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LGBThread |OT4| We're (still) Here! We're (still) Queer!

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Zantetsuken88

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Menaged said:
I feel like there's something wrong with me...
I don't date a lot, any a few days ago I went on a 2nd date with someone. As a person, he's great and I love the fact that there's someone to talk to, but once we got to his place and started fooling around, things changed.

I wasn't super attracted to him before, but after making out I felt less and less attracted to him. I think that the main thing was the most basic one - kissing. It just felt off all the time, and then there were some other traits that makes me feel like such a shallow any shitty person.

Why do I feel there's something wrong with me? Because I can't help but wondering that maybe I'm looking for these stuff because deep down I'm afraid to start for the first time something meaningful (I'm 25 if that matters).
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There's nothing wrong with you. We just aren't sexually attracted to every 'nice guy'. Give yourself a break :)
 
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mantidor

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Menaged said:
I feel like there's something wrong with me...
I don't date a lot, any a few days ago I went on a 2nd date with someone. As a person, he's great and I love the fact that there's someone to talk to, but once we got to his place and started fooling around, things changed.

I wasn't super attracted to him before, but after making out I felt less and less attracted to him. I think that the main thing was the most basic one - kissing. It just felt off all the time, and then there were some other traits that makes me feel like such a shallow any shitty person.

Why do I feel there's something wrong with me? Because I can't help but wondering that maybe I'm looking for these stuff because deep down I'm afraid to start for the first time something meaningful (I'm 25 if that matters).
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Kissing is a perfect chemistry test, if things fell apart after a kiss you are just not into him, it's perfectly ok.

That's why I really don't mind kissing right away when I meet someone, much better than the awkwardness of doing it later and trying to reject the person if things don't work.
 
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Menaged

Member
Zantetsuken88 said:
There's nothing wrong with you. We just aren't sexually attracted to every 'nice guy'. Give yourself a break :)
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mantidor said:
Kissing is a perfect chemistry test, if things fell apart after a kiss you are just not into him, it's perfectly ok.

That's why I really don't mind kissing right away when I meet someone, much better than the awkwardness of doing it later and trying to reject the person if things don't work.
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Thanks for cheering me up :)

I guess I should it end it pretty soon. I hate doing that, especialy (as arrogant as that may sound) when you feel like the other person wants it much more than you do.
 
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Sai-kun

Banned
mantidor said:
Kissing is a perfect chemistry test, if things fell apart after a kiss you are just not into him, it's perfectly ok.

That's why I really don't mind kissing right away when I meet someone, much better than the awkwardness of doing it later and trying to reject the person if things don't work.
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Yeah, kissing is a huge deal maker/breaker for me. No worries, Menaged.
 
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BlueBadger

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hateradio said:
It's a sign to come out.


I'm 12, what is this?
jk
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LOLL!! Jk about being 12 or jk about knowing what it is? :p

Menaged said:
I feel like there's something wrong with me...
I don't date a lot, any a few days ago I went on a 2nd date with someone. As a person, he's great and I love the fact that there's someone to talk to, but once we got to his place and started fooling around, things changed.

I wasn't super attracted to him before, but after making out I felt less and less attracted to him. I think that the main thing was the most basic one - kissing. It just felt off all the time, and then there were some other traits that makes me feel like such a shallow any shitty person.

Why do I feel there's something wrong with me? Because I can't help but wondering that maybe I'm looking for these stuff because deep down I'm afraid to start for the first time something meaningful (I'm 25 if that matters).

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@BlueBadger - That's so adorable (both what your friends did, and you of course)
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Awww thanks o__o I'm blushing..

Anyway, there is absolutely 100% nothing wrong with you! In my opinion that's totally normal. My feelings for guys have changed multiple times after firsts kisses etc etc. Please don't worry about that! :3 if you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it. It's out of your control and it's better that you find out earlier on :)

Caladrius said:
Is this a Euphemism for a penis?

I'm actually serious.
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This is why I laughed at it. So I'll feel really dumb if it turns out not to be ;____; LOL!
 
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Menaged

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RatskyWatsky said:
What were these traits?
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Maybe I shouldn't have mentiond it, but I did, and you asked - so PLEASE, no offence to anyone who shares these traits.

Well, there was quite a lot of hair back.
A slight gap between the front teeth.
A wild jungle down there, which made going down on him not as fun as it could be.

So, like I said, I feel a tad shallow...

But I totally think that the kissing part was the deal breaker. My tongue \ mouth met his teeth, wayyy too many times. I'm glad I'm not the only one who places kissing at such high importance.
 
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chronos4590

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scarlet said:
That awkward moment when you check grindr, and your roommate in hostel in front of you is next to your profile lol
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Bladenic said:
Scandal.
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Scandalous.gif

I had to lol
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Menaged said:
Maybe I shouldn't have mentiond it, but I did, and you asked - so PLEASE, no offence to anyone who shares these traits.

Well, there was quite a lot of hair back.
A slight gap between the front teeth.
A wild jungle down there, which made going down on him not as fun as it could be.

So, like I said, I feel a tad shallow...

But I totally think that the kissing part was the deal breaker. My tongue \ mouth met his teeth, wayyy too many times. I'm glad I'm not the only one who places kissing at such high importance.
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Was he hot though? General hotness
and big diq
trumps all flaws.
 
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scarlet

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Bladenic said:
Scandal.

Wasn't he straight?

