Who cares about homework... How To Destroy Angels on Tuesday! (sun)
i can't wait it's gonna be so amazing...If I Ever Feel Better (thats a music reference)
for real though i got sick at coachella. so much fucking dust
among other things :x
Who cares about homework... How To Destroy Angels on Tuesday! (sun)
i can't wait it's gonna be so amazing...If I Ever Feel Better (thats a music reference)
for real though i got sick at coachella. so much fucking dustholy shit. not that it wasn't expected (being in the desert and all), but i clearly didn't make good enough use of my bandannasamong other things :x
He wanted to put a ring on it without getting the chance to test the goods? You're going to have to teach us your secret. lol
I was more gentlemen than usual, but I figured I'd try the classy approach to dating. Since the other way is not working.
I woulda dropped the bomb right then and there and seen his face go red.
People usually feel like shit and pull 180 when you do.
So today my boss and some of our co-workers were in a meeting room waiting for some people to arrive. They were pretty late so we ended up talking about random stuff like movies and tv shows. Somehow the show Glee came up. My boss mentions that he's not a fan of what the show teaches. I ask him to elaborate. He says that the makers of the show are pushing a homosexual agenda in too much of an in-your-face and obnoxious manner. At that point, I pretty much responded with "Ahh yeah I know some people don't like that," and the conversation continued on to something else. He is five years older than I am, and he used to be my co-worker before he was promoted to be my boss. He does not know I'm gay, but three of my co-workers do, and they were quiet during the whole Glee conversation.
I was mentioning this to another gay gaffer, and he considered what my boss said offensive because of the use of "homosexual agenda." I didn't really feel offended though, and it didn't really affect my opinion of him. I still respect and admire him a lot. Primarily, because he's a smart programmer, and he's just a cool kid to talk to. What do you guys think? Should I have said something? Do you consider what he said offensive (maybe considering his role as a manager)?
Gay agenda is the dumbest thing people ever discuss. It's not like we're running an Illuminati cult here. And even if we were, I don't know why they make it out to be such a terrible thing. At least we'd look good taking over the world.
If any of you oust the secret brother/sisterhood you're getting demoted to rank 1 apprentice oathkeeper!
was sex involved in any of those 2 dates.
and steal his money and his bus token.
Online dating is never about:
- Serious relationships
- Friendship
It's pretty much a rule Some people even get angry when you remind them about your profile clearly stating you're looking for friends when they try to get further. Kind of why I haven't dated in ages.
I was mentioning this to another gay gaffer, and he considered what my boss said offensive because of the use of "homosexual agenda." I didn't really feel offended though, and it didn't really affect my opinion of him. I still respect and admire him a lot. Primarily, because he's a smart programmer, and he's just a cool kid to talk to. What do you guys think? Should I have said something? Do you consider what he said offensive (maybe considering his role as a manager)?
Nope, just a kiss.
if he's using the phrase 'homosexual agenda', it's very unlikely he's that smart.
what you did is fine. not everyone needs to draw battle lines
See the results you get by not putting out?
Just joking about playing hard to get making people more interested. And beards have that effect on peopleSex isn't a big deal to me.
Side note is everyone a bottom? I swear since I grew my beard out they've been coming to me out of the wood work. Its really nice.
So today my boss and some of our co-workers were in a meeting room waiting for some people to arrive. They were pretty late so we ended up talking about random stuff like movies and tv shows. Somehow the show Glee came up. My boss mentions that he's not a fan of what the show teaches. I ask him to elaborate. He says that the makers of the show are pushing a homosexual agenda in too much of an in-your-face and obnoxious manner. At that point, I pretty much responded with "Ahh yeah I know some people don't like that," and the conversation continued on to something else. He is five years older than I am, and he used to be my co-worker before he was promoted to be my boss. He does not know I'm gay, but three of my co-workers do, and they were quiet during the whole Glee conversation.
I was mentioning this to another gay gaffer, and he considered what my boss said offensive because of the use of "homosexual agenda." I didn't really feel offended though, and it didn't really affect my opinion of him. I still respect and admire him a lot. Primarily, because he's a smart programmer, and he's just a cool kid to talk to. What do you guys think? Should I have said something? Do you consider what he said offensive (maybe considering his role as a manager)?
