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LGBThread |OT3| Friends of Dorothy!

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daripad

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So I spent a lot of time with my friend (who isa very nice guy) and I was having feelings for him AGAIN. We even stayed for hours in his room studying and doing homework and each time I had to look at his face I had the impulse of kissing him *sighs* I know he is straight and he has a gilrfriend, so I didn't have to confess anything to save my identity :/ He is the kind of guy I would date: smiles a lot, is very intelligent, thoughtful and is very ellegant. Plus he is hairy in the right spots and he is very thrustworthy. And he is not even handsome, if he was :O I would love a man like him *SIghs again*
 

scarlet

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So I spent a lot of time with my friend (who isa very nice guy) and I was having feelings for him AGAIN. We even stayed for hours in his room studying and doing homework and each time I had to look at his face I had the impulse of kissing him *sighs* I know he is straight and he has a gilrfriend, so I didn't have to confess anything to save my identity :/ He is the kind of guy I would date: smiles a lot, is very intelligent, thoughtful and is very ellegant. Plus he is hairy in the right spots and he is very thrustworthy. And he is not even handsome, if he was :O I would love a man like him *SIghs again*

I've been there, i know how it feels.

Speaking of love life, apparently my last ex was cheating on me while he was with me. And here I am feeling bad for months for leaving him with no words and he was with other guys.

I knew they were close, but i left my doubt behind. *sigh*
 

RM8

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I thought I had involuntarily outed myself to a friend I'm still not out to, but apparently it wasn't the case :p I thought he saw a pic of a super hot guy on my phone, it'd have been unfortunate since I never download pics of guys and this one exception being outing material would have been crappy. Gosh, maybe he saw it :x Oh well.
 

Mr. F

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I thought I had involuntarily outed myself to a friend I'm still not out to, but apparently it wasn't the case :p I thought he saw a pic of a super hot guy on my phone, it'd have been unfortunate since I never download pics of guys and this one exception being outing material would have been crappy. Gosh, maybe he saw it :x Oh well.

I'm sorry I don't recall, are you out to anyone?
 

RM8

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Yes. I'm rather selective about it, though, and this particular friend is not too close. He's a good guy, it's just that we haven't interacted a ton. Definitely still not outing material :p
 

Mr. F

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Ah, yeah I know what you mean. There are still people in my life who don't know but outing got kind of tiresome after a while. If it comes up in conversation I won't deny it, otherwise I don't feel it's important enough to bring up for its own sake.
 

RM8

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Being selective has worked for me, really. I have yet to experience a negative reaction :p I'll keep it like this at least while I live in this city - only really close people get access to such information.
 
omg you wouldn't believe the hunk chatting to me on Scruff... move over Ben Cohen, you've been dethroned. I wish I could post his pics.

And he's a hardcore gamer too! *drool*
 

Dany

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It's been like a week+ since I've done any exercise, I think I want to get back into running. At least I have a better track record doing that instead of weight lifting. :p
 

RM8

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Guise, we're all banned in Singapore :0 I have this ultra modern, advanced image of Singapore, a shame they're still so late to the party with this basic rights for minorities thing. I'd still love to visit it, though :p Seems like such a cool country. Other things that might get you in trouble over there: chewing gum, being naked even at home, smoking anywhere, hugging in public, not flushing the toilet or littering (some of these are quite reasonable, though).

Oral was illegal until 2007, lol.
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
omg you wouldn't believe the hunk chatting to me on Scruff... move over Ben Cohen, you've been dethroned. I wish I could post his pics.

And he's a hardcore gamer too! *drool*

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Other things that might get you in trouble over there: chewing gum, being naked even at home, smoking anywhere, hugging in public, not flushing the toilet

They don't have gum over there? Or is it just illegal to chew it in public?

You can't be naked, even at home? How would they even know? How do people go to the bathroom/shower/change/have sex? Don't they have, like, public bathhouses there?

I thought they had smoking cafes or whatever? Maybe that was Japan?

