Thanks for the detailed response, all this does sound great. I wasn't really using all the gadgets in the first game except maybe for collecting Trophies.
She can't possibly be worse than MJ in the first one.. your description of BC perfectly fits MJ in that game as well.
Honestly, in my very personal and humble opinion, no Insomniac game ever looked as good or at least as cohesive as the first Spider-Man on PS4 Pro.
They are masters of RT on console no doubt but the SM Remaster was a rushed project full of artistic/visual downgrades across the entire damn game and DLCs, RT on windows was a notable exception but even that only made a welcome difference on close proximity, when it comes to far away buildings it actually looked worse than the OG solution, Miles Morales looked sterile and gamey as fuck, and nothing I've seen from SM2 look quite as photorealistic/pleasing to look at as the first one during dusk (TOD butchered in the Remaster).
If this PS4 Pro code was playable at 60fps it would be my favorite version by a country mile. And it actually still is even if only for the OG Peter.