I hate to sound like a commercial but just do it, it's probably the answer you came here for to be honest. If it doesn't work it won't, but if there is chemistry then great! going with lowered expectations is better.
Heh, yeah, I guess I needed some ressurance.
I have no idea why I find it so hard. Maybe like rm88 said - it's the effort-reward kind of thing, and in a way I'm quite used to being single, for better or worse
I'm on teamabs, BTW. So so sexy....