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LGBThread |OT3| Friends of Dorothy!
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I can't believe I'm going to suggest this, but
maybe his dick is too big?
finding new (smaller u_____u) dick.
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
Well maybe not my furry porn.
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
I'm just messin, yeesh. I dont give a shit
hmmm, well, I've never done anything remotely close to anal but I can offer some semblance of advice.
Perhaps you're not relaxed enough when doing it? when you have anal you have to be completely relaxed otherwise your bottom would be too tight causing pain. Start with something slow and sensual, like foreplay or a massage to relax you, then work your way up to anal fingering, ask your partner to stick a finger gently in your bum to understand what causes pain and what causes pleasure, he can find your prostate and stimulate you, then you can try penetration again once you're completely relaxed.
anal is difficult I'd assume so don't feel bad if it doesn't work out, you can do other things besides it, I hope I'm not too off here to those who have anal experience hahahahah.
(damn, I like giving sex advice, maybe I should be a sexologist LOL)
HolyBaikal
Banned
I don't understand why frottage isn't more popular.
Can I say that without spoilers? Please say I can.
Can I say that without spoilers? Please say I can.
Not often enough. Will do soon!
That's just it, he's alright with anything. Been great about all of it and is comfortable with whatever I'm comfortable with. I just don't want to disappoint him; I feel like he's not being true to what he wants, and is just being nice. I definitely wanna give him what he wants and enjoy it myself as well.
Not the problem. Insert combination of sad and happy smiley faces. lol
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
You sure about that?
Not often enough. Will do soon!
That's just it, he's alright with anything. Been great about all of it and is comfortable with whatever I'm comfortable with. I just don't want to disappoint him; I feel like he's not being true to what he wants, and is just being nice. I definitely wanna give him what he wants and enjoy it myself as well.
Not the problem. Insert combination of sad and happy smiley faces. lol
Yeah, practise on your own, glass of wine, nice music, nice toy. If you still aren't digging it, it may just not be for you.
He mentioned that the guy is almost exclusively a top, so simply doing other things besides it might not be too much of a viable option because then you're depriving this guy from something he really likes sexually.
Frot is probably pretty popular, but nobody talks about it because it's easy and fun, and there's no pain or poopy messes.
We'll know if you get banned for it.
I think you can.
Frottage is a perfectly fine substitute to anal methinks.
That's just it, he's alright with anything. Been great about all of it and is comfortable with whatever I'm comfortable with. I just don't want to disappoint him; I feel like he's not being true to what he wants, and is just being nice. I definitely wanna give him what he wants and enjoy it myself as well.
I'm the last person to be offering advice, but I was going to say something similar to what _Isaac posted. If you don't find yourself growing into an enjoyment of it, maybe it's just not for you - I don't imagine you'd suddenly change your mind by brute forcing/keeping at it.
As for your fear of disappointing him and your worry that he's just being nice, maybe you should talk about it? It's easy to get caught up in being paranoid of what the other person might be thinking or not saying, it could very well all just be in your head.
Not often enough. Will do soon!
That's just it, he's alright with anything. Been great about all of it and is comfortable with whatever I'm comfortable with. I just don't want to disappoint him; I feel like he's not being true to what he wants, and is just being nice. I definitely wanna give him what he wants and enjoy it myself as well.
Not the problem. Insert combination of sad and happy smiley faces. lol
I like what Mr. F said about talking it over with him about your fear of disappointing him and the possibility that he's just being nice. If he still reassures you that he doesn't mind taking anal out, then give that a shot for a while, and see if it really bothers him.
Substitute for anal? I think for a lot of the people who like anal, frottage doesn't really satisfy them in the same way at all. Just a guess though.
I used fleet enemas before. Cleaned me out good. Didn't use them every time. It's not good for you.
I like what Mr. F said about talking it over with him about your fear of disappointing him and the possibility that he's just being nice. If he still reassures you that he doesn't mind taking anal out, then give that a shot for a while, and see if it really bothers him.
