My first HOTAS arrived and it's glorious. It's like the difference between playing on a sideways Wiimote/Joycon vs. a pro controller. Sure you can do almost everything on the former, but with the latter you simply have a greater sense of control.
I went with the X52 for VR cockpit immersion. Mounting to my chair took a bit, but in game it's plug and play. The best instant upgrade is improved galaxy map control; it's hell in VR with the default controller. There's definitely a steep learning curve for everything besides spatial orientation though. The most ridiculous is I'll launch without realizing the throttle isn't at zero, so I slam forward into a structure. I'm looking forward to weeks of customizing the buttons, knobs, and sliders. And as a complete noob to HOTAS, having a fire button under a flip-up thumb lock is fucking badass.
Elite noob questions: I'm having trouble identifying ships around me. Part of it is that I don't know if I'm "targeting" or "scanning," I can't tell if other ships are NPCs or PCs, I can't tell if they detect my targeting/scanning, or if that's a faux pas and it's rude to scan other ships. I want to check out other players' ships without being aggressive, and also better identify patrol ships if I ever want to be an outlaw. Please explain?