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LGBThread |OT4| We're (still) Here! We're (still) Queer!
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CornBurrito
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People post pics online. And you can at least gather some sense of their personality by looking at their text based posts. I'll admit though that it is mostly an intense physical attraction.
umop_3pisdn
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I've missed that cat
SoraanTribal
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Well, I guess that's slightly worse than just falling for a straight friend who lives close by, but... it sucks either way, lol.
I know most people say to distance yourself from them, but I don't think I can do that. He's one of my best buds and we hang out all the time. We are even talking about moving into an apartment together to save money instead of renting separate ones. I want to just because it'd be fun, but at the same time, I think it might be a mistake. I dunno.
Doesn't sound healthy at all.
Christopher
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The thirst scared Blue Badger away? Lol
I swear I'll never understand how one "falls" for somene who doesn't show even a tiny, minuscule bit of reciprocality (in this case, they're downright unable to do it). It's not even a matter of interpreting things incorrectly since you know the person in question is straight. I mean, it sucks that you guys are in this situation and I hope you overcome it soon, but I'd save my griefing for actual unrequited love, and even then it's better to move on ASAP.
That sounds more like infatuation.
A full crush would be more like having affections for some guy that you turn out to have a lot in common with and understand pretty well in addition to being physically attracted to him and who would probably be a close confidant if the barrier of distance wasn't a factor.
;__;
Laughs were had at his expense.
He was not amused.
The dicking we do here is hardly subtle, dear.
CornBurrito
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Oh I'm not feeling grief or anything over it. Maybe I don't understand what people mean by "falling" for someone then.
That's probably a better word for it. I thought being infatuated with someone = falling for someone.
Meh. Yolo.
Plus it isn't like it robs me of the ability to be attracted to other people.
umop_3pisdn
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Falling for someone suggests a more substantial loss of footing (to extend the metaphor). Like you lose your emotional composure, not in a crazy way but in a vulnerable or unguarded way.
CornBurrito
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Oh. Well then it isn't that. I just would like to get physically intimate with the dude. I don't think it is any different than all the straight men that perv over actresses they'll never actually be with. So whatever term you'd use for that!
michaeltraps
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Looks like I might be going to Fire Island on Pride Weekend with a few friends. This should be interesting.
umop_3pisdn
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You lust after him. No one really uses that phrase anymore, but I think it should get more use than it does, it's very succinct
CornBurrito
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Wow. A whole island made entirely of fire. How manly.
You lust after him. No one really uses that phrase anymore, but I think it should get more use than it does, it's very succinct
Seems to fit the feeling. This buttlust transcends physical boundaries.
SoraanTribal
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I dunno... With me, I've known this particular friend for a long time, and we've always been pretty close (shared a room in college). Just being around each other so much, having so much in common, being attracted to him... I don't think it's that weird that someone could "fall for" another person like that even if they are straight. Obviously, I just need to get out there and find someone else who would actually be able to return the feelings, but until then... it sucks.
umop_3pisdn
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michaeltraps
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A bird's-eye view would have you think that - it is, in fact, an island of flaming men.
Spanish men are so hot! D:
Too bad about their accent and speech though.
The good thing about being average is that I just wouldn't worry at all about those kind of events, I know already I'm nowhere close to look like them, so I'll just go and have fun, And I'm glad you are doing the smae, you have nothing to worry about because you are not bad looking anyway
Dead Prince
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This is neogaf
The thirstcat.gif reminded me of one of my favorite Vines of a cat spittin' mad game: https://vine.co/v/MXMi7PPXTp6
That's why we call it unrequited love
You don't love someone you simply want to bone but can't, though
It's a super cock-block.
What would the spiritual version of that be?
umop_3pisdn
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Longing maybe? More poetic than spiritual, but the language for that would have to express a degree of malaise or desire in a state stagnation (if we're talking flowery 'spiritual' language, I think)
You don't love someone you simply want to bone but can't, though
What if you want to bone them forever?
