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LGBThread |OT4| We're (still) Here! We're (still) Queer!

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Kater

Banned
20 (21 next month!)
Yes

It's part time, but I've been saving up for an apartment. I'm hoping to be out of this place by this time next year.

That's a good start.
I hope you have enough money to get out of there as soon as possible.
I already got out when I was 16, thankfully.

@Rm88: Ugh
From Urban Dictionary:

spanish word for a male prostitute. sometimes(?) it´s offensive for homosexuals. in mexico it is used for cowards and traitors.
 

Kinsei

Banned
That's a good start.
I hope you have enough money to get out of there as soon as possible.
I already got out when I was 16, thankfully.

Thanks.
I could probably get out by Christmas, but I'd like some extra cash in my bank account, just in case. I don't feel like my life is in danger so waiting another half a year won't be too bad.
 

daripad

Member
@Rm88: Ugh
From Urban Dictionary:

I think the word hasn't been used in a derogative way for homosexuals in a long time, people have changed for maricon or at least in my experience it has been like that

Im football, traditionally they use it when the goalkeeper is kicking the ball and it has translated to the national team matches, though in football it really doesn't hold any meaning other than "do it wrong GK"
 

Kater

Banned
Thanks.
I could probably get out by Christmas, but I'd like some extra cash in my bank account, just in case. I don't feel like my life is in danger so waiting another half a year won't be too bad.

Good to hear that you already have a plan. I hope that works out as you expect. :)

I think the word hasn't been used in a derogative way for homosexuals in a long time, people have changed for maricon or at least in my experience it has been like that

Im football, traditionally they use it when the goalkeeper is kicking the ball and it has translated to the national team matches, though in football it really doesn't hold any meaning other than "do it wrong GK"

Ah, okay. GK? (= Goal Keeper?)
 

Kinsei

Banned
I understood that reference
because I googled it
.

You people are so old, I don't even know half the stuff you are talking about sometimes on NeoGAF. :p

I got the reference and I'm younger than you. You should really watch Ghostbusters.

What next, you're gonna tell me you have to google "Chuck! Chuck, it's Marvin. Your cousin, Marvin Berry. You know that new sound you're looking for? Well, listen to this!"
 

Kater

Banned
I got the reference and I'm younger than you. You should really watch Ghostbusters.

What next, you're gonna tell me you have to google "Chuck! Chuck, it's Marvin. Your cousin, Marvin Berry. You know that new sound you're looking for? Well, listen to this!"

I.. don't know from which movie, piece of literature, video game or series this is from.

*runs and hides*
 

Kinsei

Banned
We would probably end up watching streams, or at least I would since there is no Netlix in Austria.

Yeah, we would stream them. Instead of using Skype we could set up a GayGaf movie night IRC and text chat instead of voice chat.

Why limit it to just movies? We could also do TV shows as well if you wanted to. 1-2 episodes per movie night depending on the length of each episode.
 

Kater

Banned
Yeah, we would stream them. Instead of using Skype we could set up a GayGaf movie night IRC and text chat instead of voice chat.

Why limit it to just movies? We could also do TV shows as well if you wanted to. 1-2 episodes per movie night depending on the length of each episode.

But which series. Hm, maybe Doctor Who?
 
If Classic Who (1963-1989+1996) than maybe. But if it's that crap from 2005 on than count me out.

WHAAAAAAAAAAAT?!?!

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hateradio

The Most Dangerous Yes Man
NuWho is crap. Badly written, Badly acted. Deus Ex Machina up the ying yang. All his companions are mary sues that have to fall in love with him. Music that's an assault on the ears.
Not all of them. Donna never liked him in that way, and she was the best. <3
 
Huh. So I'm single again. I was given the "I'm not ready for a relationship" excuse, even though he was the one who wanted me to be his boyfriend in the first place.

It sucks because we had an amazing past few weeks together, like pretty much every single time we were together was great. I honestly didn't see this coming at all.

I guess I have no hard feelings, I just wish things didn't go as well as they did, cause now I'm just confused about what went wrong. I mean, the reason he gave could be the absolute truth too, maybe I should stop over thinking it? Anyway. I think I'm gonna stop dating altogether for a bit, I'll save so much more money and time by doing so.
 

7threst

Member
Huh. So I'm single again. I was given the "I'm not ready for a relationship" excuse, even though he was the one who wanted me to be his boyfriend in the first place.

It sucks because we had an amazing past few weeks together, like pretty much every single time we were together was great. I honestly didn't see this coming at all.

I guess I have no hard feelings, I just wish things didn't go as well as they did, cause now I'm just confused about what went wrong. I mean, the reason he gave could be the absolute truth too, maybe I should stop over thinking it? Anyway. I think I'm gonna stop dating altogether for a bit, I'll save so much more money and time by doing so.

Could be he found out a relationship wasn't what he was looking for but only found that out when he actually had one?

Also, I think people should date because it's fun, instead of not dating because it costs time and money :)
 

Mr_Zombie

Member
Lame. Why not? Did they used sheep intestines or whatever?

