liliththepale
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Lea are you far from Munich? I should have tried to use some of my downtime the other day to come and find you >
Oooooh it was that guy. I'm sorry, I completely forgot about that.well this time it's more like I already know the guys in RL and we didn't even talk much online...they just suddenly came up to me being all "woooh let's do this!!" and I'm like "yeah okay! " and then they stop talking to me....like what kind of new shit is this? if they come up with the idea in the first place I expect them to suggest specifics. I'm not going to chase something I didn't even initiate.
I have my pride. damn Germans don't know hot to be smooth "$0945frk'##rf!
Lea are you far from Munich? I should have tried to use some of my downtime the other day to come and find you >
Is this the same guy from before that asked you out and then didn't give any details and flaked?
Hello friends, holy shit there's a lot of pages. Full of cute pale pics and great musix.
RHN let's move to Toronto.
oh wait, I missed something you were in Germany??
actually I am kinda far from Munich though. but I spent last saturday in Bavaria so maybe we were the closest we've ever been!
oh lol
Yeah, I had a four hour layover in Munich on the flight to New Delhi and five hours waiting there on the flight back.
it's a second guy but he's doing the same -_-
Did you venture outside at all? I liked Munich but I have a bit of a family attachment to it so I'm biased.Yeah, I had a four hour layover in Munich on the flight to New Delhi and five hours waiting there on the flight back.
Yo this girl's wicked cute why tf is she talking to me
That's very weird then. Without getting too personal, what are your interactions like after they ask you?
Did you venture outside at all? I liked Munich but I have a bit of a family attachment to it so I'm biased.
well with the last guy we actually talked almost the whole day through before it suddenly stopped. just casual topics, what we're doing right now, sending pics etc.
I don't think I was weird or anything like that.
with the guy before there wasn't really any follow up conversation. he asked me out, I said yes and then went to bed because it was late. he keeps liking my stuff on fb but never spoke of it again.
what's the story behind that girl?Munich is nice. I stayed in a hostel there overnight while waiting for my train to Vienna. Munich is also the reason I missed out on getting to know a really great girl more too.
Very odd. I would just put those two out of your mind then and move on. That's pretty weird behavior for people that are actively looking to meet.
Maybe they got cold feet when it came time to actually commit?
OKC just seems really hostile for women.
What's the story here?Munich is nice. I stayed in a hostel there overnight while waiting for my train to Vienna. Munich is also the reason I missed out on getting to know a really great girl more too.
Surprised Tinder hasn't been the same. Refreshing to hear actually.man the messages on OKcupid are getting creepier and more offensive every day. probably going to delete my profile and stick with Tinder.
ooh I see. probably would've taken me that much time to get there though lol.
how did you like the German airport?
Did you venture outside at all? I liked Munich but I have a bit of a family attachment to it so I'm biased.
What's the story here?
Surprised Tinder hasn't been the same. Refreshing to hear actually.
it's because only the people you liked can message you. it helps a lot with filtering out the bullshit. with OKC every psychopath can take a shot.
A lot of dating sites are like that. As several girls that I chatted with confirmed that abusive/weird guys are in majority and due to that a lot of (quite) normal guys end without any reply
I mean, you really don't get much to go off of on Tinder, but you're right there is at least some filter. My comment was more directed at the fact Tinder hasn't been too bad generally for you, not that it's at the same level as OKC.it's because only the people you liked can message you. it helps a lot with filtering out the bullshit. with OKC every psychopath can take a shot.
I mentioned it once but within five minutes of having an OKC profile some 18 y/o fedora wearing neck beard had tried to put the moves on me and it was baaaaaaaaad
That sounds nice Lili
How was the actual trip?
I mean, you really don't get much to go off of on Tinder, but you're right there is at least some filter. My comment was more directed at the fact Tinder hasn't been too bad generally for you, not that it's at the same level as OKC.
I got a message couple of days ago saying "you look so cute I'd almost feel bad hurting you"
like wtf
if you don't respond some of them insult you too. or just won't stop sending messages until you block them.
Yeah I've gotten shit like this
A mess
Trying to stay away from chocolate/everything that's bad for me and I'm about to FUCKING LOSE IT
let's just rule the nuclear wasteland together and kill all the creeps.
Me rnTrying to stay away from chocolate/everything that's bad for me and I'm about to FUCKING LOSE IT
I see that Lili is back!!!=O
That sounds nice Lili
How was the actual trip?
Hi
It was miraculous. I learned a lot and we were able to help a lot.
I posted more details back here btw (http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=205037126)
Im good for you. Come over here.
Me rn
They need to find junk food that makes you more beautiful, not less
Hello! I bet you had a great time over there, what was it like?=O
what's the story behind that girl?
yeah maybe but it's just like....a first date? I wasn't trying to marry them. idk. anyway..I'm trying to be happy being on my own right now. I can be as lazy as I want to.
What's the story here?
Mmmmm yes.
I wanna drop 10-15 kilos by the end of the year, but it's soo tough. Definitely gonna get there though. Zyzz will guide me.
Ohhh, I missed you so much! *gives virtual hug*It was miraculous. I learned a lot and we were able to help a lot.
I posted more details back here btw (http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=205037126)
Ohhh, I missed you so much! *gives virtual hug*
you're so freaking beautiful <3
Hello! I bet you had a great time over there, what was it like?=O
aw. reminds me of that Linklater film Before Sunrise.@trab, some guys will be raring to go until a girl actually agrees to meet up. then they get cold feet and shy away. It's weird, I know.
About the girl, I'm probably romanticizing it more than it deserves, but anyways.
While I was over there backpacking I was traveling from Lyon to Vienna. In Paris I switched trains, and after I sat down this really cute French girl sat down next to me. We started chatting and there was that really weird connection between us that you can't really explain. The whole train ride was just getting to know each other and sharing stories from France and the US. She was going to medical school in Paris and on her way back home to visit family.
I think her stop was Strasburg or somewhere, can't remember but it wasn't Munich. Anyways, I should have gotten off with her and just went with the flow (she asked if I wanted to). For some reason I thought my hostel reservation in Munich was more important though, so I stayed on the train. She even did the whole "turn, smile and wave longingly" while the train was leaving and watched from the station. I still kick myself for not getting off or at least trying to keep connected with her.
You got this.
lolThat only makes it grow. Spray me more