CornBurrito
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You don't love someone you simply want to bone but can't, though
But what if I'd want to bone them more than once, and be in some sort of social arrangement that would increase the likelihood of us only boning each other.
umop_3pisdn
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I was joking
CornBurrito
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I see love.
I probably was too, hornydog.gif and all
You don't understand that dog's complex feelings.
CornBurrito
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No but really, I'd be willing to feign interest in their interests. That's what makes it love.
Blood Diamonds
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I would not I can't stand talking about sports or corridos I am sorry but straight crushes aren't worth that much effort
CornBurrito
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What's a corrido?
edit: "The corrido (Spanish pronunciation: [koˈriðo]) is a popular narrative song and poetry form, a ballad. The songs are often about oppression, history, daily life for peasants, and other socially relevant topics.[1]"
Uhh... I didn't know that was a straight person thing?
I believe YoungBlade is Mexican, so that's probably something a typical straight dude is into over in Mexico.
It's absolutely not :x Well, not in central Mexico at least.
Eh, works well enough (I'm sleepy)
Meet the cool kids that like talking about music, fashion, art, politics and videogames. (✿ ♥‿♥
I'm from a pretty rural area in Michoacan, and all the dudes seem to love that stuff. The females like it a little less. I wouldn't know who's straight or not though. It could just be a gender thing. And a regional thing too.
Blood Diamonds
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okay should have said narcocorrido i'm sorry
michaeltraps
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A wild E3 approaches. Another year of being disappointed that no Dragon Quest games are getting localized.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Dragon Quest 7 3DS localization
Valkyria Chronicles 4 PS4
Beyond Good and Evil 2
Kingdom Hearts 3 blowout
Ape Escape 4
New Wipeout, F-Zero, and Zelda
2D Metroid
Final Fantasy XVI teaser
BELIEVE
We have tinychat! tinychat.com/tinygaffers
No pressure to get on cam unless you want to, but a bunch of us will be there all day.i'm gonna be drinking all day
I'm from a pretty rural area in Tabasco and there is a significant amount of people that enjoys it but not everyone. And now that I have met more people in the capital, there are even less people into that stuff.
I still have to finda gay guy into videogames, rock/alternative music, dogs and sci-fi. It's impossible here :'( That's where straight crushes come
I mean, the three seroous straight crushes liked:Crush# 1: Xbox and FPS fanboy. Listened to some rock/pop music in spanish and in english. Loved his dog. Never talked about girls, or never really talked and when he talked it contained mostly bad words lol. He is handsome though too skinny.
Crush #2 (the one that lasted for over a year and is currently my best friend): PlayStation user but not a fanboy.Currently is loving Minecraft. Likes basketball but just playing. Loooves comics, specially Marvel ones. Loves good movies (is always interested in the ones I'm interested too). Has a fantastic reading comprehension and is great at speeches. Likes rock/pop music in spanish mostly, little in english. Likes pizza. Loves bad comedy ;(. He is very gentle and thoughtful. He doesn't have the best body but is a bit cute and has a beard
Crush #3 (last one I had,
.over him recently): Smart and very knowledgeable guy. Loves reading. Loves the same music as me. Loves League of Legends (or MMORPG in general but he just plays LOL currently). Likes alcohol (at least he drinks once every two or four months). Into fitness stuff (he is hot). He is a bit cute. What I'm trying to mean with this is that will never find this traits in the gay guys I know. I know another guy who is gay and kind of has this attributes but he is so out of my league (and currently out of my town). That's why straight people are desirable for me in the first place, it is frustrating for me. And even if I ignored the things they like, gay guys here just don't have the personality I look for. I wonder if anyone else happens to.be in the same situation
Blood Diamonds
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I have no hype at all for E3 this year, I remember last year I couldn't sleep the night before lol.
Necromanti
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ArchedThunder
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Pokken will be revealed, I can feel it in my pants, I CAN FEEL IT!
Funky Papa
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