Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me

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StarlordDial said:
Inb4 that message to the wife of the husband was something else


m.night shyamalan twist :P
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so this isn't the season finale?
 
Something tells me she wouldn't have been tearful in bed after sleeping with this guy as they planned.

She's upset because she got caught and realised there were consequences. She's not upset at having cheated. She no longer feels what she once did for you, OP. A series of emotional changes led to each decision she made with this other gentlemen and she will eventually come to realise that.

Both of you will be happier in the end. No one deserves to live a lie.

There are people out there who are capable of being faithful and then there are those like your ex-gf that cannot.

Don't settle for something like that.
 
I just want to let you guys know that I probably wouldn't be able to do it without your help. I'll keep you guys updated. And now I'm going to rest, tomorrow will be hard indeed.
Good night, NeoGAF <3
 
What a satisfying ending to this situation. Congrats you did the right thing.

When I got to the panties part, I was worried that you fucked her before telling her off. That would've been ice cold.
 
What an exciting thread to read. Thanks for the entertainment, OP. Hopefully you're not too torn up about it. Breaking up sucks, but you look like you'll be okay. And as they've said, you're better off without her.
 
Paging Infinite Patriot!

Good job man. I agree with others who said you did the right by telling the wife. If she was concerned with hurting his family, she wouldn't have cheated in the first place.
 
Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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LOOOOOOOL
 
Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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As Mr. Burns would say: "excellent"

Good for you OP, hope you find someone better.
 
dam bro that sucks break up with her, she doesn't feel the same as you do, don't even think to much about it, just do it, it will be faster and less harder to do. not worth your time and you to go crazy over, and if you really want to mess up his marriage like everyone said go ahead, that guys wife is getting same thing happening to her
 
ssolitare said:
Hopefully the husband doesn't get to it first, as the ex GF has probably already told him.
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True, if he thinks to go on FB and blocks contact from him, that would kill the message route even if he doesn't see it in the Other folder.

He can also block phone calls, but let's hope he doesn't think to do so.
 
Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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Nice. As others have said she doesn't care about the family. She is worried that her unfaithfulness will lose her two guys instead of one. She's doing damage control. Good choice on not giving her the hug. She was probably looking for something to interpret as forgiveness since there was clearly none coming from her mouth. I hope she has a hard time with this and treats anyone in her future better because she knows how this kind of thing can destroy lives. You did good by yourself, her and other people you will never meet. Plus you gave hope to one of the most cynical forums out there. Bravo. It's a belated Christmas Miracle.
 
Revoh you done good.

Ya done me proud son.

It's not worth any more bullshit and you did it right.

Now the fallout of the wife and husband begins.

We need to know details! Monday comes a reckoning...
 
Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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Well done, homie.
 
I bet that one GAF detective is bummed no one is quoting him anymore. Anyway, good job OP. You had a lot of dumb shit thrown at you these past few days from all sides and you've come out of it okay.
 
Dump her, wreck his marriage, maybe get both of them fired also. Rarely does one get the opportunity to wreak such delightful havoc when getting revenge. Good stuff OP
 
Well, after reading that, if I were you, I'd do anything I could to make her life miserable, and by that as you said, get her fired and id make sure that guys wife finds out too, im pretty berserk and determined to do these things when someone hurts me that much, go for it man, do it!

Edit/ Good job man!
 
Revoh said:
I just want to let you guys know that I probably wouldn't be able to do it without your help. I'll keep you guys updated. And now I'm going to rest, tomorrow will be hard indeed.
Good night, NeoGAF <3
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Good job man! Killed it today. Dumped her and made the effort to tell the wife of what's happening, because she deserves to know and shouldn't be kept in the dark. You did all that without being taken in by anger and doing revenge tactics.
 
I hope everyone else involved in a similar situation considers this as an important reference point.

That's exactly how you should handle infidelity. Some people are brainwired to cheat forever; others are faithful and loyal. Learn to stay away from incompatible mates.

Kudos to OP. Good job.
 
Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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Revoh said:
Update time. (Sorry, I couldn't record it)
I'm going to sum this up because I'm falling asleep so fucking hard right now.

She comes in, we go straight to the bedroom, I take her panties off and.. just kidding.

We talked about it.
I said I knew what's going on and she accepted it, she did a mistake and asked for my forgiveness.

I initially told her that I made a decision no matter what.
She cried a lot. Told me she would do anything to fix her shit up. Go to therapy, cut the two guys completely of her life, anything.
Yeah... no. Not this time. I don't want to leave it up to chance. Not anymore. I'm done suffering. We both are. She said she will not be able to handle it. She wants to stay with me. I said I can't do that, asked her to just leave. After like an hour of this back and forth we end up saying goodbye at my doorstep and my entire family comes from the Mall or some shit and they see her crying, it was bad. She said goodbye to everybody and then she just... left. She asked for a last hug and I didn't want to give her, so I feel kinda shitty about it. My mom asked me what happened "I don't want to see her suffer, why was she crying?", I didn't even said a word to her. And now I'm typing this.
That is all.
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You did the right thing. Now comes the recovery.

Edit: and that ether to his girlfriend? Just...beautiful.
Well done, OP
 
Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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Someone tag this man because he deserves it. Give him a good tag too. That was very G of you. I hope you sent all the records too this person's spouse. Wreck this man's home the way he wrecked yours.

There are far better dolphins in the ocean anyways.
 
Handled the situation exactly as you should have. Very good conclusion to a whirlwind of a thread. Job well done, everyone.

Jolly good show.
 
Revoh said:
The two guys as like "The Brothers". They both work with her but she is interested in only one of them.

Anyways, before leaving she asked me just one thing...
"Please, don't send anything to his wife, his family doesn't need to suffer all of this"
"I already did"
*She cries nonstop*

That felt gooood.
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I'm imagining you saying that like Batman.

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Good job OP. Enjoy that weed you saved for this moment. Get high and pass the fuck out. You fucking earned it. Shit, I am even going to smoke a blunt right now in your honor. Cheers mate!

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Anything you do, you're going to have to live with. By sending the message, you're now involved and will have played some role in whatever comes of it, good or bad. Ten months is flash in the pan compared to the rest of your life. Personally I'd not want that baggage. Clean break, move on.
 
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