Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me

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Revoh said:
First text from him


My response


I've received this text from him just minutes ago. I won't answer him anymore. I've nothing left to say.


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Good work. If anything new happens, let us know. Otherwise, it's finished. GOOD WORK OP.
 
I'll translate the last text from the husband. Not really confortable sharing this info but I'm lying if I didn't enjoy reading up before.

I've been only to your country once in my life, and I almost did go [again] that's true, but it wasn't that way... I don't think you're the bad guy from the film, but you didn't have the need to do this, that's what I'm saying.. I apologize for hitting off with your girlfriend, but as I said, I never did it [acted upon] not did I look for it.. It happened and I'm responsible for not stopping it. I'm already paying [for what I did], you can't imagine by how much.
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Sorry about these three days Revoh, but you're finally done. Time heals all wounds, so let now that you can stay away from it all, the healing can begin.

Good luck.
 
Revoh said:
First text from him


My response


I've received this text from him just minutes ago. I won't answer him anymore. I've nothing left to say.


This thread is done.
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Well, seems he is paying what is due. Quien lo manda.

chandoog said:
This topic needs a Malcolm Mcdowell treatment, please !
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It's worth the read. A summary would only dilute all that happened.

Vanish said:
Wow this thread exploded. Is there like a summary somewhere with everything that happened?
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Nope.
 
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This thread man, perfect series finale :)
 
Allow me to translate the 3 text messages, that google translation is pretty awful lol:

1st from the husband:

Hi (Revoh), you got what you wanted. I hope you're happy... I've never done anything like what I've done with (Girlfriend) before. I'm not a womanizer nor anything like it. I understand your anger, but I want you to know that you ruined a family that was together despite its issues. But that was something we were working on. I don't know what you've gained with this stunt. I've never even seen her in person.

Reply from Revoh:

Hi (Husband) I'm not happy. Not at all. What you say is a lie, it wasn't impossible, you travel to this country occasionally. (Girlfriend) ruined our relationship, you ruined yours. I'm not the bad guy from the movie here, you're the ones that crossed the line. I just exposed the truth. I'm not gaining anything out of this, friend, I too lost. And believe me when I say I lost a lot. Goodbye.

Last message from the husband

I've only been to your country once in my life, and it's true that I was on the verge of going this time. But I didn't. I'm not saying you're the bad guy from the movie, but you had no right to do this. I do apologize for getting involved with your woman, but as I've said, I've never done anything like this nor did I go out of my way to get it. It just happened, and I take responsibility for not stopping it from happening. I'm already paying for this, you can't even imagine how.
 
JoJoShabadoo said:
Allow me to translate the 3 text messages, that google translation is pretty awful lol:

1st from the husband:

Hi (Revoh), you got what you wanted. I hope you're happy... I've never done anything like what I've done with (Girlfriend) before. I'm not a womanizer nor anything like it. I understand your anger, but I want you to know that you ruined a family that was together despite its issues. But that was something we were working on. I don't know what you've gained with this stunt. I've never even seen her in person.

Reply from Revoh:

Hi (Husband) I'm not happy. Not at all. What you say is a lie, it wasn't impossible, you travel to this country occasionally. (Girlfriend) ruined our relationship, you ruined yours. I'm not the bad guy from the movie here, you're the ones that crossed the line. I just exposed the truth. I'm not gaining anything out of this, friend, I too lost. And believe me when I say I lost a lot. Goodbye.

Last message from the husband

I've only been to your country once in my life, and it's true that I was on the verge of going this time. But I didn't. I'm not saying you're the bad guy from the movie, but you had no right to do this. I do apologize for getting involved with your woman, but as I've said, I've never done anything like this nor did I go out of my way to get it. It just happened, and I take responsibility for not stopping it from happening. I'm already paying for this, you can't even imagine how.
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All ends well.

Cheaters be ware. If you are going to do something like this, at least have the decency to end your current relationship first.
 
Revoh TE AMO!

Lo mejor que he leido en mi vida contra este tipo de gente.

I wish I had done the same a year ago with my ex-wife, but nooo, I had to trust her instead of digging and putting and end to it when it started
 
Husband is right. I can't even imagine how he's paying for it. But I want to know how.
 
Revoh said:
As for my lady friend, like I said I know her for a very long time and I know she likes me, she literally said that to me a few times but I've never made any moves towards her because I respected my SO. My ex even know her and there were times when my ex would be going out with her friends at night and I'd the same thing with my lady friend and hers friends and that's it. It never escalated more than that. Also, she's the only person I talk about my life, including my relationship. So, what happens when you put two people on a bar, drinks, talking about a relationship that ended for good and having her place one block away. Give me a break. I'm not a bad guy.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dU9hrd35Dsg
 
Break up with your girlfriend. As for the guy's marriage... you should tell his wife... but not if you plan to do this to hurt the guy. I think his wife... she deserves the right to know and take a decision. Being cheated sucks but being dumped after this is worse.
 
