Tamanon said:
I guess I look at it a different way myself. I find it refreshing that someone says they hold a personal belief, but at the same time realize that their personal belief is trumped by the law. I love that politicians can actually admit that they believe something different than what the law allows, but then advocate following the legal process, even in light of their beliefs. Same as his abortion stance.
Well, I do appreciate that to some degree, but what I find troubling is this:
He said in his Call to Renewal speech, "This brings me to my second point. Democracy demands that the religiously motivated translate their concerns into universal, rather than religion-specific, values. It requires that their proposals be subject to argument, and amenable to reason. I may be opposed to abortion for religious reasons, but if I seek to pass a law banning the practice, I cannot simply point to the teachings of my church or evoke God's will. I have to explain why abortion violates some principle that is accessible to people of all faiths, including those with no faith at all."
When he says, "I believe marriage is between a man and a woman," to me, he's doing exactly what he says he oughtn't do - simply pointing to the teachings of his church or invoking God's will.
I appreciate the step to civil unions - I really do - but they are not as good as marriage. Even if federal laws were to include a hypothetical civil union, they still wouldn't be as good - the cultural and social benefits of marriage are enormous, and probably as important to many people as the legal and financial benefits of marriage.
I mean I've actually been polyamorous for a good deal of my life and involved in a couple relationships. I would've loved to have legal representation because of that but I also understood that it's not a position that my political choice could take or advocate. I just sublimated that wish in order to get someone who advocated and voted for my other beliefs.
PM me about that sometime; I've always wondered about a legal structure for polyamorous relationships that was workable.