Hello GirlGAF, I'm not a girl, but you were recently speaking on the Unity debacle so I figured now was a good time. Forgive an obtuse Junior if I'm out of line. I feel like it's out of line to pigeonhole your thread as the go-to place for discussing sociogender topics, just because this is GirlGAF doesn't mean I should assume you guys are in here mulling over the issues and nothing else. But for a while now I've been mulling over issues, I've been told I should take a break to cool off, but I can't stop thinking, and with the mention of Unity, I think you guys are thinking too. So I have a quick question and then I'll be out of your hair.
Let's say you find something offensive or out of line or something. Which do you find worse personally? If the perpetrator were to say "Yes, you're right, I did it, and I don't care" or "Obviously I wouldn't do such a thing, I care about that kind of thing, maybe you're overreacting/taking it the wrong way"?
I also don't wanna drag up any frustrations for anyone, I feel like this question might run that risk.