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That a term like "gay fat" even exists is insulting enough. :|
And that someone used one on you just blows my mind.
Orniletter
Banned
Fat ? Really ? Some people are insane. I remember one of your selfies from the other thread....and...just no.
Edit2:
, best Spongebob scene in the entire series
"...and then you'll blow up."
Hours Left
Member
Anyone that would say stuff like that to you are undoubtedly atrocious and legitimately deranged. Holding anyone to such skewed standards is just a reflection of how rotten and shallow some people can be, and that's very sad. I know for a fact that you are amazing, both inside and out. <3
And this Colby dude looks great. I'm sure he could deal with any haters that give him any flack too, being a former marine and all.
Orniletter
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CornBurrito
Member
What is "gay fat"?
Personally I like chubby men.
Personally I like chubby men.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Necromanti
Member
He said "gay fat", not "gay morbidly obese".
I had a bit of a hangover before but now I'm feeling better again, thanks to some soup,some apple-carrot juice and a loooot of water.How are you holding up Kater? No hangover?
I liked those selfies you posted earlier .
Aw, thanks TA. 😽
I really need a better camera tho. :/
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
CornBurrito
Member
Man that ain't chubby at all. Would still do though.
Hours Left
Member
Any person that would look at Ben Cohen and think he's fat needs to do some serious self reflection, preferably in the squalid hovel from which they sprang.
Mr. Cohen does lots of pro LGBT charity work too. He's a great man.
Masquerader
Member
Thank you sweet Gato 😁
Les Minettes Brûlantes ("Horny pussies")
I found the exact same one on the internet:
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Thanks!
<3 Ben Cohen.
Henchmen21
Banned
Gay fat sounds like a new type of milk you could buy.
Skim, 1%, 2%, and gay.
Skim, 1%, 2%, and gay.
Blackstarhat
Member
Fuck my internet is down
*swoons*
But, yeah, the "gay fat" is sadly a real thing... It always baffled me to see gay people being intolerant over some body types.
TheAbsolution
Member
Exactly, we're all beautiful people and I just wished that people weren't so shitty about body types outside of the norm.
That sucks so much about the community.
I met the most handsome guy the other day, we exchanged whatsapp and facebook, I skim over his profile and he has past photos of himself in which he called him self "fat". He was nowhere near fat, he actually looked pretty great.
I get doing excercise for your own health, I'm overweight so I should really do it but this obsession is not healthy and its sadly very common among gay people.
I met the most handsome guy the other day, we exchanged whatsapp and facebook, I skim over his profile and he has past photos of himself in which he called him self "fat". He was nowhere near fat, he actually looked pretty great.
I get doing excercise for your own health, I'm overweight so I should really do it but this obsession is not healthy and its sadly very common among gay people.
He's really hairy
Escape Goat
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Ben Cohen is perfection. Ive never heard the term gay fat before. Ive heard of skinny fat where thin guys carry weight in their midsection.
I think that high standards when it comes to looks is not something that is exclusive to the gay community, I've heard the same kind of stuff from straight guys about themselves, a really lean friend of mine calls himself "fat" a lot, and I also heard talk about how "fat" "that and that girl over there" is way too many times. Some people just have a distorted view on reality and bodies, they probably watched too much TV or looked at too many photos of skinny models in fashion magazines.
Eye of the beholder, that's the title of that comic. Just found that on tumblr. Not really on-topic but still really sweet so I wanted to share it here.
Eye of the beholder, that's the title of that comic. Just found that on tumblr. Not really on-topic but still really sweet so I wanted to share it here.
There's no real standard when it comes to body type. Also, in my opinion, you're perfect. <3
you never sent the pm
yas thats 2 kewl. i like when games/movies have non sexualized nudity.
i also appreciate them trying to depict that in a realistic and mature way
Good for you! :3
what is the name of the movie?
I did?
oooh
It's hard for me to get excited for the Oscars, when every year I almost never see any of the nominated films.
For Best Picture this year all I've seen are The Grand Budapest Hotel (I'm a mega Wes Anderson fan but was pretty lukewarm on it) and Boyhood (which was very unique and interesting, but I'm not sure if it's really Best Picture worthy).
Out of the Foreign Language noms, I've just seen Ida (it's on Netflix!!! Unlike any of the other nominees!!! :/) but I liked it a lot and am totally rooting for it to win both Best Foreign Language and also Cinematography.