Get it.
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mantidor said:
The argentinian bear? :O

Go for it!
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RatskyWatsky said:
What were these traits?



Does he have any nudes on his profile? And wasn't he supposed to be straight?! :O
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Nah, i'm in Tokyo right now, different hostk and different roomate. We spent the night talking about our personal lifes.

It a really awkward, cuz we talked for an hour and we knew about each other's sexuality but avoid it and then grindr confirmed it lol.


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Happy birthday BlueBadger!
 
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BlueBadger

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scarlet said:
Nah, i'm in Tokyo right now, different hostk and different roomate. We spent the night talking about our personal lifes.

It a really awkward, cuz we talked for an hour and we knew about each other's sexuality but avoid it and then grindr confirmed it lol.


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Happy birthday BlueBadger!
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D'aww thanks mister!!! <3 <3 <3
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
BlueBadger said:
GAWD you make this thread even more amazing than it already is <3
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<3

Menaged said:
Nah, quite average looking.
Regular sized dick, and a bit wierdly shaped...
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UGH you were right to dump him them. Sounds vile.

Bladenic said:
Jesus this poor fool.
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mhm

scarlet said:
It a really awkward, cuz we talked for an hour and we knew about each other's sexuality but avoid it and then grindr confirmed it lol.
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Did you sex?
 
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red13th

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-TRN- said:
Jesus where does he work I need to be there!
That's not very common over here, sadly(though I did see some hot police officers here on carnival :)
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He works at the main station in São Paulo, I don't take the subway anymore but it was my stop when I was in college. heh.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Bladenic said:
Ikr

As long as Girls (yes Girls after S3), Looking, and Veep are around for a while yet, I'll be happy.
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Girls and Veep will be around for as long as their creators want. Looking is up in the air tho. Next season might be its last.

I haven't seen Shameless unfoch, though I heard that it's very good.
 
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Bladenic

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RatskyWatsky said:
Girls and Veep will be around for as long as their creators want. Looking is up in the air tho. Next season might be its last.

I haven't seen Shameless unfoch, though I heard that it's very good.
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Here's hoping Looking comes back with monstrous ratings (lol yeah right).

Sis you need to start Shameless ASAP. I watched Rectify for you, you need to watch Shameless for me (of course the show lengths aren't comparable but whatevs).
 
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hateradio

The Most Dangerous Yes Man
Ugh, The Newsroom. HBO will never be forgiven for giving that show a third season but not Enlightened. &#128530;
 
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michaeltraps

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I'm at a straight friend's bachelor party in Atlantic City and I'm just sitting here on my phone looking up soccer scores. How long can I feign interest in boobs with appropriate enthusiasm?
 
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umop_3pisdn

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michaeltraps said:
I'm at a straight friend's bachelor party in Atlantic City and I'm just sitting here on my phone looking up soccer scores. How long can I feign interest in boobs with appropriate enthusiasm?
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I don't care if he's my best friend, I still don't think I'd go to a straight bachelor's party :p
 
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umop_3pisdn

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michaeltraps said:
I'm also the best man. So I have to play nice. Boobs are cool, "When in Rome" and all... But there's a limit.
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I wondered if that was it. Maybe there's like a special clause where after all the organized stuff winds down you can leave (but that may be too late) past the two hour mark I think I'd grow to benignly hate my company :p
 
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michaeltraps

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umop_3pisdn said:
I wondered if that was it. Maybe there's like a special clause where after all the organized stuff winds down you can leave (but that may be too late) past the two hour mark I think I'd grow to benignly hate my company :p
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If only I was at the casino we were staying in. I think leaving, calling a cab, and heading back to our room would unfortunately be a tad dickish. I'll suck it up, do my duty, and oogle cute guys on the dance floor in the meantime.

Plus I don't really gamble so I'm being a level 99 wet blanket right now.
 
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Henchmen21

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michaeltraps said:
If only I was at the casino we were staying in. I think leaving, calling a cab, and heading back to our room would unfortunately be a tad dickish. I'll suck it up, do my duty, and oogle cute guys on the dance floor in the meantime.

Plus I don't really gamble so I'm being a level 99 wet blanket right now.
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Are you out to this friend?
 
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umop_3pisdn

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michaeltraps said:
If only I was at the casino we were staying in. I think leaving, calling a cab, and heading back to our room would unfortunately be a tad dickish. I'll suck it up, do my duty, and oogle cute guys on the dance floor in the meantime.

Plus I don't really gamble so I'm being a level 99 wet blanket right now.
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It might be, but keep it in your pocket. I have the (un)fortunate tendency to show whatever I'm feeling whether I want to or not, so sometimes I use the excuse that it's better to leave than to bring other people down :p

Gambling would be the perfect thing! At least for me I tend to channel stress into hedonistic or risk-taking behavior. It might be fun to play the role of the brooding degenerate as a kind of diversion :)
 
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michaeltraps

Member
umop_3pisdn said:
It might be, but keep it in your pocket. I have the (un)fortunate tendency to show whatever I'm feeling whether I want to or not, so sometimes I use the excuse that it's better to leave than to bring other people down :p

Gambling would be the perfect thing! At least for me I tend to channel stress into hedonistic or risk-taking behavior. It might be fun to play the role of the brooding degenerate as a kind of diversion :)
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Haha! We'll see how the rest of the night goes. DJ isn't bad at least :p

But yeah, I get stressed whenever spending money, so gambling doesn't mesh well with my tendencies. I'll just keep drinking. Woo.
 
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