Thanks, it really sucks, and I understand them, but it's difficult.
Now I don't know what to do about this whole family vacation I had planned for the end of the year, I even bought them all tickets already...
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Thanks, it really sucks, and I understand them, but it's difficult.
Now I don't know what to do about this whole family vacation I had planned for the end of the year, I even bought them all tickets already...
Dating sucks. It really does, the effort-reward ratio is terrible. You're more likely to find a good, polished, full-fledged, sensibly priced game on iOS than a good date.
Don't feel bad about it. My parents are not divorced, but they're hardly a couple anymore. Statistically most couples are abound to end at some point, so really, I find it more shocking when I come across a long-lived marriage (and I know long-lived marriages that are nightmare material, so yeah). It stings because they're your parents, but honestly, let them be happy and re-discover their individuality.
RatskyWatsky
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Hmm, what a horribly backwards stance to take. Ah well. More for me!
What happened to that guy who was so rough with you?
Cosmic Bus
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I only saw him that one time. Not really into him or that super rough play. I still have bruises.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I see. For some reason I was under the impression that you two were dating.
Isn't it weird that I love those straight love songs? I mean, I sing "And I love her" or "Maybe I'm amazed" without changing the woman or girl parts. Is anyone on the same boat?
Also, does anyone here play an instrument? I would love to learn to play one but my voice is so bad and it's hard to me to follow the rhythm sometimes. If I could learn one that would be the Piano or Guitar. I set that as one of my goals for this year but I couldn't do it because of time. Now it seems that next year I'm going to have a little more time, so I was thinking about trying something.
Also, does anyone here play an instrument? I would love to learn to play one but my voice is so bad and it's hard to me to follow the rhythm sometimes. If I could learn one that would be the Piano or Guitar. I set that as one of my goals for this year but I couldn't do it because of time. Now it seems that next year I'm going to have a little more time, so I was thinking about trying something.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
What does your voice have to do with playing an instrument?
I want to learn the piano too (paging Sphinx!!) but I don't think there are any teachers in my small town.
1. Singing makes it easy for me to follow the rhythm.
2. If there are teachers in my very small town, there are teachers in your small town
Why would that be weird? So you can't listen to any song that doesn't represent your exact situation? I'm quitting music right now, I guess
Because I don't like girls? You can lsten to music while not feeling the lyrics but I found it weird today because I'd prefer singing "I love you boy" or something like that. IDK, I'm weird
Uh, not really.
I can only really enjoy music that resonates with my ideals and interests. If I can't connect with the subject matter it puts a damper on the whole song.
I don't listen to love songs period because there's a rose-tinted window on it that I think is utter horseshit and creates unrealistic expectations, but that's beside my point.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Sorry for your trouble. OkC is the land of flakes, as I'm sure you've gathered. It sucks but it at least expedites the process of finding out whether or not people are worth your time.
My girls is on example of I wish I could sing my boys instead
1. Yes, my voice gets deeper when I do that
and I like it
Then I love setting unrealistic expectations.
Yeah, sounds are a great part of it, but lyrics have to follow in some songs (I said some, there are tons of great non lyrical songs out there) to be addictive to me. I mean, male voices are really good.
I'm not limiting myself to that, I just listen to music I like. I just said that I sometimes think that I could be listening to lyrics that would reflect my tastes.
And guys, love songs are not the only thing I listen to, I was just pointing at them because of the obvious i love you girl kind of lyrics. I listen to lots of other stuff too so don't be harsh on me.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Thanks!
"My Girls" is about his daughters, so unless you have boys or whatever, it wouldn't matter.My girls is on example of I wish I could sing my boys instead
What are you talking about.
You claiming to know what any of the songs are talking about?
Without looking it up
A song like "My Girls" is really obvious. Most of the songs on that album are easy to digest and if you listen to the lyrics they make sense.
I won't say all the songs are like that, but to say that they don't mean anything is incorrect.