Teamwork!
dryuriev7777
Member
So I'm helping out this straight couple with their wedding plans and such since I'm the groom's best man and HOLY FUCK weddings are ridiculously expensive. The man, who's dirt poor mind you, is paying for a cruise this summer, making payments on a $5000 ring (which he had to get the ring setting replaced because it was slightly different than what she wanted and cost him an extra $700), and they both have to pay for the wedding themselves since their parents aren't rolling in cash either. All this to make her happy because she wants it perfect and she's planned it out forever ago.
So I bring this up because I want to know if and when any of you want to get married (disregarding certain marriage laws depending on where you live), is there anything in particular you want for your wedding day? Do you want overly lavish and have everything perfect? Personally after all this I'm content with getting some cheap-ass plastic wedding band and just throwing an awesome non-formal party in my back yard to celebrate love I guess but mostly so that we can gorge on food and use money that would be spent on tuxedos on a free open bar instead.
Granted I haven't met my future amazing rich beautiful supermodel lawyer doctor husband yet, so it would totally depend on his thoughts and reaching a consensus on what we want. So what do you all personally want?
So I bring this up because I want to know if and when any of you want to get married (disregarding certain marriage laws depending on where you live), is there anything in particular you want for your wedding day? Do you want overly lavish and have everything perfect? Personally after all this I'm content with getting some cheap-ass plastic wedding band and just throwing an awesome non-formal party in my back yard to celebrate love I guess but mostly so that we can gorge on food and use money that would be spent on tuxedos on a free open bar instead.
Granted I haven't met my future amazing rich beautiful supermodel lawyer doctor husband yet, so it would totally depend on his thoughts and reaching a consensus on what we want. So what do you all personally want?
"Wants a lavish wedding, damn the cost" is a minor warning flag for me, I don't think my heart could take being hitched to someone who isn't seriously frugal with money. Personally speaking, a lot of that ceremony and indulgence falls flat with me anyway, it just rings so hollow. I'd rather be wed to my Braveheart in a secret forest grove *swoon*
My only requirements are:
- good food (like seriously, good food)
- AMAZING DJ/amazing music. there will be dancing, motherfuckers.
- also i want a ring that looks cool and has some kind of blue jewel on it because blue things are great.
- amazing dj
- cats are allowed
lol, true. I just worry sometimes that there's a pressure to do anal if you're in a gay relationship.
I'm not sure. Maybe Opiate or someone could weigh in? I wasn't super active in the last gay thread.
Speaking from personal experience, it's one of those things that only gets better with time. I think there's less pressure and more room to relax when it's just you and an inanimate object (unless you've got a sex toy that yells at you or something haha). I didn't care for it much until I started taking the time to learn to relax. I also had a guy who was pretty patient.
I'm so lazy. TBH, I'll let my lover decide whatever he/she wants and go with it.
Devolution
Member
I honestly don't care for a fancy ring nor a lavish wedding. I think it's fiscally irresponsible. All that money which could go towards a car or a down payment on a home.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
That's me 100%. I don't care for any of the lavish, showy wedding stuff - designer cakes and grand speeches and $$$$ wedding rings/dresses - it just seems so empty to me. And a huge waste of money.
Also, this. Give me good food, good music, and good friends and fuck all the rest.
Devolution
Member
Anecdotal and all, but the people I know with the cheapest weddings and elopings have lasted the longest >_>.
Yup. If you've got these, what else do you even need?
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
That's cause all you need is love. :3
If I was going to blow money on something useless and over the top on my wedding I'd much prefer it be that the reception begins with the waitstaff doing a fully-choreographed version of Be Our Guest before serving a five-star menu with an open bar. Actually, I don't even care about the ceremony. I'd just want an amazing reception.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
My favourite wedding of friends was a surprise one. Everyone thought they were at an engagement party and then a celebrant appears. Gasp. Caught everyone off guard and was super relaxed and casual.
The other awesome one was one with FIREWORKS when the cake got cut. Which was pretty awesome.
The other awesome one was one with FIREWORKS when the cake got cut. Which was pretty awesome.