So today my boss and some of our co-workers were in a meeting room waiting for some people to arrive. They were pretty late so we ended up talking about random stuff like movies and tv shows. Somehow the show Glee came up. My boss mentions that he's not a fan of what the show teaches. I ask him to elaborate. He says that the makers of the show are pushing a homosexual agenda in too much of an in-your-face and obnoxious manner. At that point, I pretty much responded with "Ahh yeah I know some people don't like that," and the conversation continued on to something else. He is five years older than I am, and he used to be my co-worker before he was promoted to be my boss. He does not know I'm gay, but three of my co-workers do, and they were quiet during the whole Glee conversation.
I was mentioning this to another gay gaffer, and he considered what my boss said offensive because of the use of "homosexual agenda." I didn't really feel offended though, and it didn't really affect my opinion of him. I still respect and admire him a lot. Primarily, because he's a smart programmer, and he's just a cool kid to talk to. What do you guys think? Should I have said something? Do you consider what he said offensive (maybe considering his role as a manager)?
So today my boss and some of our co-workers were in a meeting room waiting for some people to arrive. They were pretty late so we ended up talking about random stuff like movies and tv shows. Somehow the show Glee came up. My boss mentions that he's not a fan of what the show teaches. I ask him to elaborate. He says that the makers of the show are pushing a homosexual agenda in too much of an in-your-face and obnoxious manner. At that point, I pretty much responded with "Ahh yeah I know some people don't like that," and the conversation continued on to something else. He is five years older than I am, and he used to be my co-worker before he was promoted to be my boss. He does not know I'm gay, but three of my co-workers do, and they were quiet during the whole Glee conversation.
Militant GAF at the barricades yet again.
I had a similar conversation about this supposed "gay agenda" recently. One (gay) guy claimed that nowadays there are hardly any movies, TV series or books without gay characters (which is bullshit in itself as shown by the conversation you guys had few pages back, when it was hard to find a TV series where gay characters aren't either a stereotypical comic relief or just minor characters) and thus the "gay agenda" is more and more obvious and that may annoy straight people. And I found that ridiculous. How can showing characters with certain features that exist in real world be considered artificial and forced? It's like saying that having a dark-skinned character is "pushing black agenda" or having a single strong independent women is "pushing feminist agenda". Such people exist among us so why do some people expect that they will suddenly disappear from fictional worlds that are based on the real world?
Care to elaborate, Instigator?
I don't think the situation warranted blowing up, wiggling fingers and educating the imbeciles.
I realize many GAFFERs are just students and have not started careers. It makes a difference when you actually have to work with people for the long haul. You don't want to create a toxic environment and have the whole dynamics of the workplace work against you, perhaps even forcing you to leave.
In other words, choose your battles carefully. Be friendly and use diplomacy.
I don't think the situation warranted blowing up, wiggling fingers and educating the imbeciles.
I realize many GAFFERs are just students and have not started careers. It makes a difference when you actually have to work with people for the long haul. You don't want to create a toxic environment.
In other words, choose your battles carefully.
I don't think the situation warranted blowing up, wiggling fingers and educating the imbeciles.
I realize many GAFFERs are just students and have not started careers. It makes a difference when you actually have to work with people for the long haul. You don't want to create a toxic environment and have the whole dynamics of the workplace work against you, perhaps even forcing you to leave.
In other words, choose your battles carefully. Be friendly and use diplomacy.
Saying hateful things creates a toxic environment.
Yes, and as a superior, it's definitely more of his responsibility, but calling him out in a hostile manner won't likely help matters.
Yes, and as a superior, it's definitely more of his responsibility, but calling him out in a hostile manner won't likely help matters.
Glee's depiction of homosexual characters is dreadful. The main gay guy acts is an asshole but all his action are depicted as positive and supposedly empowering. I find it really grating. I'm always baffled when Glee is cited as a show with a positive representation of homosexual. (granted I couldn't stand the show as a whole, so I haven't seen all of it).
But why does it have to be in hostile manner? There's always such a thing as casual discussion.
It doesn't.
But that was in response to some of the posters saying they'd be all over his face and stuff like that. But I understand GAF is often all talk.
Dead Man and Instigator, stop fighting, specially the former because is trying to annoy the later while discussing his age, that was unrespectful.
