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LGBThread |OT4| We're (still) Here! We're (still) Queer!

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Dany

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Congrats on graduating! Take time and binge-play some games. Seems like a great opportunity to get into the DS2 hype.

As for the gym - I think you can forgive yourself for missing a week... I haven't stepped foot in mine
which is embarrassingly down the block from my apartment
since 2013. I need a regimen again desperately given summer being just around the corner and hopefully the end of my dating hiatus. It's amazing how much regular exercise can boost your confidence and overall mood.

I too am thankful that you graduated! Congratz!

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Thanks! I don't feel relieve though. I feel empty without school.
I'm also a nerd so....

Hopefully I can find a good substitute for a bit.
 

Spider from Mars

tap that thorax
I need help LGBT-Gaf!
So I have always been attracted to dudes and have made out with a few but never anything more. I have always dated women and whatnot but I am curious if I am really bi or if I am just attracted to certain people. I would say I am between a 1.5 and 2 on the kinsey scale but have no clue how to proceed. I changed my okcupid to bi to see if i could find a guy to test the waters but I don't want to panic if/when things get rolling. I know this is a confusing "question" but my thoughts are scattered.
Halp!
Show me the light
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
I need help LGBT-Gaf!
So I have always been attracted to dudes and have made out with a few but never anything more. I have always dated women and whatnot but I am curious if I am really bi or if I am just attracted to certain people. I would say I am between a 1.5 and 2 on the kinsey scale but have no clue how to proceed. I changed my okcupid to bi to see if i could find a guy to test the waters but I don't want to panic if/when things get rolling. I know this is a confusing "question" but my thoughts are scattered.
Halp!
Show me the light

Go to a gay bathhouse and fool around with some of the guys there.
 

Dany

Banned
Go through with what you want. It will be okay if you end up having your sexual options double ;)

As long as your okcupid profile says that you are still trying to understand your own sexuality then it's okay using okcupid. Don't use it to only receive messages, but to send them out.

Keep us posted :) you're confusion is most likely founded in the uncomfortableness of the labels we have for sexuality. But I'm speculating, why are you nervous?
 

Replicant

Member
I need help LGBT-Gaf!
So I have always been attracted to dudes and have made out with a few but never anything more. I have always dated women and whatnot but I am curious if I am really bi or if I am just attracted to certain people. I would say I am between a 1.5 and 2 on the kinsey scale but have no clue how to proceed. I changed my okcupid to bi to see if i could find a guy to test the waters but I don't want to panic if/when things get rolling. I know this is a confusing "question" but my thoughts are scattered.
Halp!
Show me the light

Get yourself some gay porn and see if those aroused you or not. If it does then find yourself a guy to hook up with.
 

Spider from Mars

tap that thorax
Keep us posted :) you're confusion is most likely founded in the uncomfortableness of the labels we have for sexuality. But I'm speculating, why are you nervous?

Nah, I'm not nervous about labels or anything, I don't really give a shit. I've always been a believer in sexual fluidity I'm just trying to find the right way to give this thing a go.
Also, when I changed my profile to bi I found out that guys are indeed much more direct and filthy with their messages haha.
 

Dany

Banned
Nah, I'm not nervous about labels or anything, I don't really give a shit. I've always been a believer in sexual fluidity I'm just trying to find the right way to give this thing a go.
Also, when I changed my profile to bi I found out that guys are indeed much more direct and filthy with their messages haha.
Its a lil nerve racking because its exciting. :p I think you're going about it as right as you can. Better than hooking up on grindr at least.
 
Thanks! I don't feel relieve though. I feel empty without school.
I'm also a nerd so....

Hopefully I can find a good substitute for a bit.
When you go from tons of schoolwork to none at all, it takes a while to readjust. Though, it seems like you'll be busy again soon enough. Try to find a hobby that provides you a similar fulfillment until the application process and eventual nursing program.

I need help LGBT-Gaf!
So I have always been attracted to dudes and have made out with a few but never anything more. I have always dated women and whatnot but I am curious if I am really bi or if I am just attracted to certain people. I would say I am between a 1.5 and 2 on the kinsey scale but have no clue how to proceed. I changed my okcupid to bi to see if i could find a guy to test the waters but I don't want to panic if/when things get rolling. I know this is a confusing "question" but my thoughts are scattered.
Halp!
Show me the light
Don't freak out so much over labels. If you've made out with a few dudes, then you probably have more than a passing attraction, so try a few dates and see what happens. You could wind up not feeling anything when approaching guys from a more serious romantic standpoint.

And always remember...
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Fine, I'm biased sue me.

So I tried cutting my own hair for like the second time ever. And I always tell myself I'll never do it again cause it stresses me out LOLLL ;___;. Did it turn out really bad...?
be gentle ;_;
I like it! Huge fan of that hairstyle.
 

RM8

Member
Good lard I despise iTunes so much, which is conflicting because I have grown to love my iPhone. I want to smash my iPhone and Xperia SP together and get an iPhone with Android :(
 
Went to a ramen-festival today. (Lol. raw men. Yes I'm acting like I'm 12. I'll stop now.)


Some pics:

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This one was really beefy and spicy. They have no local shop in the area and apparently they traveled all the way from Japan to participate in the festival.

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That's right. A cascading ramen-waterfall. I wanna drown in it.

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Loved the noodles in this one. Had more of a bite to them.

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No idea what this contraption is but I'm assuming it's where baby ramen comes from. Mechanical ramen vagina?

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Yes, I know this is basically Japanese boxed wine, but it's so adorable.
 
Went to a ramen-festival today. (Lol. raw men. Yes I'm acting like I'm 12. I'll stop now.)