From another book ("A Natural History of Homosexualisty"):
There was never oral or anal contact, only intercrural intercourse, illustrated on pottery paintings as the older partner inserting his penis between the thighs of the younger as both are standing.

Solon was also writing about "desiring his thighs and his delicious mouth".
 

Mr_Zombie

Member
Aeschylus, in his tragedy "The Myrmidons", also made Achilles speak of his and his lover's (Patroclus) "devout union of thighs".
Dunno, maybe "thighs" really were universally used as a euphemism for "ass", but that we will never know. All sources (what was left of ancient Greek's art and literature) as we know them suggest intercrural sex only.
 
Wait, I don't consider it mean, but if more people think it is I can change it.

Well, if I was in Blue Badger's shoes, I would take offense to that since A) you want to substitute him (i.e., he's replaceable) and B) you think that being a cute selfie addict is all that it takes to fill his shoes.

I obviously don't care one way or another, and I know you weren't serious about it, but try to be a bit more mindful and consider other people's perspectives before cracking a joke in that manner.
 

daripad

Member
not going to make jokes here again because

1. I'm not even funny
2. At least 1 person gets offended
3. I'm not a bad person or I don't want you to think I'm like that
4. I really should be more considerate. In this case, I already know BB has a very low self esteem and I come here and make fun of him which I shouldn't because he would feel bad
5. I was bullied in secondary school, I should know better to not do this kind of things

Sorry if I was being mean, if anyone got offended with what I've said once, please forgive me, I'm an asshole. Sorry again, it wasn't my intention :(
 
Good morning.
Daripad, only assholes are unapologetic you don't seem to be one don't beat yourself up
Hope everyone is doing well.

I am gonna go to the casino soon in a couple days and go to my lucky slot machine.
 

Kater

Banned
not going to make jokes here again because

1. I'm not even funny
2. At least 1 person gets offended
3. I'm not a bad person or I don't want you to think I'm like that
4. I really should be more considerate. In this case, I already know BB has a very low self esteem and I come here and make fun of him which I shouldn't because he would feel bad
5. I was bullied in secondary school, I should know better to not do this kind of things

Sorry if I was being mean, if anyone got offended with what I've said once, please forgive me, I'm an asshole. Sorry again, it wasn't my intention :(

I didn't take offense and you are not a bad person.
 
In case anyone was wondering, it went well.
We didn't get to see 22 Jump Street because it sold out and we didn't think to buy our tickets ahead. We ended up seeing HTTYD2 instead which was Amazing! Just as good as the first.
Then I came out to him and he was cool about it. Accepts me for who I am and stuff. He's not gay BTW.
Overall I'm happy with the outcome. Good friends for socially awkward people like me a very hard to come by and always have been so the fact that he still wants to be my friend is just awesome.
 

Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
That's great. So many ways it could've gone worse, as evidence by this thread, you're very fortunate to have him.
 
That's great. So many ways it could've gone worse, as evidence by this thread, you're very fortunate to have him.
Yeah, that's the thing I had to think about.
Because it has gone wrong before in the past with "friends" that I thought cared about me so that's why I'm really happy right now.

I'm surrored by friends that enjoy my company and accept me for who I am and that's all that a guy like me with Aspergers could ever ask for.
 

alvmew

Member
Well then.

So I hung out with my best friend growing up yesterday - he was the last person I'm close to that I had yet to come out to. Well we got pretty drunk and were talking, eventually the conversation turned to a mutual friend who is probably gay and how he and a few other friends told this mutual guy if he was, it was okay and they accepted him and whatnot. So I figured that was my chance and I came out to him lol. Pretty supportive but now to see if that was just the alcohol talking or what (texted him to see what's up, he's already responded once so as long as he remembers, looks like I'm in the clear!). :)
 
Yay two stories with happy endings happy for you two.
My best friend didn't care either he was very supportive we have both been there for each other.
 

daripad

Member
Congrats TheAbsolution and alvmew, good to see successful coming out stories.

I really need to do it more frequently, just to know who are my real friends
 

Kater

Banned
My sister is in a hospital and she will probably be dead by tomorrow evening because they will turn off the machines by then. She is in Germany though so there is no way that I get there to see her a last time.

:/

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Here's a photo of her from a year ago.
She was a huge inspiration to me because she endured a long life full of discrimination. She was also queer and fully embraced that, made it part of her personality. She also had dwarfism and she was able to live with that too.
 

daripad

Member
El_Gato I'm really sorry for you, I hope you can get through this. Losing a member of your family is hard, I've been there before, but the only thing you can do is to look forward and try to respect her by being happy yourself.
 

Grizzo

Member
My sister is in a hospital and she will probably be dead by tomorrow evening because they will turn off the machines by then. She is in Germany though so there is no way that I get there to see her a last time.

:/

Sounds like she was a great person, and I think it's cute and lovely that you got inspired by her to become stronger. I'm sending you all my support through this difficult time.
 
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