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LGBTQIA+ :)OT6(: Were taking over -- first the alphabet, then the world!
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Yeah! Who wants to make the new one? Down? Razmos? Absolution? RM8? Hanchman? Kater? Bo? DANNY M?
cheers
I didn't want to spoil this until after release but what the heck
congrats to all americans
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
cheers
I didn't want to spoil this until after release but what the heck
congrats to all americans
holy shit! that's so cool!
Dany should make it!
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Deleted member 465307
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cheers
I didn't want to spoil this until after release but what the heck
congrats to all americans
That's awesome! Can't wait for the release!
Omg, yess!cheers
I didn't want to spoil this until after release but what the heck
congrats to all americans
You are the best, beril. And that is really cute.
What would I have to do, just copy the OP? I can do that, yeah.
NintendoGal
Member
I had a question in regards to how I phrased something to someone.
Yesterday when the ruling hit, I texted my boss (who's the owner of the store I work at) stating that I was happy that SCOTUS finally did something good for you folks (he's very openly gay).
Now I started thinking about how I phrased the last part, "you folks" and wondered if that comes off in a negative way? My boss knows me and knows I'm totally for this and such, but in my mind I said "you folks" because I'm not a part of that community. I don't know how it is, so I wasn't sure how to phrase it without using other words that might be seen badly like just simply saying gays or something to that regard.
I also realize that I might be overthinking this, but when it comes to communities I have zero experience with, I tend to be a bit socially awkward. So I figured I'd ask here.
Yesterday when the ruling hit, I texted my boss (who's the owner of the store I work at) stating that I was happy that SCOTUS finally did something good for you folks (he's very openly gay).
Now I started thinking about how I phrased the last part, "you folks" and wondered if that comes off in a negative way? My boss knows me and knows I'm totally for this and such, but in my mind I said "you folks" because I'm not a part of that community. I don't know how it is, so I wasn't sure how to phrase it without using other words that might be seen badly like just simply saying gays or something to that regard.
I also realize that I might be overthinking this, but when it comes to communities I have zero experience with, I tend to be a bit socially awkward. So I figured I'd ask here.
Escape Goat
Member
You're fired. I'd start looking for a new job as soon as possible. But seriously, I don't know what you're worried about. The context of the message is clearly positive.
Aaargh really? That's the most awesome thing ever! I'm bad at the games but damn, do I love 'em
If your boss knows you and how you feel about this I bet you are ok.
NintendoGal
Member
Oh I'm not worried about being fired, he is one of the coolest people I know! Love working there and hanging out! I just don't like coming off as a jackass because of perception in the way I speak.
Thanks for the feedback though, appreciate it!
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
that's what people generally do, although you should put things into your own words so it's not a direct copy/paste. try not to be lazy, even if you are a cat
don't sweat it. he would literally have to be insane to be offended by that.
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I wouldn't worry about that. I see what you're saying and think that in other situations "you folks" could seem negative (since it reinforces separation/difference), but here, it sounds perfectly fine and appropriate to me. Considering that your boss and you are on good terms and he knows your beliefs, I'd say you're 100% ok.
Even if he somehow responded negatively to that phrase (I don't really see how he could), your sentiment was positive and that should be what he responds to.
I don't see how it can come off in a negative way at all, so you're good. It kinda reminds me of that "What do you mean 'you people'!?" scene from Tropic Thunder.
NintendoGal
Member
Thanks everyone for the feedback! Now I feel a bit better about not potentially dampening a positive event.
I haven't seen that movie, it's on my watch list though!
I don't see how it can come off in a negative way at all, so you're good. It kinda reminds me of that "What do you mean 'you people'!?" scene from Tropic Thunder.
I haven't seen that movie, it's on my watch list though!
Tomorrow I'm going to see Orchestral Manouvres in the Dark live for the first time in my life! I'm so stoked!!!!
Check 'em out if you like synth-pop:
Enola Gay
Electricity
Maid of Orleans
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Check 'em out if you like synth-pop:
Enola Gay
Electricity
Maid of Orleans
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cheers
I didn't want to spoil this until after release but what the heck
congrats to all americans
:O
Poor Ms. Johnson
But, I mean, yay for Bob and Clive though.
DyslexicAlucard
Member
Are we spitballing for the new OT subtitle? My submission:
LGBTQIA+ |OT 7| First comes love, then comes marriage
Also, I wrote this on Facebook, but I think it belongs here as well:
As someone who only recently came out as bisexual in December, I feel like this post has been long overdue. Yesterday's historic decision is as good an excuse as any:
To those who didn't hide who they were: Thank you.
To those who never kept quiet, always speaking up for themselves and others: Thank you.
To those who had the courage to be who they are not only without fear, but with *pride*: Thank you.
To those would wouldn't back down when they felt surrounded by a culture that looked down on them: Thank you.
