Pedigree Chum said:
That is of course the ultimate goal
Seriously, girls, even in Uni are fucking chatty headed bitches (from the ones I've met).
You're in Waterloo right Pedigree? Hahaha man, Waterloo girls are the absolute WORST. Since the guy to girl ratio is about 20:1, there are so many guys going after every girl that all the girls start thinking they're hot and all of that. Of course any of these girls if in Toronto or even London would be at the bottom of the barrel in terms of looks and all of that. Which brings me to my next point, that girls in London rock and are very easy to talk to. In fact when I go to London it just blows my mind how many poindexters are dancing with hot girls, blows my mind.
More generally, 95% of whether a girl wants you or not is dependent on how you look. It sucks, I know but that's the truth. One of the most important things I read, that once incorporated into my life made all the difference, is that a girl knows if she wants to be with you within 5 seconds of seeing you. Even if it's not true, and yes there are plenty of exceptions, blah blah blah, living my life by that theory has made things so much simpler and easier. Just like Darscot was saying about girls giving signs and all of that, if I make eye contact with a girl and I smile (I always smile to everyone I make eye contact with) and she doesn't smile back, I never look at her again. Easy as that.
For the guys stuck in the friends zone, God, it's just way too much effort to be worth anything. Seriously, in high school I had a TON of girl friends, and was always talking to them and all of that crap. All my other guy friends never did any of that and got tons of girls to my complete bewilderment. But after some coaxing and realization on my own, I said screw it, girls aren't worth the time, I'd rather just hang out with my guy friends. Once I did that and stopped wasting my time with those useless girls things got a lot better very quickly. Plus, I got to hang out with my good friends that I'd been neglecting.
Of course now that I'm in a long term relationship the neglecting of my guy friends has unfortunately resurfaced...