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I just came across a subreddit called "Totallystraight" (not linking to it, it's NSFW), and the point of it is for guys who identify as straight, but who like to get off to gay porn.
And all they do there is post pictures of hot guys.

I mean, I get that sexuality is a sliding scale and all that, but can you really identify as straight if you do all that, I mean, they have to be bicurious or bisexual at the least right?

I guess it's not my place to judge what they identify as, but it's just a bit.. weird.

"Totally"
 
So I was all ready to go tanning: changed into swim shorts, applied tanning lotion, got sunglasses and towels, headphones in etc. I take a half step outside and... damn. XD
Curse you, weather!

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I ordered a toy once.
I live with my parents, but I knew If I ordered it on the monday or something, it likely wouldn't come until thursday/friday when I would be the only one home.
It didn't, it came on the Saturday. My mum answered the door to get the package, it was discreet plain brown packaging, but you could feel what it is inside it.

I came downstairs and she was squeezing the package with a confused look on her face, and asked me what i'd ordered. I said it was a new mouse for my computer, grabbed it, and ran upstairs.

I don't know what she thought it was, but she's never mentioned it since.

And this is why I'm waiting until I've moved out of the house before I pick up any for myself. I even told a friend that I might want to get this type as my reward for getting things together enough to move out. (I was inspired by this GAF thread actually)

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They are so in the closet they are in Narnia, amazing.

I'm saving that one for later.
 
Sounds awful - I guess seeing someone else is out of the question? Either way, hopefully you're closer to getting better.
Thanks. I have to see him again in a month. It's not very fun when you go to doctor hoping they'll be able to help you something that's been negatively affecting you for weeks and then leave feeling like he has more consideration for the dirt on the bottom of his shoes then your own well-being. Not a pleasant experience.
 
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Brief story I've been trying to find a way to phrase for a couple weeks (it's not as bad as it sounds):

Recently, my (gay) teacher talked to me, his (gay) student, during private office hours about the sexual tension that often exists between teacher and student when both are gay.

To be clear, this discussion didn't come out of nowhere (I had written a personal essay for class about a gay teacher I'd had as a child), but my essay was also not about sexual tension (though this teacher seemed to think so). Eventually, I learned he was saying this while thinking about an experience he had once had as a student with an older (creepy) professor, but geeze... He knows I'm gay, so I don't know how he didn't see why I wouldn't be a bit freaked out by what he was saying, but I honestly believe he didn't intend it that way. After the fact, I think it's kind of funny, but there were definitely several awkward seconds of me getting more and more uncomfortable before the point of his statements was made clear.
 

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Brief story I've been trying to find a way to phrase for a couple weeks (it's not as bad as it sounds):

Recently, my (gay) teacher talked to me, his (gay) student, during private office hours about the sexual tension that often exists between teacher and student when both are gay.

To be clear, this discussion didn't come out of nowhere (I had written a personal essay for class about a gay teacher I'd had as a child), but my essay was also not about sexual tension (though this teacher seemed to think so). Eventually, I learned he was saying this while thinking about an experience he had once had as a student with an older (creepy) professor, but geeze... He knows I'm gay, so I don't know how he didn't see why I wouldn't be a bit freaked out by what he was saying, but I honestly believe he didn't intend it that way. After the fact, I think it's kind of funny, but there were definitely several awkward seconds of me getting more and more uncomfortable before the point of his statements was made clear.
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Kevyt

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Brief story I've been trying to find a way to phrase for a couple weeks (it's not as bad as it sounds):

Recently, my (gay) teacher talked to me, his (gay) student, during private office hours about the sexual tension that often exists between teacher and student when both are gay.

To be clear, this discussion didn't come out of nowhere (I had written a personal essay for class about a gay teacher I'd had as a child), but my essay was also not about sexual tension (though this teacher seemed to think so). Eventually, I learned he was saying this while thinking about an experience he had once had as a student with an older (creepy) professor, but geeze... He knows I'm gay, so I don't know how he didn't see why I wouldn't be a bit freaked out by what he was saying, but I honestly believe he didn't intend it that way. After the fact, I think it's kind of funny, but there were definitely several awkward seconds of me getting more and more uncomfortable before the point of his statements was made clear.

That's like a perfect scenario
for porn...

Sorry. The first thing that came to mind, lol.
 

TheSeks

Blinded by the luminous glory that is David Bowie's physical manifestation.
OH MY GOD @ Masamuna's Stick Shift post.

What is this, I don't even.
 

mantidor

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Quick, someone who speaks Portuguese needs to create LettersGAF on NeoGAF Brazil.

Lol

I feel it would only be red13th, Platy and me over there if someone were to create a lettersGAF thread.

Also it obviously has nothing to do with Neogaf, I wonder if Evilore would bother with a cease and desist heh
 

Kevyt

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Pretty sure it's from Randy Blue

The big guy is Austin Wolf

Oh I see.

this is honestly what I think about every day in high school

PDAs?

Lol

I feel it would only be red13th, Platy and me over there if someone were to create a lettersGAF thread.

