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LGBThread |OT4| We're (still) Here! We're (still) Queer!

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Cosmic Bus

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Prez said:
I'm really unpopular on dating sites and I've been on there for a really long time. I finally have some vacation now so I guess it's time to start going out again and meet new people in real life ^^
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I remember from a few years ago that you were having difficulties because you seemed to only want to meet and befriend/date people who shared very specific hobbies or interests with you, and there was practically no wiggle room in this regard. Is that still the case or have you worked through it since?
 
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Prez

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Cosmic Bus said:
I remember from a few years ago that you were having difficulties because you seemed to only want to meet and befriend/date people who shared very specific hobbies or interests with you, and there was practically no wiggle room in this regard. Is that still the case or have you worked through it since?
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Nah I've changed a lot since then, in fact I prefer people I share no specific interests with now.
 
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Captain Europe

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Vitanimus said:
I'm 20
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oh well, it's super gross when guys grow those really pube-y "beards" and refuse to shave. smh
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Yeah, facial hair is sexy, but like with everything, don't overdo it lol.
 
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Rayis

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I have facial hair and I hate it, I like it on other people but I absolutely hate it on myself, I get a full-blown beard in less than a week, I don't like it, gimme your non-hairy faces please.
 
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Dany

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Beard returns in Sept. Should probably figure out Halloween outfit for this year. Still want to go as joel from TLOU
 
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Necromanti

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Man, I already felt self-concious before, but after today, I'll be even more so in public. Someone thought it would be a bright idea to yell lewd things at me as they drove by while I'm minding my own business and walking with my groceries. What the hell? Not cool.
 
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Dany

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Necromanti said:
Man, I already felt self-concious before, but after today, I'll be even more so in public. Someone thought it would be a bright idea to yell lewd things at me as they drove by while I'm minding my own business and walking with my groceries. What the hell? Not cool.
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Fuck them. Ignore the haters.
 
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Grizzo

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Necromanti said:
Will do. :) I mean, shit, it wasn't insulting per se, but when it's not wanted, it's fucking scary. A pleasant reminder of the sexual harassment from my high school days.
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Were they hitting on you? I can see how that would make you uncomfortable, especially if they were yelling. Don't mind them!
 
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Necromanti

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Grizzo said:
Were they hitting on you? I can see how that would make you uncomfortable, especially if they were yelling. Don't mind them!
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I highly doubt it. He yelled, "Shake that ass!" or something to that effect, and some more vulgar statements that I only caught fragments of. It happened in a flash. I'd welcome attention if it came about normally, but I'm not that starved for it.
 
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Grizzo

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Necromanti said:
I highly doubt it. He yelled, "Shake that ass!" or something to that effect, and some more vulgar statements that I only caught fragments of. It happened in a flash. I'd welcome attention if it came about normally, but I'm not that starved for it.
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Well no, you're absolutely right then, that's obviously more like unwanted attention. I envy the people who always have a comeback ready for this type of occasion (and those who have the courage to say it).

Glad you're ok though! Try not to think too much about it.
 
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MisterGrey3000

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Rayis said:
I have facial hair and I hate it, I like it on other people but I absolutely hate it on myself, I get a full-blown beard in less than a week, I don't like it, gimme your non-hairy faces please.
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Yeah same here.
I'd go a few steps further and say that I'm not partial to hair on any part of my body. I hate it on my legs, arms, chest, and private area.
I've started shaving my arms and chest, but I'm gonna start trying to shave in as many places as possible. I like being smooth and hairless.
My guys can come in any style though; hairy, slightly hairy, or smooth. It's not a big deal to me when it involves my partner.
 
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Necromanti

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Grizzo said:
Well no, you're absolutely right then, that's obviously more like unwanted attention. I envy the people who always have a comeback ready for this type of occasion (and those who have the courage to say it).

Glad you're ok though! Try not to think too much about it.
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Yeah, I guess it was just the old feelings it dredged up that threw me off balance.

Thanks for making me feel better, y'all.
 
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Sai-kun

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MisterGrey3000 said:
Yeah same here.
I'd go a few steps further and say that I'm not partial to hair on any part of my body. I hate it on my legs, arms, chest, and private area.
I've started shaving my arms and chest, but I'm gonna start trying to shave in as many places as possible. I like being smooth and hairless.
My guys can come in any style though; hairy, slightly hairy, or smooth. It's not a big deal to me when it involves my partner.
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Me too. If I could get rid of it all forever, I would. I shaved my legs a couple months ago and it was nice for the day or two that it lasted. No way in hell I'm dedicated enough to shave every other day or whatever. Not worth the time/hassle, so it's growing back in now. It doesn't look bad on me, I just like the smooth look more.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Sai-kun said:
Me too. If I could get rid of it all forever, I would. I shaved my legs a couple months ago and it was nice for the day or two that it lasted. No way in hell I'm dedicated enough to shave every other day or whatever. Not worth the time/hassle, so it's growing back in now. It doesn't look bad on me, I just like the smooth look more.
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Doesn't Nair work good on legs?
 
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MisterGrey3000

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Sai-kun said:
Me too. If I could get rid of it all forever, I would. I shaved my legs a couple months ago and it was nice for the day or two that it lasted. No way in hell I'm dedicated enough to shave every other day or whatever. Not worth the time/hassle, so it's growing back in now. It doesn't look bad on me, I just like the smooth look more.
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There definitely is a lot of dedication that goes into the process. Especially if one is particularly hairy. Some places are also a bit hard to reach, and that can be a bit of an annoyance. lol

I handle most of my body shaving when I take a baths, so it's not to much of a hassle to remember to keep doing it. :p
I need to get a new non-electric razor though.
 
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Dead Man

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I was at one of my first bear partys last weekend, and it was very surprising to me how fetishised beards are. I had heaps of guys asking about hair care products and oil and all sorts of stuff, they seemed a bit nonplussed when I said I didn't do any of that and was just lucky to have a thick beard. Made me feel kind of like an arsehole though lol.

I will give any of you hairless guys my beard if you also take the back and shoulder hair age has seen fit to bestow on me :)
 
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scarlet

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Dead Man said:
I was at one of my first bear partys last weekend, and it was very surprising to me how fetishised beards are. I had heaps of guys asking about hair care products and oil and all sorts of stuff, they seemed a bit nonplussed when I said I didn't do any of that and was just lucky to have a thick beard. Made me feel kind of like an arsehole though lol.

I will give any of you hairless guys my beard if you also take the back and shoulder hair age has seen fit to bestow on me :)
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i'm beardless, blame my asian genes :'(
 
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Damon Bennet

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Last night my bf and I had anal-sex for the first time. This gay thing is still new to me (I only started my gay activities last year), and I am more bisexual, so I had sex with women before, but this was still really exciting.

I bottomed and it was a pretty cool experience. Had a couple of drinks beforehand at some party. Then later on we just decided that we should try it out (I was hesitant up until now) and with some lube it didn't even really hurt. Well we wanted to do it doggy style, but it didn't really work out (started to hurt when he went in) but then I went on top and had control over the speed etch. and it was a really fun time then.

Looking forward to try out more stuff!
 
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Cosmic Bus

pristine morning snow
CornBurrito said:
So are intercrural sex and frottage simply not popular with gays anymore? Why did it fall out of favor compared to anal?
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We frot now and then, 'cuz sometimes buttsex just isn't a good idea. I enjoy it. I also can't last any longer than during penetrative sex, so yeah, that's a bummer. :|

As for the why in your post: well, porn. We're more or less instructed that there's something wrong with your sex life - you're boring! you have issues! - if someone isn't sticking something inside of someone else.
 
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