I don't straight crush often, but I reaally gay-crush often. I love my gf and I've never been unfaithful to him, and hope I never will, but once in a while there's a charming boy who comes and makes me feel so jizzy. It all fades with the time, though, but I think I have a slight problem.
I don't think it's bad. Just know them for what they are. You are in a relationship, you are not dead. Of course you're gonna be attracted to other people, however you made a conscious decision to be (I assume) monogamous and in a relationship with your gf/bf (couldn't figure it out) and there are reasons for that.
Don't beat yourself up about being attracted to people, as long as you don't spend every single minute lusting after them I don't see the problem.
Sometimes I check the OT Section and I get depressed/scared because of all the anti-gay stuff that's there. Like the France protest or the Gay teen burned alive. I don't know I get all nervious and think about the future and stuff, then I go do something else or switch over to the Gaming side, lol.
If it's any consolation, the anti-gay march in France is pretty much for nothing since both the house and senate are controlled but the same party as the government and they're mostly pro-gay. We ARE getting our marriage or I'm never going back home.
Straight crush. You can always say if only. With a gay crush you are just rejected.
Yeah, and then you can move on to better things. Like people who will actually reciprocate.
I had a MAJOR crush on one of my best friend, for months and months I stood there wishing, hoping, and trying to figure out if he liked me. Told him I had a crush on him a couple of weeks ago, got denied, moved on. Won't say I wasn't bummed, but in the end I was glad I vocalized it.
That guy is so hot. UGH.