My friends now think I'm definitely straight (lol) just because of a comment I made. We were talking about a friend that made new friends. There are two girls among them (let's call them girl 1 or 2) and we were saying that everyone was fine with girl 1 because she is very friendly and kind. Then someone mentioned girl 2 and I said that I didn't remember her. They described girl 2 and then I quickly said: Yeah, I remember her, she is a very pretty girl.
Now they think that I have a crush on girl 2 and that I should befriend her in order to date her. I was laughing hard inside of me.
Then, I went to a class with a friend (he's a guy), and before the teacher came into the classroom he told me that I forgave him because he thought I was gay. I asked him why he thought tha and he mentioned that I was too serious and that I never talked about girls like that. I thought of coming out to him but I decided not to do that because his girlfriend could spread that information with everyone (She can't keep a secret, as bad as it is, but she does it without bad intentions, is just that she talks with herself too loud sometimes).
Now I won't be able to come out to all of them because they'll think that being gay is BS and a decision and that I should stick with girls like (I've never had a girlfriend, but they now think that I like girls :/)
Oh well...
Dead Man and Instigator, stop fighting, specially the former because is trying to annoy the later while discussing his age, that was unrespectful.
My friends now think I'm definitely straight (lol) just because of a comment I made. We were talking about a friend that made new friends. There are two girls among them (let's call them girl 1 or 2) and we were saying that everyone was fine with girl 1 because she is very friendly and kind. Then someone mentioned girl 2 and I said that I didn't remember her. They described girl 2 and then I quickly said: Yeah, I remember her, she is a very pretty girl.
Now they think that I have a crush on girl 2 and that I should befriend her in order to date her. I was laughing hard inside of me.
Then, I went to a class with a friend (he's a guy), and before the teacher came into the classroom he told me that I forgave him because he thought I was gay. I asked him why he thought tha and he mentioned that I was too serious and that I never talked about girls like that. I thought of coming out to him but I decided not to do that because his girlfriend could spread that information with everyone (She can't keep a secret, as bad as it is, but she does it without bad intentions, is just that she talks with herself too loud sometimes).
Now I won't be able to come out to all of them because they'll think that being gay is BS and a decision and that I should stick with girls like (I've never had a girlfriend, but they now think that I like girls :/)
Oh well...
Between the faux naivete, speaking past people, and dismissing opinions on the basis of age, zeal, or being an internet forum poster (no way, what the hell are you, then?), I'm relishing Instigator's patronizing contributions to the thread. Oh you quaint, quaint homos, get a job and stop making waves, don't you want careers with people who despise you and make you personally uncomfortable? If "be a doormat" isn't in the job description, you can set the terms of extraneous conversation or even retort (within reason, I don't think we've got a hot foot advocacy movement going here). It's in the material interest of no one for you to forget that you're a vertebrate.
"Don't talk about this with me".
"I think that's nonsense for reasons x, y, and z".
"*merciless satire*"
"*shakes head and sighs*"
My friends now think I'm definitely straight (lol) just because of a comment I made. We were talking about a friend that made new friends. There are two girls among them (let's call them girl 1 or 2) and we were saying that everyone was fine with girl 1 because she is very friendly and kind. Then someone mentioned girl 2 and I said that I didn't remember her. They described girl 2 and then I quickly said: Yeah, I remember her, she is a very pretty girl.
Now they think that I have a crush on girl 2 and that I should befriend her in order to date her. I was laughing hard inside of me.
it might be all fun and giggles at the beginning, but trust me your friends trying to hook you up with girls is not that fun, also because you'll have to come up with a laundry list of excuses every time you turn down the offer.
I'm not surprised that relatively liberal France has had these huge protests against gay rights lately.
So gay guys can't find girls/women attractive? Well, that's interesting. :lol
Just say that you're an awkward nerd, introvert and afraid of meeting new people. Works every time.
Between the faux naivete, speaking past people, and dismissing opinions on the basis of age, zeal, or being an internet forum poster (no way, what the hell are you, then?), I'm relishing Instigator's patronizing contributions to the thread. Oh you quaint, quaint homos, get a job and stop making waves, don't you want careers with people who despise you and make you personally uncomfortable? If "be a doormat" isn't in the job description, you can set the terms of extraneous conversation or even retort (within reason, I don't think we've got a hot foot advocacy movement going here). It's in the material interest of no one for you to forget that you're a vertebrate.
"Don't talk about this with me".
"I think that's nonsense for reasons x, y, and z".
"*merciless satire*"
"*shakes head and sighs*"