You have no business crying foul about condescension when you both decided that this community wasn't up to your standards and decided to make commentary about it. Want to discuss more substantial topics? Just fucking do it, but without the passive aggressive jabs mixed in between. Thanks.
I have done so repeatedly in this thread (mostly about representation) and I have also expressed how I feel about this thread when it turns to multiple posts about hot guys. It is not as if any community is above being critiqued and I fail to see how I or sub-zero were being unfair to anyone. And I feel that it is not a good response that when someone brings up a perceived issue they're met with belittlement.
What this guy said, I like this guy.
A lot of us post thought provoking stories and talk about a great many subjects, some quite fired up and serious. It's not our fault if you guys are never here to actually see it, but then you come in making these claims that all we do is make a picture perfect world here full of semi naked guys.
At least try and contribute before calling us out on not contributing.
I do follow this thread closely and I'm sorry if me just having posted 63 times (as of writing this) means that I'm disqualified of having an opinion on the matter.
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Most of the posters in this thread, as far as I can tell, use this place as an escape/vacation from the stresses of being queer in a queer-unfriendly world.
So, I think it's understandable that people don't really care to see socio-cultural baggage taking the lime light.
I'm well aware of that, but I still don't feel that excuses any and all criticism. I've said as much in my original post, that I realise and understand why this is, but we still could do better and not shy away from discussing things (which is what I feel happens at times).