And to those who fought alongside their LGBT friends, family and neighbours, risking ostracization to stand up for a loved one: Thank you.
To those who paved the way: Thank you, thank you, thank you.
LGBTQIA+ |OT 7| First comes love, then comes marriage
Also, I wrote this on Facebook, but I think it belongs here as well:
As someone who only recently came out as bisexual in December, I feel like this post has been long overdue. Yesterday's historic decision is as good an excuse as any:
To those who didn't hide who they were: Thank you.
To those who never kept quiet, always speaking up for themselves and others: Thank you.
To those who had the courage to be who they are not only without fear, but with *pride*: Thank you.
To those would wouldn't back down when they felt surrounded by a culture that looked down on them: Thank you.
And to those who fought alongside their LGBT friends, family and neighbours, risking ostracization to stand up for a loved one: Thank you.
To those who paved the way: Thank you, thank you, thank you.
I like this; because it's a bit more inclusive of our members from countries where that's still pending. Hopeful, rather than just celebratory. Less Amerocentric.
I'm writing up something at the moment. Do I need to contact a mod to approve of it first or do I just post it once it is ready?
*chuckles*
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Wait until we reach 20K posts in here and then just post the new thread in the OT Community. After, contact a mod and ask them to lock this thread. You don't have to run anything by the mods for approval.
Understood. ^w^7
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
=^..^=
Welcome to the club, hahaHappy for you LGBT guys, but i ended up to the Milan Gay Pride without knowing it, completely fell in love with the perfect girl met there, then found her making out with another girl. Quite salty atm i must say
Still, nice accomplishment, hope the next step is adoption
The amount of straight guys I've been attracted to is depressing.
Congrats!
Your post is making me tear-up. And I love the subtitle suggestion.
Image suggestion for the next OP:
Or maybe..
Or..?
DyslexicAlucard
Member
Thank you. It's something I've been meaning to put to words for a long time.
Image suggestion for the next OP:
Or maybe..
Or..?
I like the visual theme of the last one, where the rainbow colours are defying the encroaching darkness. But I prefer the first one in general. ^_^
That subtle shade.
The last one is the best one. That change from day to night and then suddenly a rainbow at night. That's pretty cool, gotta say.
Nah, I just want to be as neutral as I can be at first, I want everyone to throw out their suggestions and then decide which one to pick out of all of those.That subtle shade.
Your suggestion is really not bad but I want to hear other people's suggestions too.
DyslexicAlucard
Member
Hahaha, I know. I'm just joking around. ^_^
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
I thought it was customary to post it in the main OT to get some exposure for people unaware of the thread (which is a lot) and after a few days it's
It would be awesome if we get the thread in the OT right now with the marriage equality news and the banner and everything.
That'd be great exposure for the community
everyone post more
Last time I did that it only took a few hours for it to get moved, but since it's not a huge infraction or ban-worthy, it's worth it to post it on OT for even a little while :3
<- also yay/nay on the rainbow tattoos for my boy Priapus?
Yay!
I'll do that then. Good idea since it would also bring a lot more new faces here.
Henchmen21
Banned
Depends on where they are.
p.s. I just read that recently lol (english translation obviously). Needed some time alone afterwords.
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My roommate just moved out, so it looks like I'm going to be in my two-bedroom apartment by myself for the next month and a half. I almost feel guilty that I'm not going to be doing anything new or exciting with the extra space and privacy.
Yay!
That's great.
Yay!
Yay. Why not?
Also, from the SCOTUS thread:
That's great.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I think that's just an urban legend. When I posted my OT, it got moved into Community almost immediately.
But maybe since it's currently trendy to be gay crazy the mods will allow for a period in the OT? I guess we won't know till we try!
Henchmen21
Banned
My roommate just moved out, so it looks like I'm going to be in my two-bedroom apartment by myself for the next month and a half. I almost feel guilty that I'm not going to be doing anything new or exciting with the extra space and privacy.
Yay!
That's great.
Why only a month and a half? Also, lots of lube and tissues.
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My housing contract runs out in mid-August and I didn't try to renew it. I'm moving back home for a bit to save money and finish up my academic work before moving to wherever my job is.
My roommate actually left behind a box of tissues on the kitchen table...haha. Maybe I'll give them away or something.
Henchmen21
Banned
On the kitchen table? Where you eat? Pervert ;p
I know yesterday was stupendous for those of us in the LGBT in the US but I can't help but feel sad for those of us who never lived to see such a moment. Am I over thinking this too much?
Nah, it's valid. There are many that probably won't live to see such a moment ever.
Henchmen21
Banned
Thing is I have a family friend who's partner died 4 years ago (cancer) and even though he said he wasn't going to get married again (married to a women most of his life), I still feel sorry that he never got to see this.
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