RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I'm obviously not defending his actions, but (assuming he only cheated once...) perhaps he was just trying to spare your feelings?
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I'm obviously not defending his actions, but (assuming he only cheated once...) perhaps he was just trying to spare your feelings?
I wouldn't go that far...
Naked Snake
Member
It might have been only once, and his justification for not telling me was that he was afraid of losing me.
Which I understand... but at that point my trust in him was lost. I couldn't have stayed with him without frequently doubting his honesty going forward, especially after witnessing his masterful acting and denial skills even when I called him out on it.
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Congrats, that's very nice. You must be grateful that your mother is fine.
Thanks for the warm welcome everyone.
@Midnight Moon: I think it would probably be best to end it. The way the relationship is now seems like a recipe for disaster. Just my 2 cents.
Congrats! I'm happy that coming out went well for you. Sounds like you have an awesome mom.
@Midnight Moon: I think it would probably be best to end it. The way the relationship is now seems like a recipe for disaster. Just my 2 cents.
Congrats! I'm happy that coming out went well for you. Sounds like you have an awesome mom.
lordfroakie
Member
daripad, go to 4chan and found out why its so dangerous 
Blood Diamonds
Banned
Wow congrats! I told my Mom and um... yeah anyway congrats!
No thanks. I'd rather come out to everyone than go to that sitedaripad, go to 4chan and found out why its so dangerous
Fantastical
Death Prophet
Just turned 21 and my hairline is receding. WTF?!?!
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Looks like gay death is coming for you sooner rather than later! :O
Fantastical
Death Prophet
This happened to me but I'm tall black and bearded so it turned out ok.
Thanks Dad
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Henchmen21
Banned
Ouch that's harsh. Mine started receding around 29. Mostly around the temples. I'm not bald but it's definitely not as thick as it used to be (no pun intended). It's sad really when my hair was the only thing I ever got complimented on physically.
This happened to me but I'm tall black and bearded so it turned out ok.
Thanks Dad
Bah! Black guys always look better bald for a weird reason, so they don't have to worry much about their receding hair
lol I chuckled
My condolences. Hope life was good to you .
I will live the same when I'm 35, hope that day doesn't come soon
Diseased Yak
Gold Member
This is great! My mom, and my two sisters, were both 100% accepting, and I'm forever grateful. My dad, on the otherhand, says I'm gonna burn in Hell, but that's his problem.
Fantastical
Death Prophet
I still have a lot of hair, and it covers my forehead so I'm not too worried, but it does make me feel old.
Congrats!
Honestly Hell sounds way better than Heaven IMO. Here's what hell has according to people I grew up with:
- Rock / Heavy Metal
- Dungeons and Dragons
- Harry Potter
- Porn
- Halloween and Trick or Treating
- Comic books
- Video games
Heaven's pretty shit in comparison
Fantastical
Death Prophet
This girl said hi to me at the library, I turned around and she said "Oh! I thought you were someone else." We chit chatted a bit and then she left.
She just added me on Facebook.
For all I know she's reading this right now.
She just added me on Facebook.
For all I know she's reading this right now.
Henchmen21
Banned
I still have a lot of hair, and it covers my forehead so I'm not too worried, but it does make me feel old.
Oh I know. I used to go 3 to 4 months in between haircuts while now I go 6 months or more. My bangs used to go down to my eyes if they got too long. Now they can't even make it down to my eyebrows. Not to mention the hair that's at the front of my bed.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
EDIT: I see. Hm. What's the age of consent where you're at?
Seven years isn't that bad. My mom and dad got married at those same ages.
I lol'd + the colbert reaction gif
But seriously, am I the only one doesn't care whether a guy has hair or not? My hair is fine, but I still prefer to cut it super short/buzzed.
That's nice to hear. I'm happy for you
Ugh my cousin's like that. He's 28, and he'd prefer to marry a really young girl, like around 18 years old. In reality, I doubt that'll happen.
mmm that must've been rough. How long ago was this?
Welcome to GayGAF!!
Naked Snake
Member
Spree said:
It was rough... I squirmed and cried in bed like a mother who has lost a child or something, lol. It was maybe 6 years ago... geeze I'm getting old.
I know it must have been a bad experience, but the truth is I envy you for it. It's like that (annoying) old saying, "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" ...i.e. I've never been in a relationship T_T heh, I never really understood the saying until relatively recently.
The closest I've come to it was a good online friend on another site, but one day he suddenly left that place and I haven't heard from him since. He was the only person in the world who knew I was gay. I told him in private cuz everyone knew who I was irl on that site (posted my facebook, pics...etc.).
lol I would never be this open if it weren't for internet anonymity this time around.
runlikehell
Banned
Midnight Scott, you're a class A little bitch and you need to let this person go to find someone who actually will give a damn about him. Stop pussyfooting because you're comfortable in the relationship and don't want to be uncomfortable and alone while also fucking around.
Jesus wept.
Jesus wept.
WTH is going on here?
Midnight Moon
Banned
We had a good talk yesterday after some shit happened. I don't see him trying to fix it so I told him I was thinking about moving back home with my family.