Some pics:

gGNSB8l.jpg


This one was really beefy and spicy. They have no local shop in the area and apparently they traveled all the way from Japan to participate in the festival.

epBB55a.jpg


That's right. A cascading ramen-waterfall. I wanna drown in it.

iuu5Ab9.jpg


Loved the noodles in this one. Had more of a bite to them.

lcO1jO4.jpg


No idea what this contraption is but I'm assuming it's where baby ramen comes from. Mechanical ramen vagina?

4avBjRL.jpg


Yes, I know this is basically Japanese boxed wine, but it's so adorable.

HNNNNNNGH that ramen looks soooooo good. ;____;
 
HNNNNNNGH that ramen looks soooooo good. ;____;

Food festivals of any sort are usually awesome. If there are any that occur in your area centered on something you enjoy, definitely go with some buds.

My friends and I should have gone earlier. They had ramen burgers, but they were sold out by the time we got there.
 
Food festivals of any sort are usually awesome. If there are any that occur in your area centered on something you enjoy, definitely go with some buds.

My friends and I should have gone earlier. They had ramen burgers, but they were sold out by the time we got there.

I actually went to the poutine festival they had here a year or so ago. I.. almost cried tears of joy. o____o.
i did
 

royalan

Member
Slightly squirmish question for the sexually active in here...

Does anywhere here bottom without douching beforehand?
 

Alrus

Member
Slightly squirmish question for the sexually active in here...

Does anywhere here bottom without douching beforehand?

I do, nothing bad ever happened. I already find gay sex to be a bit lacking in spontaneity (with the near obligatory lubing up), if I had to douche whenever I wanted to have sex with my bf it would probably kill my libido after a while...
 

Grakl

Member
Slightly squirmish question for the sexually active in here...

Does anywhere here bottom without douching beforehand?
I don't douche, fuck dat shit

seriously though, if I did it would be a complete mood killer for me, just make sure to keep clean yo
 
Slightly squirmish question for the sexually active in here...

Does anywhere here bottom without douching beforehand?
I suppose it depends on how in-tune you are with your body. Once you have that down, you'll just know when it is/isn't a good idea.

For me, I'm not entirely used to it
and have only bottomed a handful of times
so I wouldn't feel comfortable if I didn't go through the process to be entirely certain I was good to go.

I don't douche, fuck dat shit

seriously though, if I did it would be a complete mood killer for me, just make sure to keep clean yo
Could not help but read this as if Rocket Raccoon were giving gay sex hygiene advice.

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"Fuck dat shit."
 

Spider from Mars

tap that thorax
Go through with what you want. It will be okay if you end up having your sexual options double ;)

As long as your okcupid profile says that you are still trying to understand your own sexuality then it's okay using okcupid. Don't use it to only receive messages, but to send them out.

Keep us posted :) you're confusion is most likely founded in the uncomfortableness of the labels we have for sexuality. But I'm speculating, why are you nervous?

I have decided that you are my sexual spirit guide now. I narrowed it down to two guys on OKCupid, that will offer two different trials. The first guy is cute and wants to get coffee, the second straight up asked if he could give me a handy or a blowie haha. Should I dip my toes in the water or dive in headfirst?
 
lol, I do like this avatar
And I cannot wait for that movie. I want to read some of the comics first so I can become a little familiar with the story.

In other news, found out this weekend that the groom of the wedding I'm in on Sunday bought us all top hats to wear with our morning dress tuxedos. I don't know how I feel about this. I most certainly cannot pull off that look.
 

Grakl

Member
And I cannot wait for that movie. I want to read some of the comics first so I can become a little familiar with the story.

In other news, found out this weekend that the groom of the wedding I'm in on Sunday bought us all top hats to wear with our morning dress tuxedos. I don't know how I feel about this. I most certainly cannot pull off that look.

the movie looks pretty good, I like marvel movies that don't take themselves seriously, so this seems great -- plus, rocket raccoon is probably my favorite comic book character

top hats suck, tell him to bring them back if you can
 
the movie looks pretty good, I like marvel movies that don't take themselves seriously, so this seems great -- plus, rocket raccoon is probably my favorite comic book character
I've heard awesome things about the comics. And yeah, the movie looks like it will be a good blend of action, sci-fi, and comedy. I've been wanting a science fiction resurgence ever since Battlestar Galactica ended, and I hope between this and Star Wars next year, we'll get a new wave.

top hats suck, tell him to bring them back if you can
Yup. I have a gigantic head but he INSISTED they're one-size-fits-all. Best case scenario? It doesn't fit my ginormous head and I don't have to wear it :)
 

Dany

Banned
I have decided that you are my sexual spirit guide now. I narrowed it down to two guys on OKCupid, that will offer two different trials. The first guy is cute and wants to get coffee, the second straight up asked if he could give me a handy or a blowie haha. Should I dip my toes in the water or dive in headfirst?

Get coffee. See if your attraction to men can be more than just sexual.
 
If humanity ever gets to a point where everyone is accepting of one another's sexuality, what are some movies / tv episodes / etc that'll end up being really offensive?
 
OMG LOLLLL tempted to do it right meow but I'm in class...

but I'll gladly accept any photo response from you bb. ;3
Step 1: Sit in front of class
Step 2: Google search Dragonite x Charizard with Safe Search off
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit

;-)
If humanity ever gets to a point where everyone is accepting of one another's sexuality, what are some movies / tv episodes / etc that'll end up being really offensive?
I would say a lot of 80s/90s sitcoms had some subtle homophobia strewn about. Luckily, I haven't seen much blatant bigotry in recent television, so nothing is really standing out. Though, I do remember a Disney Channel movie not too long ago in which a younger brother referred to the members of a boy band as "pillow biters."
 
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