Quick rant.
Wife and I are doing squats yesterday. Three guys are working out on the rack (doing rows...) and a pulldown plate machine next to us were watching the wife squat. At some point, one guy says "oh that ain't right, that ain't right, come on that ain't right" very loudly. My wife gets distracted and finishes early. She's pissed.
I move forward, I do my set, same comments but louder and more detailed: "when people come in the gym and lift too heavy their form is bad like this and they get hurt, people don't realize you need to drop that weight you can't handle that weight." I get distracted, finish the set early.
Rather than make eye contact, the same guy begins giving a tutorial to one of the others on how to squat "properly" (it wasn't proper). And doing so loudly, so that we can hear: "you see, people new (lol...) to the gym just want to throw big weight up and don't know what to do and then they get hurt, you gotta keep your toes like this, not like over there" etc.
As I move to confront, my wife grabs my arm and says she wants to end the workout early and leave because she's not comfortable being on the weight floor with them around providing a running critique of what she's doing.
This sort of bullshit is precisely what drives women, in particular, but all sorts of people relatively new to lifting weights away from the weight floor. She herself said that's why she's not comfortable doing it alone, and it took me months of consistent 4-5x weekly sessions to where only recently does she feel like she belongs on the weight floor.
Given that we're all regulars at this spot, for her sake, I hope we don't deal with this sort of passive-aggression again tonight.