:(

How would they know if you didn't flush tho?
 

I would love to brag by posting his pics and say "This man asked me if I want to get married", but it wouldn't be ethical to post his pics without permission, and I'm not going to tell him "hey hai, can I post your pics on some forum to show my sisters?" :p

Seriously though, guys that hot intimidate me. I'd be a nervous wreck if/when we meet :(
 

mantidor

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Do you know him only by photos? have you heard his voice?

I actually prefer the real encounter even though I'm a socially anxious mess always, photos are incredibly deceiving in these days, specially with that horrible and pervasive instagram filter. The guys never live up to the expectations created by the photo anyway, so that helps. They feel more "human" for lack of a better word.
 

Trigger

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Why do all the guys I want to date seriously want to just be FWB, and all the dudes I just want to sleep with want to become bfs?

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Do you know him only by photos? have you heard his voice?

I actually prefer the real encounter even though I'm a socially anxious mess always, photos are incredibly deceiving in these days, specially with that horrible and pervasive instagram filter. The guys never live up to the expectations created by the photo anyway, so that helps. They feel more "human" for lack of a better word.

Yeah we just chatted a couple of times on Scruff and he sent me photos. His face looks great in all the photos, brown hair, red-ish beard, green/blue eyes. And in one pic he's only wearing underwear sitting on a coach holding a PS3 controller and staring intently into the TV (probably taken by an ex bf or someone, he said his relationships usually end because he plays more games than cooks dinner)... And his body in that pic O_O prefect chest and hair.

He's from the US, only in town for a couple of months.

Edit: I told him he reminds me of Ben Cohen, he said they have mutual friends! And I told him guys like him intimidate me, he said "Believe me I'm just a goofball" ... how cute is that? :D
 

RM8

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They don't have gum over there? Or is it just illegal to chew it in public?

You can't be naked, even at home? How would they even know? How do people go to the bathroom/shower/change/have sex? Don't they have, like, public bathhouses there?

I thought they had smoking cafes or whatever? Maybe that was Japan?

:(

How would they know if you didn't flush tho?
Selling/buying chewing gum is illegal.

Not sure how they'd be able to tell if you're naked at home, lol. Apparently it's categorized as pornography - pornography is illegal in Singapore.

No idea about smoking cafés in Singapore. In Japan there are smoking areas, plenty of them actually, and it's nice because you never have to smell cigarette smoke anywhere.

And I'm guessing it's public toilets :p
 

mantidor

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Yeah we just chatted a couple of times on Scruff and he sent me photos. His face looks great in all the photos, brown hair, red-ish beard, green/blue eyes. And in one pic he's only wearing underwear sitting on a coach holding a PS3 controller and staring intently into the TV (probably taken by an ex bf or someone, he said his relationships usually end because he plays more games than cooks dinner)... And his body in that pic O_O prefect chest and hair.

He's from the US, only in town for a couple of months.

Edit: I told him he reminds me of Ben Cohen, he said they have mutual friends! And I told him guys like him intimidate me, he said "Believe me I'm just a goofball" ... how cute is that? :D


eeww sony fanboy, steer clear of that :p
Good luck! the "I'm friends with friends with Cohen" is awfully suspicious though...
 

RM8

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Japanese dialects follow the exact same vowel structure, though. For the first time ever I experienced kansai-ben this year, it's super interesting how some words are modified or replaced, but their AIUEO vowel system is identical.

And the gum thing is supposedly to prevent people from sticking used gum all over the streets, lol.
 
Japanese dialects follow the exact same vowel structure, though. For the first time ever I experienced kansai-ben this year, it's super interesting how some words are modified or replaced, but their AIUEO vowel system is identical.

And the gum thing is supposedly to prevent people from sticking used gum all over the streets, lol.

Perhaps today they are similar. But there definitely in the past were regional differences.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Old_Japanese#Vowels
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
I would love to brag by posting his pics and say "This man asked me if I want to get married", but it wouldn't be ethical to post his pics without permission, and I'm not going to tell him "hey hai, can I post your pics on some forum to show my sisters?" :p

A likely story >_>

Selling/buying chewing gum is illegal.

