Well I managed to max out all the defensive stuff on Tough Guy that I wanted versus Defensive Dman. Here's an example of what I run:
Tough Guy Dman defensive stats:
99 aggression
94 checking + 5
99 def awareness
85 discipline
Fighting 99
Stick Checking 80
Its worse for me because I like to boost up hitting, and aggression costs a lot more points. I also like fighting :], so I can boost that up too. So essentially with Tough Guy Dman I can get the same exact stats but better fighting stats/hitting. You get better shot blocking with defensive dman but I don't give two shits about that broken feature.
On the offensive side, offensive awareness is already down -10 points vs Tough Guy and I usually put points in there anyway so it ends up evening out. On athletics I will have less endurance.
So in conclusion, defensive dman, to me anyways, is a less useful tough guy build
Im bad at offense. LOL like really bad put it that way