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CornBurrito

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Yeah my hypothesis was porn basically. At least others had the thougt. I might PM Mumei since he might have 100 articles or books memorized about the subject.

I might buy that it isn't as fun, but that begs the question of why don't we find it as fun. Possibly less physically stimulating?
 
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Soulscribe

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CornBurrito said:
Yeah my hypothesis was porn basically. At least others had the thougt. I might PM Mumei since he might have 100 articles or books memorized about the subject.

I might buy that it isn't as fun, but that begs the question of why don't we find it as fun. Possibly less physically stimulating?
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Anal sex probably feels like "sealing the deal" to people. Interthigh sex (or whatever the fuck) feels like an almost-there scenario. I dunno. I think people like to say "we fucked" as opposed to "we fooled around", especially when it comes to something that's really really close to actual anal. Might as well just go all the way.

That said, I don't really care all that much for anal... much prefer foreplay, wrestling, cuddling, kinky stuff, and all the other works.
 
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CornBurrito

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Soulscribe said:
Anal sex probably feels like "sealing the deal" to people. Interthigh sex (or whatever the fuck) feels like an almost-there scenario. I dunno. I think people like to say "we fucked" as opposed to "we fooled around", especially when it comes to something that's really really close to actual anal. Might as well just go all the way.

That said, I don't really care all that much for anal... much prefer foreplay, wrestling, cuddling, kinky stuff, and all the other works.
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The thing is, why do we see non penetrative sex as being lesser in realness/intimacy/sealing the deal? I wouldn't consider passionate non penetrative sex to be "just fooling around" and somehow not as serious as penetrative sex.

I am going to have a rough time as a guy not particularly interested in anal sex aren't i...
 
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Soulscribe

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CornBurrito said:
The thing is, why do we see non penetrative sex as being lesser in realness/intimacy/sealing the deal? I wouldn't consider passionate non penetrative sex to be "just fooling around" and somehow not as serious as penetrative sex.

I am going to have a rough time as a guy not particularly interested in anal sex aren't i...
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Yeah I agree. I think it's the same principle with straight guys who consider "scoring" as actually having sex with someone, and the idea of there being different bases (like 1st, 2nd, 3rd, etc.) also fetishizes the notion that if you're not having vaginal/anal sex with someone then you're not at the finish line yet.

I suppose the real reason why people get so caught up in overstating the importance of sex is because we haven't really found something that would be considered *more* official. Anal will always be the final frontier of sexual interaction until we decide that something else should be more standard. Like if we were to say "We haven't ____ yet, we've only done anal." Like what activity could make us view anal sex the same way we view oral sex now?

fisting
 
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CornBurrito

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Soulscribe said:
Yeah I agree. I think it's the same principle with straight guys who consider "scoring" as actually having sex with someone, and the idea of there being different bases (like 1st, 2nd, 3rd, etc.) also fetishizes the notion that if you're not having vaginal/anal sex with someone then you're not at the finish line yet.

I suppose the real reason why people get so caught up in overstating the importance of sex is because we haven't really found something that would be considered *more* official. Anal will always be the final frontier of sexual interaction until we decide that something else should be more standard. Like if we were to say "We haven't ____ yet, but we did have anal sex so we're getting there." Like what activity could make us view anal sex the same way we view oral sex now?

fisting
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I await the day double fisting is the standard. Probably takes too much prep work though.

And I can somewhat see why intercrural sex is less intimate since you aren't "inside" a person and it lacks that sort of physical interlocking of parts that we romanticize. But goddamit it is good enough. :(


And frottage seems kind of balling.
 
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Mumei

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CornBurrito said:
Yeah my hypothesis was porn basically. At least others had the thougt. I might PM Mumei since he might have 100 articles or books memorized about the subject.

I might buy that it isn't as fun, but that begs the question of why don't we find it as fun. Possibly less physically stimulating?
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You have a highly inflated conception of how informed I am!

