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LGBThread |OT4| We're (still) Here! We're (still) Queer!
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don't you feel something's up when someone is ogling you?
I don't know sometimes I feel weird and then I look around and there it is
but other times I am the one who is ogling, I just can't help it
TheAbsolution
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I think I can agree with that.
TheAbsolution
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I don't think I've ever been checked out before sooooo.... Yeah.
Now you don't know that! Maybe some people are more discreet than others......
Most of the times it's girls who ogle me.
/joking, I feel flattered tbh
I would ogle you, El_Cuto! <3 (that's a lame pun on your username, get it?) (if you don't please let me know and I'll refrain from doing that in the future)
I doubt that.
Not that I really care.
I'm one of those snobby cretins who doesn't like being approached, so I only look for signs from people I'm specifically interested in.
CornBurrito
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Pfft ogling people in real life. That's what photos on Facebook or GAF are for.
Can do more than just ogle at them too.
Can do more than just ogle at them too.
umop_3pisdn
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Jerking it to someone's photo always seems really weird to me. Using your imagination to imaginationally bang them is ok, though.
Speaking of I have the most insane crush on a friend of a friend right now. I was meditating today and every two seconds the most salacious imagery would flood my mind. It's driving me crazy.
I have 10 hot friends and only one of them dresses sexy. :[
Deeeeeetails?
Captain Europe
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Ogling a celeb crush IRL is the best feeling ever.
umop_3pisdn
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It's really weird, I never get crushes on people. He actually made a pass at me (twice) years ago but I didn't have like normal/healthy human emotions then so I couldn't reciprocate.
You could always try again.
Unless you still think you're not ready/ don't want it?
CornBurrito
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Don't worry. It is really weird and creepy to me too. Doesn't stop me from doing it though. I also don't do it to people I know IRL.
Though imagining sex with them also seems like it should be seen as equally weird/creepy but it isn't to me.
haha yeah it's really funny reading that post with that cute little face staring at us
umop_3pisdn
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I'm going to try again.
I just want to make sure my full range of feelings are going to stick around, he's really nice and I don't want to fuck with him by going ahead with something half-baked.
First one is super creepy and second is still creepy to me. Nothing against it, but I've always had a mental block there.
CornBurrito
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Ok those may be creepy, but digging through their garbage in the hopes of finding discarded clothing or hair is fine right?????
I don't do this.
TheAbsolution
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This is how I feel.
It seems creepy but if its a celeb crush, I don't feel bad about it.
umop_3pisdn
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I guess. To be honest I'm not really used to being attracted to people that I know in real life, so for how things have gone for me my sexuality is probably a bit atypical.
CornBurrito
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Mine's not a celeb crush. But also someone I don't know IRL and won't interact with IRL ever. So yeah. No bad feels about it. #yolo
Captain Europe
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I don't see a difference, whether you're using a picture or your imagination, it's the same thing lol.
I've never thought about a person I know in that way, but if I knew someone I was really attracted to, I would lol.
I've never thought about a person I know in that way, but if I knew someone I was really attracted to, I would lol.
I like your style
That has been the case for me as well so who knows how well it applies.
Atypical sexuality is why I love the label queer. I'm not British though...
If I don't know them I have no regrets.
If I do I keep it to a minimum out of guilt.
Good luck.
I wish I had gotten that chance.
If I do I keep it to a minimum out of guilt.
Good luck.
I wish I had gotten that chance.
umop_3pisdn
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It seems tackier or cheaper to me if it's just visual I guess.
Yeah I don't really know what's 'normal' here, this is all really new to me.
Thanks. I hope I don't fuck it up.
umop_3pisdn
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dp
CornBurrito
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What if I use a photo as a catalyst for imagination shenanigans?
Captain Europe
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I do this sometimes, but most of the time youtube vids lol.
umop_3pisdn
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Loophole.
CornBurrito
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youtube vids huh? For some reason still images do more for me than vids. Maybe because a lot of porn has really bad acting so I always put them on mute. But watching videos on mute always felt weird to me.
Discovering tumblr was the best/worse thing that happened to me. Endless still images. For any possible kink or fetish or mood.