How is "I can't change my dick" not OP's tag yet?
Or even something regarding his Neeson-esque handling of this shit he never asked for.
 
GhostTrick said:
Break up with your girlfriend. As for the guy's marriage... you should tell his wife... but not if you plan to do this to hurt the guy. I think his wife... she deserves the right to know and take a decision. Being cheated sucks but being dumped after this is worse.
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Read the roller coaster dude. The series ended today.
 
Good on you OP. I was in a similar situation with a girl. I was going to break up with her and called her over to do the deed. Before I was able to do it she broke up with me first. (I was actually relieved) I played it off like I was surprised just to be an asshole. Lol. I moved on, a year and a half later I am in a relationship with my now finance, I get a call from the old girlfriend, she proceeds to spill her guts and say how well I treated her blah blah and how she actually cheated on me twice during our two year relationship. Fuckin bitch. Lol.
 
Hey Revoh, i think you're best bet now is ignoring and getting on with your life. Obviously, the husband will defend himself, after what went down. Your ex started this an you ended this. It was a good ride and learning experience. I think you need to also look into yourself and see how there were warning signs about your ex doing atuff behind your back. Most likely there were but hard to see when someone's in love.
 
JoJoShabadoo said:
I've only been to your country once in my life, and it's true that I was on the verge of going this time. But I didn't. I'm not saying you're the bad guy from the movie, but you had no right to do this. I do apologize for getting involved with your woman, but as I've said, I've never done anything like this nor did I go out of my way to get it. It just happened, and I take responsibility for not stopping it from happening. I'm already paying for this, you can't even imagine how.
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Get the fuck right out.

Who's he to say that OP did not have any right to just update his wife about what his husband is up to these days? She's not his property. That guy gotta own up big time, and he deserves every bit of the shit coming to him.

You made the right call, Revoh. Like I said before in this thread, take it easy, and even if you might feel like shit now, I know for a fact that it won't stay that way forever. I hope your next SO is someone worthwhile who won't pull shit like that on you.

MarkMclovin said:
Christ you guys lap this shit up so easily even when no proof of this whole mess has been shown. Was enteraining though, I suppose.
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He posted a screenshot of the Google Drive and copy pasted his texts. What do you expect? Him to leak personal information and pictures just so GAF believes him when he's saying he's going through a lot?
 
MarkMclovin said:
Christ you guys lap this shit up so easily even when no proof of this whole mess has been shown. Was enteraining though, I suppose.
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To recap:

- Guy finds shady as hell skype/chat logs, girl planned to cheat, didn't, but obviously has a side-online relationship with a guy who is married
- OP breaks up with her and stands his ground
- OP sends messages to guy's wife, and they are received, and guy is in trouble

Throw in a couple other small asides; guy is also moving on quickly and hooked up with a different girl.. guy made a small penis thread before.

This is thread of forever to much of neogaf OT.. OP is the hero of the day..

I'm so confused.
 
riotous said:
To recap:

- Guy finds shady as hell skype/chat logs, girl planned to cheat, didn't, but obviously has a side-online relationship with a guy who is married
- OP breaks up with her and stands his ground
- OP sends messages to guy's wife, and they are received, and guy is in trouble

Throw in a couple other small asides; guy is also moving on quickly and hooked up with a different girl.. guy made a small penis thread before.

This is thread of forever to much of neogaf OT.. OP is the hero of the day..

I'm so confused.
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Yeah, it's bizarre.
 
Dunkley said:
He posted a screenshot of the Google Drive and copy pasted his texts. What do you expect? Him to leak personal information and pictures just so GAF believes him when he's saying he's going through a lot?
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Anyone can post an image of a bunch of new google drive documents name them dates.

Bboy AJ said:
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=506134

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Whats your point? That wasn't created to get any type of 'gold status' or tag at all. It was a legitimate thread created to get some shit off my chest, which worked, rather than posting fake shit to keep people wanting more.

Nice try though, asshole.
 
@MarkMclovin

Dude, chill out. Relax. Let's say this whole thread is a fake. Okay, so? We get entertainment, OP gets to feel like a loser for wasting his time making up a story. Also, I don't even see the need to make this kind of stuff up, its something any self-respecting man or woman would do (i.e. dump a cheater). Its not even that special, GAF is just making it so because lots of posters who have sought relationship advice have done the opposite.
 
All we're missing now is a Lionel Mandrake summary!

Get some rest OP, events are behind you now. Look forward and if you just want to chill and play games for the time being then do so.
 
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