What did the second guy say exactly? Evidently you're upset by the rejection, but it may be that he simply realised he didn't want to be in a relationship with you, and told you as soon as it became evident that you did want a relationship. Had you mentioned to him that you eventually wanted an exclusive relationship before?
Poltergust
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Optical illusion + 4:30 in the morning = X_X
If i buy Lumia, will I get that guy too as a bonus?
Had a big coming out celebration on Sunday. Was great fun being with friends and going to some of the gay bars Glasgow had to offer. There was one hot guy we made glances at from time to time and, wait for this confidence booster, he was interested in me according to my friends. I couldn't believe it. Sadly I'm not at a stage where I feel confident enough to go up to these people and ask them out. Any advice on what to do if you meet someone you like at a cafe or bar? I also worry for their reaction if they're homophobic in some form.
Oh my...I'll take the guy. Look at those bicep muscles behind the shirt...<3. His hair...
VICTORsaurio
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As sort of expected, my friend, the one I had a big crush on, told me yesterday he thinks this new guy (who he's known for a while) isn't good for me, that I shouldn't get involved with him unless I'm aware it's just messing around, it's not worth it, etc.
On the other hand he's not much of a saint either. It's not that I don't believe him but I guess I'm willing to give this guy a chance even if he turns to be the biggest asshole in earth. Another heartbreak won't probably make much of a difference.
I'll try to take the warnings into account.
On the other hand he's not much of a saint either. It's not that I don't believe him but I guess I'm willing to give this guy a chance even if he turns to be the biggest asshole in earth. Another heartbreak won't probably make much of a difference.
I'll try to take the warnings into account.
Lol I was planning to write something about this scene. It fits soo perfectly here.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Just do whatever feels right and don't worry about the labelz.
Butch, lipstick, soft butch, high femme, the "reclaimed" using of 'dykes', etc.
Wow, I know, stereotypes, but I couldn't help but notice that while gay men labels gravitate around a body type and desires for certain body types (chasers and the like), lesbian labels gravitate around what kind of relationship they want and what role they enjoy.
is there something like this for the gay/male vocabulary?
I just downloaded "growlr" and damn, there are plenty of labels I would heve never considered.
I love the "sir" label, lol, if you want to chat with a 50 year old guy that describes himself as a "Sir" then you are looking for some serious education from a grown up, hehe.... and you should speak to him with respect like " I'd love to belong to you, sir"
this was something I really didn't understand when I was young but now being 35, when a 20 year old speaks or writes to me in a submissive way it kinda turns me on and in a similar way, when I feel attracted to a 50 year old guy, I tend to get all submissive and let him "take the lead".
HOLY SHIT
I started laughing at the top of the list but by the time I reached this I was in tears.
Henchmen21
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That can't be real. Please tell me that's not real.
Naked Snake
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I was telling a friend about a guy I dated back when I was 20 years old. And now I remembered first laying eyes on him at the gay bar; he was sitting on a table with other guys and I remember thinking "Sigh... what a beauty. He's way out of my league."
To my surprise he followed me and introduced himself, and he later told me that he thought I was "the most beautiful thing he's ever seen" when our eyes first met.
Moral of the story: Don't let your preconceptions of yourself or of others prevent you from perusing someone you are interested in.
To my surprise he followed me and introduced himself, and he later told me that he thought I was "the most beautiful thing he's ever seen" when our eyes first met.
Moral of the story: Don't let your preconceptions of yourself or of others prevent you from perusing someone you are interested in.
Naked Snake
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My homie Illdoc (Jay Smooth) laying down some gems on homophobia (starting at 3:29): http://youtu.be/igsSbTEjvvU?t=3m29s
Of course it helps if you are handsome already
But I agree, as average looking I've certainly had more rejections than acceptance, but I keep trying anyway.
According to this "coffin queen" can also mean florist. Also I think "behymen" sounds like such a cute word.
ArchedThunder
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I tend to enter this thread at the weirdest times.
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