He begged me not to leave and we talked for a good while and I said I would stay if he tried to fix his problems. I basically gave him an ultimatum that I was tired of him sitting there not doing anything with his life. Call the lawyer and find out what's going on with his papers, go get his check from his last job (this is when he almost had an accident), I offered to take him to the doctor because he told me he has felt really bad lately, he says he feels like he is dying. Told him to try and find a job and keep it. I really want it to work with him, but if he doesn't fix his life (I've always tried to help him with everything and when he gives up it makes me sad and wonder why I am doing it in the first place) I am planning to end it and move back home. He said he would try and go look for jobs today with his friend.
I basically told him he can't drive my car anymore unless I'm with him in the car because he almost had an accident yesterday.
Anyway we went to bed and in the middle of the night he thought I was sleeping and had his way with me. I pretended to be asleep because apparently that is one of his fetishes lol. Was so hot...
When I mentioned to y'all that I cheated, was just kissing/touching nothing more than that. I feel way better now that I talked to him, I always keep everything bottled up and just give up and look the other way instead of trying to fix the problem.
He begged me not to leave and we talked for a good while and I said I would stay if he tried to fix his problems. I basically gave him an ultimatum that I was tired of him sitting there not doing anything with his life. Call the lawyer and find out what's going on with his papers, go get his check from his last job (this is when he almost had an accident), I offered to take him to the doctor because he told me he has felt really bad lately, he says he feels like he is dying. Told him to try and find a job and keep it. I really want it to work with him, but if he doesn't fix his life (I've always tried to help him with everything and when he gives up it makes me sad and wonder why I am doing it in the first place) I am planning to end it and move back home. He said he would try and go look for jobs today with his friend.
I basically told him he can't drive my car anymore unless I'm with him in the car because he almost had an accident yesterday.
Anyway we went to bed and in the middle of the night he thought I was sleeping and had his way with me. I pretended to be asleep because apparently that is one of his fetishes lol. Was so hot...
When I mentioned to y'all that I cheated, was just kissing/touching nothing more than that. I feel way better now that I talked to him, I always keep everything bottled up and just give up and look the other way instead of trying to fix the problem.
Who is that? My name is Michael.
runlikehell
Banned
Oh my god, is Midnight Moon the true and only Scott?
Shit keeps getting better.
Gurl, you know I served that tea.
Wait a minute, lol
Let me get this straight, you cheated, who cares if it was kissing/touching or whatever, and you served HIM an ultimatum because you're unhappy with his obvious depression? Good fucking God, man.
You made him look like the cunt blaming all of your relationship problems on his lack of effort with resolving his problems, yet you're the one who cheated, and check through his phone/emails because you don't trust him?
Wow.
Midnight Moon
Banned
Granted I thought he cheated on me last year more than a few times. I'm just going to try and work things out with him, we always keep our feelings bottled up and that is what is messing up things. I just gave up and let him get lazy. I haven't checked his phone in a while and it would always just make me feel crazy and insane.
I explained to him the reason I would just go home all the time or with my friends is to avoid talking about our problems because I was too afraid to talk to him about it. My friends have seen the way he acts and treats me and even they say he doesn't appreciate me. But when I have had a problem, he has always tried to help me solve it, so I know he is a good guy after all.
Also, you said he is depressed...I guess I just never thought of it like that. He has seem down lately but when I try to ask him he just keeps it all to himself.
LOL, I saw the porn videos he's watched on his phone history. "sleeping sex" you know those fake videos...I guess I just like his spontainty. I would always try and get him to come onto me and he wouldn't be in the mood sometimes.
runlikehell
Banned
Your name's Michael eh? Perchance that's your middle name? Trollolol.
Did you confront him about your feelings? Are you ever going to own up to what you've done?
Did you confront him about your feelings? Are you ever going to own up to what you've done?
DR2K
Banned
You should just say you want an open relationship, it won't last if you don't readjust the boundaries you both have set(if at all). This way you can get ass in peace and not have to wonder what's on his phone.
runlikehell
Banned
Scott, you're talking to Rafa on Facebook about your situation right now, lol. And here's the proof:
If he honestly thought (and hoped) that you were asleep, then that was assault. You sure you're alright with that?
Midnight Moon
Banned
When we talked yesterday I did confront him about everything else, but not that. I don't know how would I tell him and when the right moment would be. I would rather him fix his life first and be happy. I'm not sure it would be worth telling him that and hurting him further than he already is.
He has never asked me once if I have cheated, but I am not good at hiding something when someone asks me directly. I think I would probably tell him then because it's so obvious on my face when someone asks me a question and I don't lie. I guess I just don't volunteer information until I am asked.
I talked to my best friend about it, he knows everything and told me our problem is that we just don't talk about our issues and try to avoid them until things just blow up.
Nah, he always lets me know by saying "sshh shhh shhh" lol. Also, I feel it. Guess I am into the fetish too.
Which is exactly what you're doing my not talking about the fact that you cheated on him.
Honey, Scott as in Midnight Scott.
I just can't get enough of this. Perfect distraction for an otherwise fairly average day.
Midnight Moon
Banned
I am actually having a wonderful day. I feel better and so does my boyfriend. Oh by the way he knows I was awake, but I told him one of my fetishes was to wake me up with sex and he did lol.
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