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I am getting sick of this, can't get a girl...
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OpinionatedCyborg
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Boogie said:
:| Usually people who are happy will take care of their physical and mental state, which in turn makes them more attractive to the opposite sex. People who try to hard look like dumbasses. People who play it by ear have way more success. But whatever--you walk through life with a script in hand, and I'll adapt to what comes my way.
videogamer
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:lol you're overreacting. I have several relatives who were in the same situations. Most married by age 32.
Black Deatha said:
You could at least go to the parties for the networking opportunites, even if you don't enjoy it. Think of it as a game. Play nice and pretend to be interested in their lives, and you might get some reward in return. Jobs, volunteering spots, research opportunites... these things pop up at unexpected times. When you are surrounded by motivated people, you might just stumble upon something that may help you find and come closer to your ambitions.
demon said:Ahh. Brothers united, once again.
(I'm the one on the left, you can pretend the chick's a guy. you can still wear the wedding dress if you want though)
Yes demon, it seems that fate has once again brought me to my true calling, that of protecting civilisation from doom, and arguing cynically with Cubsfan.
Kuro Madoushi
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:lol
And here I was so happy for you Boogie! It's almost Valentine's day, if you really are going out with her, you should expect something...hopefully things will turn out better for you
And here I was so happy for you Boogie! It's almost Valentine's day, if you really are going out with her, you should expect something...hopefully things will turn out better for you
Cubsfan23 said:
*sigh* yeah, I know, that was already going to be my current plan of inaction.
you mind forwarding me the emails you sent her?
Naw, I don't think so.
Actually, I don't think I have them saved anyway. But the one I sent a bit over a week ago was actually mildly "Cocky and Funny" in asking to see her, while the one I sent last night was more simply like "Would you be able to get together Saturday, or if not, what day might be better for you to do something? I'd just really like to see you again", etc.
EDIT: bah, you've got a PM anyway, Cubs.
Here's what you do. Act the role.
I'm not that good looking of a guy. But my first year in college, I banged one of the hottest cheerleaders from a nearby high school (formerly a cheerleader, she was a freshman like me.) seriously dude... it's all about the swagger. in general, I'm a total jackass with women, not to the point of being mean but to the point where they know I'm friendly and they'd like me to be nicer to them.
meh. I dont get tons of poon or anything, but its definitely image. Fuck Sprite, image is everything. You dont have to be good looking but you gotta strut your stuff and be able to shock them with what you say occasionally. being able to make them laugh helps a lot, too.
so does alcohol. for both parties.
I'm not that good looking of a guy. But my first year in college, I banged one of the hottest cheerleaders from a nearby high school (formerly a cheerleader, she was a freshman like me.) seriously dude... it's all about the swagger. in general, I'm a total jackass with women, not to the point of being mean but to the point where they know I'm friendly and they'd like me to be nicer to them.
meh. I dont get tons of poon or anything, but its definitely image. Fuck Sprite, image is everything. You dont have to be good looking but you gotta strut your stuff and be able to shock them with what you say occasionally. being able to make them laugh helps a lot, too.
so does alcohol. for both parties.
videogamer
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shoot even Google wants to torture us
Those of you in your early 20s need not to worry, I don't think I got any real action until I was about 22 or so either. It will happen, just be sure you are constantly trying to better yourself with things like education, work experience, physical fitness, etc. Having a good head on your shoulders is a very attractive quality.
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I can overlook a guy still living with his parents, but for him to not have a job or even a car is disheartening. Not attending school or placing much of a focus upon maintaining a decent GPA is what borderlines on absolutely pathetic. I can't speak for all girls, but I'd bet that majority-wise, what most girls care about apart from a guy's personality is his attitude in how he handles responsibilities and priorities. Afterall, if a guy can't make the effort to take care of his own life or focus on his own future, how can you expect him to care about you or focus on having a future together?
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demon said:Ahh. Brothers united, once again.
(I'm the one on the left, you can pretend the chick's a guy. you can still wear the wedding dress if you want though)
INCONCEIVABLE. :lol
enjoy bell woods
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I had a wretched day as far as these things go. Absolutely terrible. I was doing so well, too.
videogamer
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demon said:Indubitably.
And by the way, is a poor gpa really that much of a turnoff?
Yes. Don't you want a person who has the potential to contribute to the family funds? GPA can be used as an indication of how motivated and focused the individual is. I personally find people at schools like Caltech or Stanford very very appealing.
McLesterolBeast
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I've got a 4.0 GPA, baby. I'll bet that turns you on... makes your panties moist with desire, doesn't it? You know how we do.
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McLesterolBeast said:
Wow, nice! Want to go out on a date sometime? =D I'm a 45-year-old transvestite from Clevelend. <3 <3 <3
videogamer
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demon said:
ehhh I assumed that the end-goal of your dating was some kind of long term partnership
I don't exactly, uhh, have a lot of dating experience, so I'm not exactly looking for a marriage partner.Hammy said:ehhh I assumed that the end-goal of your dating was some kind of long term partnership
That's one thing that worries me, though. Sure I'm still "young", but at 23 I'm getting closer to the point where not everyone my age for the most part just wants to have fun relationships before my "career" and salary and status in life become some kind of factor, something I missed out on.
evil solrac v3.0
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from cleveland eh? that turns me off..... what if the guy is disabled or something? you gonna hold that against him?
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Folder
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Mate.demon said:
It's all starting to make sense now.
I'll forgive you everything.
Good luck with the future.
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You should have taken me up on my offer the other day btw...
robertsan21
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i never relised how hard it is for some guys to get a girl, i never have anyproblem with girls so i never really appriciated how lucky i am to be the guy that almost every woman wants.
but as i said to you earlier in this thread, change the way you think and you will get a girl!
so go back out there again and do as i said and you wont fail i know it.
good luck mate
but as i said to you earlier in this thread, change the way you think and you will get a girl!
so go back out there again and do as i said and you wont fail i know it.
good luck mate
"I do think it's possible to go through life and never fall in love, or find someone who loves you."
Morrissey doesn't seems to think like you do.
Personnally, I like appreciation, but I'm sure I am not the only one who dislikes reading, hearing the same generic comments based pretty much on nothing but beliefs, in a million different paraphrases, despite all of people's good intentions. Nothing personal.
Morrissey doesn't seems to think like you do.
Personnally, I like appreciation, but I'm sure I am not the only one who dislikes reading, hearing the same generic comments based pretty much on nothing but beliefs, in a million different paraphrases, despite all of people's good intentions. Nothing personal.
dskillzhtown
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Consider yourself lucky. Being in a relationship isn't all fun and games. You actually have to like...make sacrifices and make time for her. Sometimes I lay in bed with my girl thinking, "Damn, I would rather be at home playing NBA Street" or "Damn, I wonder if the lesbians across the street from my house are up" or "Damn, she is taking all the covers!!!!!!"
What I am saying is, after being single and selfish for a long time, it is hard to be committed and giving.
What I am saying is, after being single and selfish for a long time, it is hard to be committed and giving.
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