Oh, and I've gone from more or less a total top to a total bottom in the span of about two years. You just have to have someone who you're comfortable with who also knows what they're doing.
Mystic Theurge
Member
I haven't tried bottoming yet. I would be a sad bear if it turned out that I didn't enjoy it.
wow at that last page XD
i personally don't want too many people to my wedding, but i want it to be memorable.
I do not care about designer clothes, designer cakes or any of that crap, but i want to do something that is gonna remain in my memory and in the memory of everyone present for the rest of their lives.
So i'm ok with spending money to make it epic, but i'm not going to spend money on labels.
ie:
200k to rent an island for us and our guests and wild party for the whole day with accommodations for everyone invited to spend the night there?
fantastic!
10k for my clothes or some cake just because it was designed by someone "famous"?
get the hell out of here
10k for the food because what i'm serving is truffles and lobster? ok with that
10k for the food because whoever is cooking the meal was on top chef? get out!
i'm of course assuming that i could afford any of that stuff without going broke and having to jeopardize my future and my honeymoon.
I do not want to go broke just because of a party, but if i will have the money and resources to do something epic i'd love to do it.
If all i'd have to organize the wedding are 10k i'd just make sure to get the most out of that money, and if i'd be on a budget food is going to be the top priority.
speaking about location i'd personally love to do it in a park or a forest
i personally don't want too many people to my wedding, but i want it to be memorable.
I do not care about designer clothes, designer cakes or any of that crap, but i want to do something that is gonna remain in my memory and in the memory of everyone present for the rest of their lives.
So i'm ok with spending money to make it epic, but i'm not going to spend money on labels.
ie:
200k to rent an island for us and our guests and wild party for the whole day with accommodations for everyone invited to spend the night there?
fantastic!
10k for my clothes or some cake just because it was designed by someone "famous"?
get the hell out of here
10k for the food because what i'm serving is truffles and lobster? ok with that
10k for the food because whoever is cooking the meal was on top chef? get out!
i'm of course assuming that i could afford any of that stuff without going broke and having to jeopardize my future and my honeymoon.
I do not want to go broke just because of a party, but if i will have the money and resources to do something epic i'd love to do it.
If all i'd have to organize the wedding are 10k i'd just make sure to get the most out of that money, and if i'd be on a budget food is going to be the top priority.
speaking about location i'd personally love to do it in a park or a forest
Phonomezer
Banned
Weddings are fun but I always drink waaaayyy too much at the reception >:/
We just need everyone to be responsible and adult about it. Sexual talk is not a problem; puerile talk is.
Defining maturity is, obviously, difficult. Just be intelligent people and there won't likely be a problem. If you wonder if something is okay, don't post it. At least in the recent history of this thread, I see no serious issues.
This is not a rule particular to GayGAF, by the way; we apply the same basic sex/hot pic rules to straight men, straight women, and everyone else.
Best man for my friend's wedding as well. Only difference is they're getting help with theirs and they're trying to be frugal but that shit just adds up anyway. They went with the 'rent a tux' option and even trying to keep things down in price it'll still cost each of the wedding party over $200 for the suits.
The moment you walk into any of these stores and mention something's for a wedding, the price immediately skyrockets.
At this point, I'd rather not get married. (Which works out because you can't marry yourself anyway! ;
Bel Marduk
Banned
You need to practice at home.. I didn't like it much at first, either but its just something you have to stretch out.
lesbo sex is pretty clean
Fimbulvetr
Member
Mystic Theurge
Member
DR2K
Banned
It's fucking terrible. Don't do it.
And I think that's the crux of it. What's being discussed now is... well... a discussion. More specifically someone asking about a problem and looking for solutions. The last time it was an issue, it was less a discussion and more of a brag. This isn't the place to be posting things that are better suited for a Fifty Shades novel. If the goal is just titillation, it's probably best to avoid saying it. Or send it in a PM.
Now, I have to ask, what's with the Luigi hats?
Dead Prince
Banned
is it lots of roleplaying and talking?
Dead Prince
Banned
They are all sTanning to the leSSer mario bros. What would you expecT from this crowd?
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