@danowat
Can't answer your questions by myself, butin the small Manual in the retail edition they mention this link.
http://guide.divinityoriginalsin-enhanced.com
Thanks!, I'll have a read of it.
Some of it is helpful, but it's a bit brief...
This is called delaying and can be executed by hitting the Delay Turn button. For instance, if you want to wait until a wizard has buffed you before hitting an enemy, delay your turn.
Interesting, is this available on console?, I've not seen it at all.
To examine a character, open the Action menu and use Examine. The higher your Loremaster skill, the more detailed the info you get.
So it's possible that the person I am trying to examine an enemy with has a low(er) loremaster skill than someone else.