That's incredibly dumb.

Not sure how they'd be able to tell if you're naked at home, lol. Apparently it's categorized as pornography - pornography is illegal in Singapore.

Being naked is considered pornography??? WTF
 

RM8

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Perhaps today they are similar. But there definitely in the past were regional differences.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Old_Japanese#Vowels
True, but that's quite ancient and in the end it became standardized quite early. So there's no Spanish or Japanese analogy to, say, "Good day, mate" in Australia vs. America :p English vowels are so all over the place that typos or deliberated humorous misspellings like dawg, turrible or dood are possible. The fact that in order to write a pure A sound you need to add a H (ah) is super counter intuitive, lol.
 

Ty4on

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True, but that's quite ancient and in the end it became standardized quite early. So there's no Spanish or Japanese analogy to, say, "Good day, mate" in Australia vs. America :p English vowels are so all over the place that typos or deliberated humorous misspellings like dawg, turrible or dood are possible. The fact that in order to write a pure A sound you need to add a H (ah) is super counter intuitive, lol.

The (spoken) vowels are ok, but the spelling is not. They just need more vowels :D
 
eeww sony fanboy, steer clear of that :p
Good luck! the "I'm friends with friends with Cohen" is awfully suspicious though...

I'm a Sony fanboy too :p And you're just jelly :p

He saw my photography and now wants to buy prints from me and introduce me to "the art scene in NY" :O

I must be dreaming, someone pinch me.


But seriously, I don't find any of what he said suspicious at all. I know Woody Allen's son. I converse with celebrities and persons I idolize via social media all the time (and I'm talking direct one-to-one exchanges, and one of these people knows Bill Gates). I'm sure you've heard of the six degrees of separation. It must be even fewer now with the social networking revolution.
 

scarlet

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Guise, we're all banned in Singapore :0 I have this ultra modern, advanced image of Singapore, a shame they're still so late to the party with this basic rights for minorities thing. I'd still love to visit it, though :p Seems like such a cool country. Other things that might get you in trouble over there: chewing gum, being naked even at home, smoking anywhere, hugging in public, not flushing the toilet or littering (some of these are quite reasonable, though).

Oral was illegal until 2007, lol.

1. Gum is forbidden
2. You can smoke in smoking area (indoor), or anywhere (outdoor)
3. You can hug or even kiss in public
4. Not sure about naked and flushing
5. Gay is illegal, but they still have gay bars and clubs :p
6. Singapore is fun city/country but you really have nothing a lot to do there
 

RM8

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I figured some of those wouldn't be enforced, or were exaggerated. Again, seems like a cool country outside of some wacko laws :p I'm pretty sure here in Mexico we have some laws that would be considered weird in other countries. Like clergy not being able to wear religious clothes in public
that's actually a good thing IMO.
 

mantidor

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I'm a Sony fanboy too :p And you're just jelly :p

He saw my photography and now wants to buy prints from me and introduce me to his artist friends :O

I must be dreaming, someone pinch me.

How could I be jelly if I haven't seen him? :p and you are also a Sony fanboy!?, my crush on you just died.
I'm mostly joking :p

Actually, back then you were talking about how ethical it was to share his pictures, but isn't he using Scruff? he's the one broadcasting his pictures to strangers! and worst even, to people within walking distance of him! it's not like you are posting his facebook or scruff handle. Share only if you want though of course :p
 

RM8

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Am I the only Sony fan who buys PS systems exclusively because of 3rd party support? Their 1st party output does nothing for me. With exception like Arc the Lad and Tomba.
 

mantidor

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I'm a Sony and Nintendo fanboy. And I added stuff to my previous post by the way.

