Racist kids pissed me off today

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Holy Shit this thread has made me so fucking mad. Thread title might as well be describing the people in the thread





Specifically posts like this.

Arrogant fucking white people who can't see passed their goddamn noses telling everyone to fucking lighten up. "it's all in good fun"

Entire thread derailed to defend their right to have "fun" racist theme parties, acting like calling someone racist is worse than actually exhibiting racism.(hint: this party is absolutely racist. Every single part of it)

Get a fucking clue neogaf.


I love this hypocricy. Its like you're trying to prove your point by making a statement that the other party is making.
 
What makes this racist, and I'm just repeating it for those who don't understand, is that someone put DIRT on their face and said that Mexicans are dirty.

There's no excusing that. That's not the same as saying "That (insert race here) looks dirty" which would be talking about a single person (but still pretty unnecessary to refer to them by their race or culture when singling them out). This person said Mexicans as a whole were dirty.

That means they have perceived an entire body of people as dirty and thus is an offensive stereotype made from ignorance and racist.

Being told that this is racist shouldn't piss people off. It should be more of an opportunity to learn otherwise.

Learning has never been wrong for us. Neither is expanding our perspectives beyond ourselves.
 
I think most people in America would agree with you.

and I think that's one of the biggest problems with America regarding race.

Most people don't really understand the causality behind their actions. That their isolated instance of good fun can be indirectly contributing to or be representative of a much larger problem than themselves.

Worst part is that most people aren't trying to hear all that, if this thread is any example. lol

What part of America do you live where your line of thinking is conducive of most Americans?

To be fair, I only read the first page and this page so I'm working with limited info, but OP was a bit overreactive with the Mexican themed party until dirt on face was said.

Racism doesn't exist in a vacuum. Racist actions are racist, regardless of who does it or says it.
 
Didn't even read the OP but here you are giving us your two cents on why we shouldn't be offended. Unless you don't think referring to a whole group of people as dirty is degrading lol.

No, I read the OP just fine. It's about a group of foreign students who decided to have a "Mexico meets Far West" themed party among their community, and a couple of them, with English not being their native language (and with the iconic image of a Mexican man with a moustache, a sombrero and a poncho in their mind, because that's as far as their knowledge about Mexican culture goes), called a group of people "dirty".

Nothing more and nothing less.

No need to make a big fuss about it.
 
Almost all racism can be rationalized away as not being racist. Constantly going on "this isn't racist" crusades of rationalization make you part of the problem.
 
No, I read the OP just fine. It's about a group of foreign students who decided to have a "Mexico meets Far West" themed party among their community, and a couple of them, with English not being their native language (and with the iconic image of a Mexican man with a moustache, a sombrero and a poncho in their mind, because that's as far as their knowledge about Mexican culture goes), called a group of people "dirty".

Nothing more and nothing less.

No need to make a big fuss about it.

Okay...

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No, I read the OP just fine. It's about a group of foreign students who decided to have a "Mexico meets Far West" themed party among their community, and a couple of them, with English not being their native language (and with the iconic image of a Mexican man with a moustache, a sombrero and a poncho in their mind, because that's as far as their knowledge about Mexican culture goes), called a group of people "dirty".

Nothing more and nothing less.

No need to make a big fuss about it.

You don't think calling Mexicans dirty is degrading?
 
No, I read the OP just fine. It's about a group of foreign students who decided to have a "Mexico meets Far West" themed party among their community, and a couple of them, with English not being their native language (and with the iconic image of a Mexican man with a moustache, a sombrero and a poncho in their mind, because that's as far as their knowledge about Mexican culture goes), called a group of people "dirty".

Nothing more and nothing less.

No need to make a big fuss about it.

I'm actually trying to be understanding but this is just crazy.
 
No, I read the OP just fine. It's about a group of foreign students who decided to have a "Mexico meets Far West" themed party among their community, and a couple of them, with English not being their native language (and with the iconic image of a Mexican man with a moustache, a sombrero and a poncho in their mind, because that's as far as their knowledge about Mexican culture goes), called a group of people "dirty".

Nothing more and nothing less.

No need to make a big fuss about it.

Isolated incident #43543536345
 
No, I read the OP just fine. It's about a group of foreign students who decided to have a "Mexico meets Far West" themed party among their community, and a couple of them, with English not being their native language (and with the iconic image of a Mexican man with a moustache, a sombrero and a poncho in their mind, because that's as far as their knowledge about Mexican culture goes), called a group of people "dirty".

Nothing more and nothing less.

No need to make a big fuss about it.

Well I don't see a big fuss. I just see someone accurately labeling it as racism, and then the big fuss to say he's wrong about it, and explaining it away. So why the big fuss, Vandrar?

White people feeling better about/excusing racism by substituting the word "racist" with "ignorant."

well they can deal with being "ignorant", because it just means 'they didn't know something' and can do the 'optional' cultural encounter where they learn that there are real people out there with feelings and experiences that they have reduced to a joke.

But they can't deal with being called racist because that's a label and it's bad and its unfair and you don't even know them, so how could you say something like that?
 
You don't think calling Mexicans dirty is degrading?

In the close confines of a themed party, and this being said by foreign students who don't really know much about a specific culture and are just looking to have fun, what's the point of being so unforgiving?

They were just students in a party, not someone on TV speaking to millions of people.

Well I don't see a big fuss. I just see someone accurately labeling it as racism, and then the big fuss to say he's wrong about it, and explaining it away. So why the big fuss, Vandrar?