Out of the animated films I've only seen How to Train Your Dragon 2, which I really liked, but I kind of want to see The Tale of the Princess Kaguya win so Takahata can have an Oscar to go along with Miyazaki's.
It's weird seeing you write with proper spelling and grammar.
That sounds delicious.
Then instead of worrying about having no passion or goals, you have to start looking for one, which is part of the fun and can lead up to trying many different things. Try something you always wanted to do, after a while you will know if you actually like it or if it's not for you.
Also traveling for an extended period of time never looks bad on a CV.
Here's the source of the comic, by the way.I think is perfectly on topic, also I'm stealing it and sharing it everywhere.
http://docmuerte.tumblr.com/post/102657697686
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
bitch leave gay gaf more often
you can always lie about travelling. fake it till you make it
I know, right? It's so strange since I'm used to him being someone who writes very short posts.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I know, right? It's so strange since I'm used to him being someone who writes very short posts.
see above
You'll definitely find someone. I'm sure we all will. There are billions of people on this Earth, it really makes no sense, even with the relatively small number of gay guys compared to other groups out there, that you, I, or anyone else won't find someone we can really connect with. Just take it day by day and find things to help the time go by and make you happier; heck, finding new hobbies, interests, dreams, etc. might be what helps you find that special guy anyway.
THIS. Always throws me off to see a Ratsky post that reads like the one you quoted and/or isn't asking about penis size.
Still love you though Ratsky. :3
I know that you write really long and in-depth posts and OTs elsewhere on the board but in here you are always on point and keep it very short. That's all. And I am not critizing you for that either since I really like your snappy posts (snappy as in gunfire or something, very rapidly). :3see above
I can't.
Yep, sometimes I'll go like "woah" Ratsky can write really nice, in-depth, complex sentences.
He sure is one sassy son of a gun.
Henchmen21
Banned
Ratsky can be plenty serious when he wants to.
lmao what kind of shade
DOWN
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I don't really take fat comments seriously when it's made about someone who obviously isn't fat. If it's just not true, at worst it makes the person saying it sound ridiculous. It seems obvious to me what actual fat is and the tweets aimed at the porn star came off as just bitchy quips. That guy can clearly look fine in or out of his clothes regardless of not being slim. Sure, he may be off from his porn job description if he is supposed to be more toned, but fat? Obviously not.
This reminds me, my friend said her mother called her obese because that's what her doctor's BMI measurement categorized her as, and we laughed ourselves to tears because it was just obviously wrong. The girl doesn't look even overweight, and no way was she carrying enough to be obese so it was clearly a case where BMI was not useful.
Hell even if you're overweight, it's not like zero people would find you attractive, as evidenced by this thread. If "gay fat" is as off-minded as it seems you all know, why worry about it when it comes from people who's standards are off? At your ideal weight or not, there's more to you and you obviously can do better than being around whoever makes the comment with intended insult. When you know the comment is ridiculous or isn't worth giving your serious thoughts, shake it off ;O
This reminds me, my friend said her mother called her obese because that's what her doctor's BMI measurement categorized her as, and we laughed ourselves to tears because it was just obviously wrong. The girl doesn't look even overweight, and no way was she carrying enough to be obese so it was clearly a case where BMI was not useful.
Hell even if you're overweight, it's not like zero people would find you attractive, as evidenced by this thread. If "gay fat" is as off-minded as it seems you all know, why worry about it when it comes from people who's standards are off? At your ideal weight or not, there's more to you and you obviously can do better than being around whoever makes the comment with intended insult. When you know the comment is ridiculous or isn't worth giving your serious thoughts, shake it off ;O
Until they start asking specific questions about the place you visited
Like sometimes if you say you know another language, the recruiter would change the interview to that other language you said you know 100%.
Circle Jerk
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Henchmen21
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Until they start asking specific questions about the place you visited
Which is why you do research beforehand. Never go unprepared.
BlueBadger
Banned
Fat ? Really ? Some people are insane. I remember one of your selfies from the other thread....and...just no.
Edit2:
Shucks.. Thank you guys :'). It's really nice to hear that. I'm so sorry for being a downer (yet again) today! x_X I dunno what's been up with me lately haha. I've struggled with my mentality towards my body for quite some time now, unfortunately :S!
I'm so happy I found a supportive group like this.
Escape Goat
Member
Hmm rich in calcium
Milk does a body good.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
adults should even drink milk
Meh, I get my calcium from other sources. :*
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