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esms

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HippieHobo said:
Food and sleep > Sex. Anyday, errday.
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Hear, hear.

Ty4on said:
I think that's the more likely reason, but it's probably just me applying my perspective onto others people's thoughts.
Have you asked her the same about men?
And what about you? :p
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Didn't even think to ask her about other dudes. Going by me (and I'm nothing special to look at) I'm guessing it's roughly the same type of attraction.
 
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Vitanimus

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VICTORsaurio said:
The guy I gave my number to yesterday is acting really weird...
I texted him yesterday at like 6-7 pm. He answered around 9, we talked a bit, he asked if I had plans, I said no and asked him if he wanted to have dinner. He told me to give him 20 minutes to confirm.

More than an hour passes by so I wrote again, just telling him that I was going to cook something. He apologized and told me that he was really far away and that we could go have breakfast today and maybe go watch a movie. I said "great" and asked him what time does he get up just to have a time frame. He said he'd go to the gym at 8, leave at 10 so we could meet around 11 AM.

So I wake up today, nothing new from him, text him at 10:52 to double check. He gets back to me at 11:37 saying he just got home, that his friend crashed his car (his friend's car). He told me he was going to take a shower and let me know when he's ready. It's 2:31 PM right now, nearly 3 hours later and nothing from him. What's wrong with people?

I'm calling it: he has a boyfriend and just wants someone to fuck on the side.
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you literally met him yesterday

maybe he just doesn't want to be a keeno kelly
 
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Dany

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who dat

Question: Whats the longest you've goen from communicating with your partner? texts, calls, seeing them etc. My friend said sometimes it can be a whole 24 hours without hearing a peep. D:
 
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_Isaac

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Dany said:
who dat

Question: Whats the longest you've goen from communicating with your partner? texts, calls, seeing them etc. My friend said sometimes it can be a whole 24 hours without hearing a peep. D:
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I think in Mexico it maybe went on for 24 hours. It's very rare that we have a day we don't communicate. Sometimes if it's in the evening and I haven't heard from him yet or he doesn't respond to my texts, I automatically start thinking he's been in a car accident or something. I am way too paranoid. :(
 
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Escape Goat said:
I am excited for the 2016 Olympics because I get a really good boner when I see Jonathan Horton do anything.

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His teammate Sam Mikulak is talented as well

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Actually, the US gymnasts in general are pretty great

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Kevyt

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PANTHEON said:
His teammate Sam Mikulak is talented as well

uQ1EWEi.jpg


Actually, the US gymnasts in general are pretty great

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Just as I was getting ready to sleep... this is perfect :3

I'll try and dream with gymnasts.

It'd be awesome if you could control your dreams.
 
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Cosmic Bus

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Male gymnasts are really the only muscle-y dudes that do it for me. Maybe because a lot of them are smaller in stature too?
 
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Not to be a buzzkill, but it's pretty sad seeing Paul Walker in these trailers for Furious 7. These movies have been going since I was 9, more than half of my life which is a great success story for them. Glad it has scored well and continued the upward trend in reception.
 
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Henchmen21

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PANTHEON said:
Not to be a buzzkill, but it's pretty sad seeing Paul Walker in these trailers for Furious 7. These movies have been going since I was 9, more than half of my life which is a great success story for them. Glad it has scored well and continued the upward trend in reception.
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1. You're young :p

2. The only Paul Walker I care about does porn.
 
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VICTORsaurio

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So after like 7 hours he replies, said he had to leave town for some work stuff and that he'd be back on Wednesday. Obviously I had to drop the bomb, asked him if he had a boyfriend (I told him that I hated to ask but I've had a few bad experiences). He said he's single and hasn't had any luck and asked about me so I told him I had been going out with someone but wasn't too sure about it, he asked me a few more questions about what do I look for in a guy and that kind of stuff. Then he apologized if he was asking too much, I said it was ok.

Then he told me he was going to take a shower and come back in 20 minutes. Obviously those 20 minutes turned into 5 hours and counting. I should get this guy a clock or something.
 
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RatskyWatsky

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VICTORsaurio said:
So after like 7 hours he replies, said he had to leave town for some work stuff and that he'd be back on Wednesday. Obviously I had to drop the bomb, asked him if he had a boyfriend (I told him that I hated to ask but I've had a few bad experiences). He said he's single and hasn't had any luck and asked about me so I told him I had been going out with someone but wasn't too sure about it, he asked me a few more questions about what do I look for in a guy and that kind of stuff. Then he apologized if he was asking too much, I said it was ok.

Then he told me he was going to take a shower and come back in 20 minutes. Obviously those 20 minutes turned into 5 hours and counting. I should get this guy a clock or something.
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Gross. Time to find a new man, dawg.
 