Speaking of crushes, I think I might be somewhat of an "aromantic":
http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Aromantic
This is just too accurate:
I'm 26 and I've never had a "crush" like the ones most people describe, I actually don't think I've really been in love. Which might be weird, but on the upside breakups are 100% painless to me
Now, I say I'm "somewhat of an aromantic" because I'd love finding someone who I actually fall in love with. I take a very clinical approach to romance, but even then, I'd like to genuinely experience it for what it is! :3 Unless I'm simply way too good at getting over such feelings, or something.
http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Aromantic
This is just too accurate:
I'm 26 and I've never had a "crush" like the ones most people describe, I actually don't think I've really been in love. Which might be weird, but on the upside breakups are 100% painless to me
Now, I say I'm "somewhat of an aromantic" because I'd love finding someone who I actually fall in love with. I take a very clinical approach to romance, but even then, I'd like to genuinely experience it for what it is! :3 Unless I'm simply way too good at getting over such feelings, or something.umop_3pisdn
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I'm 26 and I've never had a "crush" like the ones most people describe, I actually don't think I've really been in love. Which might be weird, but on the upside breakups are 100% painless to me
I'm inclined to say I've been the same way. The only time I fell in love was instantaneous, and I'm sure that only worked because my conditioned defenses didn't have enough time to kick in and stop it.
Not that you're the same as me, but actually figuring out a good meditation technique for me and working at it consistently has been giving me my feelings back. I realized lately that before I was stuck in this black hole of extreme self-reflection. It may be a similar deal.
umop_3pisdn
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I'm not looking forward to changing myself, though. Ideally I'd find someone with similar views to mine
Whatever makes you happy I guess
Captain Europe
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I just put something like this on mute and go at it lol, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2DndQSCU9I&hd=1
Moving images do more for me than still pictures.
I think you'll do fine. You're fairly self-critical and observant. Barring a complete clash of desires or personalities I can't see you being at fault.
Speaking of crushes, I think I might be somewhat of an "aromantic":
http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Aromantic
This is just too accurate:
I'm 26 and I've never had a "crush" like the ones most people describe, I actually don't think I've really been in love. Which might be weird, but on the upside breakups are 100% painless to me
I'm weirdly the opposite. I'm a strong romantic, but when it comes to actually dating or engaging people flirtatiously I shy away from it all.
Oh wow I'm like the opposite of you Aromantic dudes. I get attached all the time to guys I barely know for like a week. I'm like a serial fleeting crush kinda guy; and it very rarely has much to do with an explicit desire to bang. Like, I'd be up for it if they were but it's not the basis of my attraction. Sure are all sorts of different people in the world, huh?
Captain Europe
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I'm a hopeless romantic, I don't get attached to people very easily, but when I do, oh boy.
TheAbsolution
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Same here.
Hopeless romantic.
I fall in and out of love with dudes all of the time.
Then I overanalyze my interactions with them to find out if they like me back. It never works out but I don't really mind because I move on fairly quickly.
Such is my life.
Hopeless romantic.
I fall in and out of love with dudes all of the time.
Then I overanalyze my interactions with them to find out if they like me back. It never works out but I don't really mind because I move on fairly quickly.
Such is my life.
umop_3pisdn
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Thanks
MisterGrey3000
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Yeah, Seth MacFarlane is a goddamn fool.
Everything about the "Quagmire's Dad" episode was dreadful.
The way they dealt with the trans character (I think her name was Ida) felt incredibly mean spirited and ignorant (She was able to transition in 30 or seconds without any sort of therapy or hormone treatment. Also every character but Quagmire treated her like she had some horrifying disease)
It's pretty sad that he doesn't understand why LGBT people (Especially the "T" part) weren't happy with that episode. It's also sad that he thinks gay men are disgusted by vaginas; I have no idea why straight guys think gay men are disgusted by heteronormative things when they live in a predominantly heteronormative society.
In other news:
Yaaassss, Willam just released her new "Willam's Beatdown!" vid!
For any of you boogers that are interested, "Willam's Beatdown" is a show where a really funny drag queen makes fun of odd youtubers and their dumb videos.
TheAbsolution
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