I'm purely a Nintendo fanboy, it makes me the least sexy and cooler of fanboys but I wouldn't have it any other way. :D

Ok actually I'm a Nintendo/PC hybrid, which is probably even more off putting for the general populace out there, a true manchild! hehe

As for the suspicion is probably my colombian side talking, we distrust everything, also known as the papaya law, which I would explain if I wasn't on my phone.

Basically, really attractive man claiming to known Cohen indirectly, plus matching your tastes... I would have reverse image goggled his pics and cross reference his info just yo be sure he is not stealing someone's identity so he can meet me and steal my organs.

Am I the only Sony fan who buys PS systems exclusively because of 3rd party support? Their 1st party output does nothing for me. With exception like Arc the Lad and Tomba.

This is odd, most third party titles are multiplat aren't they? as "PC master race" I even have access to Dark Souls. What are the most notable third party exclusives of Sony consoles?
 

RM8

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This is odd, most third party titles are multiplat aren't they? as "PC master race" I even have access to Dark Souls. What are the most notable third party exclusives of Sony consoles?
This is only true for this gen, in previous generations Sony had plenty of 3rd party exclusives. My PC is eating my PS3 alive now that PC is getting more fighters :p
 

daripad

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It's been like a week+ since I've done any exercise, I think I want to get back into running. At least I have a better track record doing that instead of weight lifting. :p

I haven't done excercise seriously for months. I've just done once a week but just like 20 minutes of running. Right now I've had a little more time but it's rainy outside, so no excercise for me since my room is small and I can't do any activity here.

I'm pretty sure here in Mexico we have some laws that would be considered weird in other countries. Like clergy not being able to wear religious clothes in public
that's actually a good thing IMO.

Really? Mind blown, I didn't know. What kind of religious clothes though? Do you mean those that leaders use or one of those "jesus is my saviour" shirts?

I'm a Sony and Nintendo fanboy. And I added stuff to my previous post by the way.

Good, very good. I would be a good Sony fanboy if I wasn't more a Nintendo fan and I have to chose one or the other. Right now I'm leaning on WiiU :)

I'm purely a Nintendo fanboy, it makes me the least sexy and cooler of fanboys but I wouldn't have it any other way. :D

You are the sexiest guy ever just for that. But then you attack other Nintendo fans like me.
J/K, you are cool ;). Just try to be more gentle to us that play in your same team :p

dat veiny forearm hhhnnggg

I love veiny forearms too. Add some hair (not much) and we are done.


And I spent more time with my friend and other friends I have. He stayed more with me than the others and we even did some things and spoke more privatly. I love how he rubs my arm and puts his arm and hands on my shoulders. He is so cute doing that. And when he says something specifically for me he usually tries to look down on my face and puts it closer to mine, and I feel like kissing him but I can't :'(. Man, I hate this "Look but don't touch" thing I have to get through. I need to get my own boyfriend to fill those needs,, unfortunately I won't do that until some years have passed. I had a great time and it is a shame that we won't see us again for the next weeks due to our schedules.
 

RM8

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Really? Mind blown, I didn't know. What kind of religious clothes though? Do you mean those that leaders use or one of those "jesus is my saviour" shirts?
More like this:

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For being such a hardcore Catholic nut country, Mexico has a super strong church-state separation. Our politicians are terrible scum, but they don't mix their beliefs with their political intentions, because that's against the law here.
 

_Isaac

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I figured some of those wouldn't be enforced, or were exaggerated. Again, seems like a cool country outside of some wacko laws :p I'm pretty sure here in Mexico we have some laws that would be considered weird in other countries. Like clergy not being able to wear religious clothes in public
that's actually a good thing IMO.

Wow. I had no idea. That's kinda messed up to be honest. It's impeding their right to practice their religion. I guess maybe there is no such right there.
 

RM8

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Eh, I imagine the Vatican doesn't mind since Mexico is quite profitable for them anyway. And it's not like the Pope can't make public appearances wearing his usual Pope clothes and stuff.

Plus it's hardly 100% enforced - I think it's good since it can prevent schools (that in Mexico MUST be secular, at least public schools) from having religious events forced on students, for example.
 
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