Attn. 3DS only people,
Given that there is no date for MH4 yet, I think you should consider the purchase of a discounted Wii U for online play. It is a fantastic experience.
I normally hate online multiplayer games because everyone's very rude and irresponsible, but in this game I see people prepare, bring lots of items to quests, provide friendly advice, etc.
The game is not bad in single player, I've done about 110hrs of it; however, I do recognise it really shines in multiplayer quests.
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Regarding cursed tables and all that, if I were in one of those I would be super angry, but I don't think the purpose of the game is min/maxing, for me it is all about the intense fights against monsters. It is rare to have a dull fight, and I get so absorbed in the game that I lose track of time.