this is very frustrating...
I come visit my parents in Mexico, the last time people here saw me was 7 months ago.
I arrive and I eat, sleep, and train well the last 10 days, my shirts feel tighter, when on a pump during workout I for once like what I see in the mirror, I do cardio more often, everything is nice, life is great.
yesterday three times in a row from different people, in less than 24 hours, I get comments like "well, you've got fat/chunky these months" or a variation of that and not in a positive way like "you've got noticeable gains" or anything. it's like a condescending "oh I am so sorry for your current state, I hope you get your shit together, keep at it, if you believe in your dreams maybe some day you'll achieve your goals"..
at first I roll my eyes, then I get confused and start second-guess everything.