Unhandled Exception
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Completely off topic but I am fucking livid right now.
My wife spends a lot of time at the barn where her horse is. There's an older guy there, maybe in his late 60's/early 70's that also has a horse there. He's been a nice guy so far, little weird and likes to talk A LOT. Will talk to you whenever he has a chance. Something has seemed a little off to me about him since I met the guy. He is constantly trying to do her chores for her when I'm not around.
So my wife struggles with an eating disorder and body image issues. Today she goes to the barn without me to handle the chores she has to do. That guy is there, and he starts talking about her calves and how she has nice muscular calves/is her mom the same way. This is a dude that we don't know at all, he has met me, knows we're married, and just decides that bringing up her body parts is a totally fine thing to do when no one else is around. Not a chance he says something like that if I were there with her.
This was coming off of a morning where she had a bit of a breakthrough with her eating disorder/body image issues, only to run smack into that bullshit. She struggles with normal social situations, so when it comes to shit like this the best she can do is try not to be mean and leave. It pisses me off a lot.
My wife spends a lot of time at the barn where her horse is. There's an older guy there, maybe in his late 60's/early 70's that also has a horse there. He's been a nice guy so far, little weird and likes to talk A LOT. Will talk to you whenever he has a chance. Something has seemed a little off to me about him since I met the guy. He is constantly trying to do her chores for her when I'm not around.
So my wife struggles with an eating disorder and body image issues. Today she goes to the barn without me to handle the chores she has to do. That guy is there, and he starts talking about her calves and how she has nice muscular calves/is her mom the same way. This is a dude that we don't know at all, he has met me, knows we're married, and just decides that bringing up her body parts is a totally fine thing to do when no one else is around. Not a chance he says something like that if I were there with her.
This was coming off of a morning where she had a bit of a breakthrough with her eating disorder/body image issues, only to run smack into that bullshit. She struggles with normal social situations, so when it comes to shit like this the best she can do is try not to be mean and leave. It pisses me off a lot.