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FakeGAF 7: The Dark Thirst Rises

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Yeah, I know. I was just venting about my brain being garbo.

And being fair to me, I think most people would be freaking out about starting this shit at nearly 25 when almost everyone else has been doing it for years :p

I know people our age who are exactly where you are now. they just don't like to talk about it openly.
 

jb1234

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yes RNH it's nothing to feel shame over, it's not as unusual as you think. There are people in their 30s who just started dating, (I think JB openly said in here that that was the case for him) and that's fine too

That's correct. Didn't have sex (or date) until I was 35.
 

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
I'll send a dick pic if you don't call the doctor tomorrow.

Send it to me instead babe
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Jobbs

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Seaklng

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I wish she didn't work so much or maybe if her hours were a bit different, but I guess this works

I guess not enough of someone is better than too much..?
I could see problems either way.
For example: you might feel as if you aren't getting what you need from the equation if the former.

Or if too much, you might feel smothered.
 

Jobbs

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I could see problems either way.
For example: you might feel as if you aren't getting what you need from the equation if the former.

Or if too much, you might feel smothered.

I work from home and she hangs out here a lot when she's not working, which I like. I'm at the point where I wish she was around more, but I can also imagine a scenario where if someone was here 24/7 it could get to be too much

You can't miss someone and enjoy seeing them again if they're never gone. It's like how a movie or a song needs pacing, I think the same is true for relationships
 

Seaklng

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I work from home and she hangs out here a lot when she's not working, which I like. I'm at the point where I wish she was around more, but I can also imagine a scenario where if someone was here 24/7 it could get to be too much

You can't miss someone and enjoy seeing them again if they're never gone. It's like how a movie or a song needs pacing, I think the same is true for relationships
That actually doesn't sound bad then lol

I guess maybe I was projecting my feelings about my relationship. It's long-distance and it's very hard some times. I wish we could be together.
 

FUME5

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I work from home and she hangs out here a lot when she's not working, which I like. I'm at the point where I wish she was around more, but I can also imagine a scenario where if someone was here 24/7 it could get to be too much

You can't miss someone and enjoy seeing them again if they're never gone. It's like how a movie or a song needs pacing, I think the same is true for relationships

Having been dedicatedly single for most of my life I definitely need some space when it comes to relationships.

That actually doesn't sound bad then lol

I guess maybe I was projecting my feelings about my relationship. It's long-distance and it's very hard some times. I wish we could be together.

But not this much space.
 

Jobbs

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That actually doesn't sound bad then lol

I guess maybe I was projecting my feelings about my relationship. It's long-distance and it's very hard some times. I wish we could be together.

How long can a relationship survive being long distance? I don't mean to sound negative but it always seems to be a death sentence once it goes LD

(sorry if that's too negative, just an observation, I hope that's not the case for you)
 

Seaklng

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How long can a relationship survive being long distance? I don't mean to sound negative but it always seems to be a death sentence once it goes LD

(sorry if that's too negative, just an observation, I hope that's not the case for you)
Well its been going 3 years, so maybe it depends on the individuals lol
And we met online, so it's never been anything else.

I sound like such a fucking loser lol
 

jb1234

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How long can a relationship survive being long distance? I don't mean to sound negative but it always seems to be a death sentence once it goes LD

(sorry if that's too negative, just an observation, I hope that's not the case for you)

I think the general rule is that there has to be some sort of plan in place to move back in the same area, otherwise it's doomed to failure.
 

Seaklng

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I think the general rule is that there has to be some sort of plan in place to move back in the same area, otherwise it's doomed to failure.
I definitely think some plans need to be in place. Some goals for the relationship for both to work towards.
 
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Transhuman

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I'll love whoever I want, whenever I want, at whatever distance I want. Rules are for nerds.
 

jb1234

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I definitely think some plans need to be in place. Some goals for the relationship for both to work towards.

Yup. I do concur that relationships that start out online (both friendship and romantic) are much easier to maintain long distance because the needs and boundaries were established from the beginning.
 
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