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(17:28:12) Mumei: http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=119428382&postcount=14123 > why would I have read studies about changes in gay men's sexual activities and whether the relative popularity of anal sex vis-à-vis other sexual activities is up due to the influence of porn
(17:28:17) Mumei: does that sound like something I'd read about :|
(17:28:32) quincognito: ....yes?
(17:28:36) Mumei: motherfucker
(17:28:44) quincognito: it's
(17:28:50) quincognito: a) a study
(17:28:54) quincognito: b) about sociological sexuality
(17:29:01) quincognito: c) as influenced by the media over time
(17:29:07) quincognito: d) involving subaltern groups
(17:29:12) Mumei: okay, hannibal
(17:29:17) Mumei: with your lectures
(17:29:19) quincognito: if you set it to music you pretty much have a Mumei Special

... you win this round
 
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mantidor

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Mystic Theurge said:
So porn popularized anal sex? Hmmm okay.

Why did it start in porn?
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I was absolutely speculating based mostly on anecdotal evidence around me.

There are statistics from some decades ago that showed that homosexuals were actually not as much into anal sex as everyone thought though. Frottage/thigh sex were also much more popular than it is now, based on my experience.

I don't think it is a crazy hypothesis. Porn, or to be more accurate, the incredibly easiness of obtaining porn through the internet, has not only changed the sexual lives of gay people, but of everyone. Expectations about sex have also change dramatically.

The truth is, anal sex is not for everyone.
 
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CornBurrito

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Mystic Theurge said:
So porn popularized anal sex? Hmmm okay.

Why did it start in porn?
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It isn't that outlandish. Look at the money shot.

Some things look hot on camera, and maybe are done in real life rarely. The money shot (iirc) became more common irl because of porn.

We may see the same thing happen with straight anal sex because of the increase of prolapse videos.

Mumei said:
You have a highly inflated conception of how informed I am!

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(17:28:12) Mumei: http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=119428382&postcount=14123 > why would I have read studies about changes in gay men's sexual activities and whether the relative popularity of anal sex vis-à-vis other sexual activities is up due to the influence of porn
(17:28:17) Mumei: does that sound like something I'd read about :|
(17:28:32) quincognito: ....yes?
(17:28:36) Mumei: motherfucker
(17:28:44) quincognito: it's
(17:28:50) quincognito: a) a study
(17:28:54) quincognito: b) about sociological sexuality
(17:29:01) quincognito: c) as influenced by the media over time
(17:29:07) quincognito: d) involving subaltern groups
(17:29:12) Mumei: okay, hannibal
(17:29:17) Mumei: with your lectures
(17:29:19) quincognito: if you set it to music you pretty much have a Mumei Special

... you win this round
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Heh. Well I do apologize for thinking you are more informed than you really are. :p
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Dead Man said:
I will give any of you hairless guys my beard if you also take the back and shoulder hair age has seen fit to bestow on me :)
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GIVE ME ALL YOUR HAIR

YUSSSSSSSS

Mystic Theurge said:
I'm automatically suspicious of guys with bushy beards. I bet like 97% of them are crazy.
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Cupric :(

Damon Bennet said:
Last night my bf and I had anal-sex for the first time. I bottomed and it was a pretty cool experience. Then later on we just decided that we should try it out (I was hesitant up until now) and with some lube it didn't even really hurt. Well we wanted to do it doggy style, but it didn't really work out (started to hurt when he went in) but then I went on top and had control over the speed etch. and it was a really fun time then.
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If it doesn't hurt, you're doing it wrong
(or his coq is far too small)
(or both)
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Prez said:
Because it's not fun.
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Yes it is.

Cosmic Bus said:
We frot now and then, 'cuz sometimes buttsex just isn't a good idea. I enjoy it. I also can't last any longer than during penetrative sex, so yeah, that's a bummer. :|
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Btw sis,
did you ever get a hold of your premature ejac problem? I have a friend (who is actually a friend - not me) who struggles with that problem and it's sort of killing his sex life.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Henchmen21 said:
Down Ratsky, Down boy!
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Damon Bennet said:
Hmm, larger than my ~6 inches . i did not exactly measure it
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~6? Is that sub 6 or over 6?

Also, measure it ffs!
 
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Kater

Banned
So much talking about genitals. >_>
I'm already thirsty enough, it's like talking about water fountains to a guy who hasn't had a glass of water in 3 day marching around in the desert.

