This doesn't mean you're boring in general, she's just done with you. Its time to find someone you click with and move on. I recommend breaking things off ASAP. Her focusing on her social life and phone over you, especially on your birthday is reason enough.

 

[demonkaze]

So I'm still struggling to get over my ex that I broke up with 2 weeks ago (the one I see every day still and have to go on this shit holiday with) but today I'm meeting another girl that I've known for a long time.

Thing is, i know that I could probably fuck her tonight if I wanted (and I am really needing I get laid at the moment) but the problem is I can't stop thinking about my ex and I think I'll still be when I meet this other girl tonight.

Any advice?

 

[Resilient]

So I'm still struggling to get over my ex that I broke up with 2 weeks ago (the one I see every day still and have to go on this shit holiday with) but today I'm meeting another girl that I've known for a long time.

Thing is, i know that I could probably fuck her tonight if I wanted (and I am really needing I get laid at the moment) but the problem is I can't stop thinking about my ex and I think I'll still be when I meet this other girl tonight.

Any advice?

Rub one out to your ex right now and see how you feel after. No kidding. You'll know what to do afterwards.

 

[Anaslex]

So I'm still struggling to get over my ex that I broke up with 2 weeks ago (the one I see every day still and have to go on this shit holiday with) but today I'm meeting another girl that I've known for a long time.

Thing is, i know that I could probably fuck her tonight if I wanted (and I am really needing I get laid at the moment) but the problem is I can't stop thinking about my ex and I think I'll still be when I meet this other girl tonight.

Any advice?

Smile and try to have a good time with her. Whatever you do, don't bring up the ex.

 

[Log4Girlz]

So I'm still struggling to get over my ex that I broke up with 2 weeks ago (the one I see every day still and have to go on this shit holiday with) but today I'm meeting another girl that I've known for a long time.

Thing is, i know that I could probably fuck her tonight if I wanted (and I am really needing I get laid at the moment) but the problem is I can't stop thinking about my ex and I think I'll still be when I meet this other girl tonight.

Any advice?

Do what you can to have fun with the new girl. Man in your shoes I would totally get laid.