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Caladrius

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Yeah, that's just avoiding the issue.

Though personally I would have waited awhile longer before calling. Maybe 3-4 days instead

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Also I still don't know the guy's surname. Going to bug me all week.

I'll call him Mark Mcsexybangs I guess
 
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Symphonia

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Henchmen21 said:
Sounds about right. Women seem more interested on average in personality than looks. Men are mostly the reverse.
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Don't lump all your eggs in one basket. I don't focus entirely on looks at all. I'd say I'm 50/50, if I'm honest. Looks are just as important as personality. Deny it all you want, but you need to find someone just as sexually appealing as you find them funny or smart.
 
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I can just feel it when I'm watching iPhone 6 durability tests.

And Spotify has come to PS4. Never liked Spotify until this.
 
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VegiHam

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CyanideStrike said:
Don't lump all your eggs in one basket. I don't focus entirely on looks at all. I'd say I'm 50/50, if I'm honest. Looks are just as important as personality. Deny it all you want, but you need to find someone just as sexually appealing as you find them funny or smart.
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OK. I deny your claim. I think.
Depends what you mean.
If you mean looks reaching an acceptable standard is as important as personality reaching an acceptable standard then I agree.
But if you're implying that the criteria to be acceptably good looking are as rigorous and specific as the criteria for good personality then yes I deny that that's the case for me. There's all sort of shit that can rule a guy out totally personality wise, but any decently cute guy will do as long as they're a cool person.
 
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Xaltheron

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VegiHam said:
OK. I deny your claim. I think.
Depends what you mean.
If you mean looks reaching an acceptable standard is as important as personality reaching an acceptable standard then I agree.
But if you're implying that the criteria to be acceptably good looking are as rigorous and specific as the criteria for good personality then yes I deny that that's the case for me. There's all sort of shit that can rule a guy out totally personality wise, but any decently cute guy will do as long as they're a cool person.
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I'm the same pretty much. Though some measure of physical attraction is obviously required, I've experienced both ways how much personality can make a difference.

One guy I liked ticked every physical preference I had. But then I got to know him, and after learning he was actually an arrogant asshole the attraction levels dropped into the negatives. Now I look at him and think "What on earth did I ever see in that knobhead?"

And vice versa, one of the biggest crushes I've had was on someone I never thought I'd be attracted to, but he was one of the nicest guys I'd ever met, and then he quickly became more attractive to me than anyone else.

So yeah, looks definately matter to a certain degree, but the ultimate decider for me is the personality.
 
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Razmos

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My ex had a handsome face, but his body was totally meh in my opinion, he was fat and flabby and had stretch marks everywhere. Nothing about his body really stood out to me as attractive, but I liked his personality, and that made me totally overlook everything else.

Of course then he broke up with me suddenly out the blue with the reasoning that he didn't find me attractive, he thought my personality could make up for it, but it wasn't good enough. Yes, those were his exact words.

My confidence hasn't exactly been great since then.
 
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Xaltheron

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Razmos said:
Of course then he broke up with me suddenly out the blue with the reasoning that he didn't find me attractive, he thought my personality could make up for it, but it wasn't good enough. Yes, those were his exact words.
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Holy crap he sounds like an asshole. I mean, even if that's what you were honestly thinking in some dark corner of your mind, there is such a thing as tact and breaking up with someone without making them feel like shit in the process.

I'd consider it a lucky escape, you can do better than that.
 
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Razmos

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Xaltheron said:
Holy crap he sounds like an asshole. I mean, even if that's what you were honestly thinking in some dark corner of your mind, there is such a thing as tact and breaking up with someone without making them feel like shit in the process.

I'd consider it a lucky escape, you can do better than that.
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That wasn't even all of it, he said he had been lying about all the nice things he said and all the nice moments we had.
 
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Grakl

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PANTHEON said:
Not to be a buzzkill, but it's pretty sad seeing Paul Walker in these trailers for Furious 7. These movies have been going since I was 9, more than half of my life which is a great success story for them. Glad it has scored well and continued the upward trend in reception.
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Yooo, first movie was in 2001? Crazy
 
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Kevyt

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Razmos said:
My ex had a handsome face, but his body was totally meh in my opinion, he was fat and flabby and had stretch marks everywhere. Nothing about his body really stood out to me as attractive, but I liked his personality, and that made me totally overlook everything else.

Of course then he broke up with me suddenly out the blue with the reasoning that he didn't find me attractive, he thought my personality could make up for it, but it wasn't good enough. Yes, those were his exact words.

My confidence hasn't exactly been great since then.
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That sucks. I:

I'm sure you'll get your confidence back.
 
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mantidor

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I made out with someone I'm not really into and I'm feeling bad about it. I was so stupid I tried to avoid him all night. I messed up. -_-
 
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