I am in my home for a week now (sick), I feel like I'm the only person on this earth or something. Time to paint a face on a volleyball
and call him Emil, my ex-boyfriends name :(
.
 
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Masquerader

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RatskyWatsky said:
You're the red sign and I'm the ghost guy busting through



Etiquette?

Edit: I googled, and ~ means approximate.
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Etiquette. As in don't attempt to measure the size of genitalia whilst it is erect. Truly, I would loathe such an instance to occur to me. It would be awfully teasing, but not in a funny way. More a "For God's sake, what the bloody hell are you doing to me" way.

Also, ~ means squiggly line. Trust me. I'm a Lord of Tildes.
And I don't care what Mumei says about that.
 
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Sai-kun

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im hecka thirsty :( less than a month until gf visits for a week though!

our visits to each other have been a lot more frequent than i originally envisioned, which is nice. hopefully next year things will pan out in a big way.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Masquerader said:
Etiquette. As in don't attempt to measure the size of genitalia whilst it is erect. Truly, I would loathe such an instance to occur to me. It would be awfully teasing, but not in a funny way. More a "For God's sake, what the bloody hell are you doing to me" way.
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On the contrary! Getting the exact size of your bf/fb's dick and then letting them know, exactly, how in/adequate they are is one of the helpfullest things a person can do!

I'm a Lord of Tildes.
And I don't care what Mumei says about that.
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Poser. Mumei is the true lord! Masquerader is not right!
 
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Henchmen21

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RatskyWatsky said:
On the contrary! Getting the exact size of your bf/fb's dick and then letting them know, exactly, how in/adequate they are is one of the helpfullest things a person can do!



Poser. Mumei is the true lord! Masquerader is not right!
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"Hey baby...why's that measuring ruler in your hands?"
 
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Masquerader

Member
RatskyWatsky said:
On the contrary! Getting the exact size of your bf/fb's dick and then letting them know, exactly, how in/adequate they are is one of the helpfullest things a person can do!



Poser. Mumei is the true lord! Masquerader is not right!
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Well, you see... I am the real Mu-- Actually, let's not get bogged down in the nasty business of who killed who~

Also, I really fail to see how that is helpful. Sorry. :c
 
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alvmew

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ShironRedshift said:
Okay, sorry if it's a bit creepy (like seriously, you have no idea how sorry I am in that case >.<), but when people say things like that I can't help but go back through their post history to see if they've posted a selfie before to see just how wrong they are, and surprise surprise, you look great! Seriously, you look real cute. ;) #WouldDate
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Haha, not creepy at all. And thanks! :3

Achtius said:
Now I want to find his picture. thanks.
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I'll save you some trouble: http://i.imgur.com/jXa62E2.jpg?2

And here's a more recent picture from my 21st birthday a few months ago:

http://i.imgur.com/0QTo7AL.jpg?1
 
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Masquerader

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Achtius said:
idk, i was agreeing with him, but i got called a peon..
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I wasn't singling you out or anything like that. Everyone is a peon to me. At the very least, revel in the fact that Masquerader refers to you as a Greater Peon. Which is better than a standard peon.

EDIT: Also, I just searched what the word "Peon" means. Wow. Years of usage, only to find out that the meaning is rather meh. "Unskilled worker". Bah.
 
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Cosmic Bus

pristine morning snow
RatskyWatsky said:
Btw sis,
did you ever get a hold of your premature ejac problem? I have a friend (who is actually a friend - not me) who struggles with that problem and it's sort of killing his sex life.
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Nah, I figure this is just the way it is. Neither of us has a super high sex drive or anything, so we enjoy our moments of pleasure and life continues on nicely.
 
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Achtius

Member
Masquerader said:
I wasn't singling you out or anything like that. Everyone is a peon to me. At the very least, revel in the fact that Masquerader refers to you as a Greater Peon. Which is better than a standard peon.

EDIT: Also, I just searched what the word "Peon" means. Wow. Years of usage, only to find out that the meaning is rather meh. "Unskilled worker". Bah.
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obviously you haven't play warcraft
 
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Kinsei

Banned
I have work tomorrow, but I'm not tired. Somehow I managed to sleep for 16 hours straight, I didn't wake up until 2 PM. Any tips on falling asleep?
 
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