Elitist1945
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I don't think anything annoys me more than when you send someone a long message and they reply with "lol" or "ok" or "oh".
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Barrylocke
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There's a lot of things that have been running through my head this past week, but I think it can all be summed up as: "Crushes suck".
Oh
They do suck. I don't understand why I'm attracted to this person (who by definition is homophobic) and I can't shake it off.
There is no rationality. Hormones betray us.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
what does he look like
Facebook?
The other alternative.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
fisting bro?
Frying Bacon?
That sounds delicious.
Well, I was just looking at a picture of him on Facebook and ugh, the feels... ;_;
You're gonna have to take my word that he's very handsome. At the very least, he's my type. He is really stylish and dresses phenomenally.
I also had the blessing to get to know him for a very long time abd be friends with him. Though we technically aren't anymore primarily because of different views (he's a conservative Christian), so yeah I:
I really wish I didn't feel anything for him.
Fuck hormones.
Funky babe?
Henchmen21
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Fiendishly Breakdancing.
Finding Belzeebub
Barrylocke
Member
I'm going to assume there's a very important yet missing 'w' in between the f and b.
EDIT: Or that you meant "fuckbuddies". It took me a moment because I've always had the mental definition of fuckbuddies just being a regular person you have sex with, vs. friends with benefits being someone you're friends with (but not lovers) and having sex.
Anyways if that's the case then frankly, I'd rather be in your position than in my own having just given my aforementioned crush reassurances and advice on how things are probably going to move smoothly with someone I recently found out he's been considering getting serious with.
But I say this as someone who sees sex as casual enjoyment as much as it can be a romantic gesture, so your mileage may vary.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
have you seen him naked tho
Fabulous babe!
To clarify, this was someone I wanted to go out with... partnered.
and he wanted you to be his fb? scust
Henchmen21
Banned
Flying Buttresses.
Oh, I didn't mean to come off as judgmental. They're open. It's just that we really connected.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
if theyre open why dont you go for it!
Barrylocke
Member
If he likes the guy and wants to be more than friends, then sleeping with them may not make things better. Even as someone who earlier said that I'd rather be in his position, I imagine that sleeping with someone that you have a crush on that has little realistic chance of becoming anything special wouldn't make things any better. It's different from messing around with someone that you feel platonic affection or less with.
I've messed some with the guy I've been crushing on, but even if he hadn't said that he prefers to start new relationships off by being monogamous and only opening things up later, I still probably would want to stop going for that if things go well for him and the guy he likes.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Not as simple as that. There was a girl a few years ago who became my FWB. But, for me, the sex developed into proper feelings for her, and it didn't end well.
Sex with someone you have actual feelings for but who doesn't reciprocate can lead to those feelings intensifying and foster hope that they could maybe be returned; leading to more pain and heartache when they aren't.
Plus, sex is easy to get elsewhere these days, no need to jump on the stupidest opportunities.
Necromanti
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Are we talkin', like, with literally anyone regardless of attractiveness, or...?
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Anyone here a fan of Mika? He's been mentioning (and partially performing) a song called "Good Guys" for a while without fully revealing it. Tonight, it just popped up in my iTunes (Friday is a weird day for that), and it looks like he's using the song to explicitly discuss his gay identity in song for the first time! The more I researched the people he's referencing and the lyrics, the more and more depressing I found it...but I quite enjoy the song. Here's a link to the audio. Anyone know of any major gay events that happened in '94? I couldn't find anything online...
Barrylocke
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None of you people get to complain anymore. I'm 25.
It's very amusing. Neither images of me without glasses nor images without facial hair drops it down lower than 40.
Aeriscloud
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Barrylocke
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I know I'l ultimately handle this crush situation but it really does suck right now. I can't remember having it this bad for a guy since friggen high school, except at least at that time I wouldn't have had the courage to pursue a relationship due to not being out, and that guy was straight so it wouldn't have happened anyways.
The worst part is that when I was asking Mr. Crush about his own guy that he's been getting closer with about how things how comfortable he feels about his situation, almost every reason he listed for why he likes the guy and enjoyed spending time with him is what I would say if someone were to ask me the same thing about Mr. Crush.
I'm going to need to keep busy for the next few hours before I start doing something dumb like writing his name over and over in a notebook.
The worst part is that when I was asking Mr. Crush about his own guy that he's been getting closer with about how things how comfortable he feels about his situation, almost every reason he listed for why he likes the guy and enjoyed spending time with him is what I would say if someone were to ask me the same thing about Mr. Crush.
I'm going to need to keep busy for the next few hours before I start doing something dumb like writing his name over and over in a notebook.
Looking good
I'm surprised that the program didn't think I'm a girl since some people who I met in person thought that before they heard me talk.
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Musha_Soturi
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Not gonna lie, Pantheon creates a stirring in my loins
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