Also it obviously has nothing to do with Neogaf, I wonder if Evilore would bother with a cease and desist heh

The triumvirate. Don't forget about Via Purifico, speaking of which, I haven't seen him in a long time here. I hope he's okay.
 
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Ahaha this sounds so perfectly awkward. Was the teacher hot?

Eeeeehhhhhhh...not to me, no. He's not unattractive, and I'm sure many people find him attractive, but he's not attractive to me. He's handsome in a way that I recognize but don't feel...if that makes sense.

(If you're asking for PANTHEON's opinion on the film's actors, sorry for jumping in.)


Whoa. I don't recognize what this is from, but major props to you for that awesome tattoo.
 
Eeeeehhhhhhh...not to me, no. He's not unattractive, and I'm sure many people find him attractive, but he's not attractive to me. He's handsome in a way that I recognize but don't feel...if that makes sense.

(If you're asking for PANTHEON's opinion on the film's actors, sorry for jumping in.)

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I accidentally quoted PANTHEON, and I blame his gif game. But yeah, totally directed at you. Anyway, it sounds like a situation that could have easily escalated into something unpleasant but luckily it didn't.
 

Spree

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Hey y'all. It's been a while since I posted here, but I need your advice.

I'd been signed up for growlr for a while now, mainly just curiosity, but I recently decided to upload a pic. Things have been fine, except that quite a few people from other countries text me a lot, not realizing where I live.

Initially, I would respond to each and every one as nice as I could, letting them know. But it quickly started to get tedious and time-wasting. My problem is that I feel guilty for downright ignoring them. Some even like to go on to just chatting, which usually never goes anywhere either.

Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? What would you guys do? And how would you guys feel if someone just ignored you? I know I wouldn't feel good.
 

Symphonia

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Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? What would you guys do? And how would you guys feel if someone just ignored you? I know I wouldn't feel good.
Just message them once explaining your situation/location, and that talking to them is not an option. If they continue to message you after that, then that's on their heads, and you are under no obligation to respond to them.
 

red13th

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oh Austfil Wolff you used to look so good before the steroids too their toll on your face.

Quick, someone who speaks Portuguese needs to create LettersGAF on NeoGAF Brazil.

Lol

I feel it would only be red13th, Platy and me over there if someone were to create a lettersGAF thread.

Also it obviously has nothing to do with Neogaf, I wonder if Evilore would bother with a cease and desist heh

lol the fact a bootlegged Brazilian NeoGAF exists is hilarious, but Brazilian game forums are generally pretty homophobic so LettersGAF wouldn't be viable.
 

Symphonia

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The fact a bootlegged Brazilian NeoGAF exists is hilarious, but Brazilian game forums are generally pretty homophobic so LettersGAF wouldn't be viable.
Homophobia seems pretty rife among gaming communities in general. I've been called 'fag' and 'queer' during online games. They don't know my sexual preference but the way they were just so happily chucking out such derogatory remarks make me think they wouldn't care either way.
 

Xaltheron

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Ugh, so it turns out my mother voted UKIP. I pointed out that they've been some of the most vocal opponents of same sex marriage and some of the other messed up crap they've said. She didn't give a shit, so long as they get rid of those "annoying immigrants" then it doesn't matter who else they screw over along the way apparently.

Doesn't exactly fill me with confidence to come out to her.
 

Razmos

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Ugh, so it turns out my mother voted UKIP. I pointed out that they've been some of the most vocal opponents of same sex marriage and some of the other messed up crap they've said. She didn't give a shit, so long as they get rid of those "annoying immigrants" then it doesn't matter who else they screw over along the way apparently.

Doesn't exactly fill me with confidence to come out to her.
Fucking UKIP. My grandmother is voting for them too.

They recently said that they aren't homophobic or against gay marriage, but they are pushing for a religious freedom law like the ones in the states that allow religious people to discriminate.
 

Zalasta

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Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? What would you guys do? And how would you guys feel if someone just ignored you? I know I wouldn't feel good.

It really depends on what you want out of the app. I personally don't mind conversations regardless of where they are located. For example, I had talked to a guy in Chicago off and on for over a year, nothing was going to come of it, but we did eventually meet up and had dinner once, we still keep in touch now and then. Anyway, if all you're interested in are local guys, that's ok, most people are that way. Put it in your profile or just say so.

I also used to think like you do. I don't like being ignored so I try to answer everyone and put in an effort to talk to them. It does get tedious after a while and sometimes I was just not interested. So I think it's nice to have good intentions but you can't please everyone anyway, so keep the expectations casual and don't think too much of it.
 
Darren Criss does nothing for my sexual appetite and I have no idea why :(.


I have my first urban rec beach volleyball game of the summer tonight. I am so excited!!! <3

Even though it's not summer yet technically.. O_O
 
Ugh, so it turns out my mother voted UKIP. I pointed out that they've been some of the most vocal opponents of same sex marriage and some of the other messed up crap they've said. She didn't give a shit, so long as they get rid of those "annoying immigrants" then it doesn't matter who else they screw over along the way apparently.

Doesn't exactly fill me with confidence to come out to her.

Yeah, that's pretty awful (and not the only thing that UKIP's awful about). I sure hope you voted/are voting against them as well. :c
 
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