How can anyone not care about butt? I thought that's the one thing every gender and sexual orientation cares about.
When it comes to pure sex (basically porn), butt rules all for me. But I gotta admit I've dated guys long term who had mediocre butts. So yeah when it comes to the real world, butt is not that important I guess. But for carnal pleasure it's king.
For a switch of topic: I met a guy yesterday who I've been chatting with for a while. We met "for quick fun" (some might remember me previously mentioning that I don't care for dating and I'd rather go to bed first), well that went well and was fun... but I was surprised that he asked me to join him for drinks at his friend's house later that day, then again for a party he was going to that night. We were drunk by the end of the night and it was fun.
Today he surprises me again by asking me out for drinks with his friends then for another house party... going out two nights in a row, let alone when heavy drinking is involved is almost unheard of for me... but I enjoyed the attention he's giving me and I wanted to see him again, so I went along. It was another fun night; I really liked his friends, and the party was pretty cool (everyone seemed open minded and we felt comfortable hugging, holding hands, and being touchy feely among strangers)... but I noticed couple of things so far:
1. He drinks A LOT, and becomes a stupid zombie by the end of night, which I don't like.
2. We are so DIFFERENT when it comes to interests, lifestyle, philosophy, etc.
3. Kissing with beards is...
different.
It seems that he wants to keep seeing me regularly, I'm surprised how often he wants to see me even when sex is not on the agenda. This is dating, right? Am I over thinking things?