No big fuss at all mate, but if you look right above your post there are four or five people quoting me at the same time. Should I not answer to at least one of them? Besides, I only started posting in this thread 10 minutes ago.
 
White people feeling better about/excusing racism by substituting the word "racist" with "ignorant."

This was my favorite exchange in the thread:

If there's no ill intent, it's not racism, just lack of knowledge. Was I a racist when I repeated things from 1940's Looney Tunes episodes as a kid, not knowing what they meant or the history behind them?

Still counts as racist.

rac·ist
noun
1.
a person who believes in racism, the doctrine that a certain human race is superior to any or all others.
adjective
2.
of or like racists or racism: racist policies; racist attitudes.

You really think they would have agreed with the first definition regarding Mexicans? How many Americans think the French are "dirty" because of the stereotypes around their hygiene? If they met a French person, would they recoil, and leave the room? Would they say they don't associate with French people? I doubt it. I believe they're simply ignorant about Mexicans. It's alright. In the end, they're pretty harmless views, easily remedied by more exposure to the outside world.

The second definition fits.

the second definition is so generic I almost didn't include it to save space. It's like when you go to look up a word, and to cover their own asses the dictionary people put "of, or relating to the word you just looked up." But it sounds like we'll have to agree to disagree here.

you can crowbar anything to that definition, come on.

lol
 
No big fuss at all mate, but if you look right above your post there are four or five people quoting me at the same time. Should I not answer to at least one of them? Besides, I only started posting in this thread 10 minutes ago.

Well then realize that we're on page....I don't even know, of a "big fuss" that you've joined. But it wasn't the fuss that you expected.
 
OP, does your store reserve the right to refuse service under certain circumstances? I would have kicked those fuckers out and refused to serve them, especially after what that girl said.

smfh at the people defending that type of behavior. What the fuck.
 
I love this hypocricy. Its like you're trying to prove your point by making a statement that the other party is making.

"Can't see passed the ends of their noses" is a common idiom, not a stereotype about white people if that's what you're getting at.
 
In the close confines of a themed party, and this being said by foreign students who don't really know much about a specific culture and are just looking to have fun, what's the point of being so unforgiving?

They were just students in a party, not someone on TV speaking to millions of people.

Unforgiving? Who? Op tried to explain to these kids what they were doing was insensitive, he wasn't attacking them or sentencing them jail. Good thing people like this have people like you defending them because we wouldn't want people calling them out on their shit and maybe reevaluating their views.
 
Yeah that would've pissed me off - it's perpetuating a negative stereotype (the dirty thing). There's both positive and negative stereotypes, but it's still a broad form of labelling that is just irritating.

They could have been equally as ill informed and wore straw hats and trying to say "ching chung" (in those exact words - most of us asians have had to deal with that shit in NA) to pass off as Chinese. I would've lost my shit.

To the flip side of the argument, sure they're ignorant, but they shouldn't be ignorant to stereotyping. Likely because they haven't been on that end of being stereotyped... no idea if there are any stereotypes associated with being Norwegion.
 
Really didn't think this thread was going to have legs since i assumed most would think it wrong to characterize an entire nationality as 'dirty'. LOL. Y'all need to stop. Only a certain kind/group of people would find any enjoyment or "harmlessness" in that sort of thing.
 
I love it when someone uses a dictionary definition of racist and racism to make an argument. It basically means I should ignore anything they have to say on the matter

Same. I love when anyone mounts their argument about anything based on its dictionary definition.

I love it even more when it blows up in their face so gloriously like that.

Needless to say that guy is no longer with us
 
I just don't get this perspective at all. In one case people are legitimately defending playing up ignorant stereotypes for laughs. In my case I'm responding to specific examples of a common mentality I observe in race threads exhibited by the majority in response to cases like this, where race and culture are played up for laughs by the majority. The first example is in response to an initial unprovoked action. I'm just responding to what I see in the wake of that

I mean yeah I can understand people getting mad at my language, but I don't see how the actual content of my post is equivalent at all to what I'm criticizing on any level.

As an example, it's like claiming that black people who lived through segregation and hold a resentment towards white people as a result are as equally racist as the white people that imposed those racist laws on them to begin with. Even if you define both as racism,(I wouldn't) at least you can acknowledge that the initial racism of the majority is not the same as the reactionary racism of the minority.

and that's what I'm doing here. Responding to racism and identifying it. I don't see how that can be labeled racism because I'm identifying common racist ideas among white people.
The point. You missed it. You're still generalizing a lot here and your other posts based on your anecdotal experiences of white people and their ideas. You saying that black resentment is not the same as white supremacy ideals is completely irrelevant to what I'm calling you out for (downplaying people's offense at your generalizations about white people and their ideas about race). You made the point that it is insensitive to downplay people getting offended by what's going on in the OP (which I agree with) but also at the same time make statements that can offend other people. You literally could have removed all instances of "white" in your posts and it would have been just about arrogant/ignorant people and it would have still made sense. What you've said just makes you seem like a hypocrite. I didn't call you racist, so I don't know where that came from.
 
In the close confines of a themed party, and this being said by foreign students who don't really know much about a specific culture and are just looking to have fun, what's the point of being so unforgiving?

They were just students in a party, not someone on TV speaking to millions of people.

I honestly don't understand how you could worry about being unforgiving to someone labeling an entire group dirty. Calling an entire group dirty requires a level of ignorance that should not be tolerated, especially among kids attending college who should have the education to know better. I really hope you are just stubbornly defending your position after being called out, and that you don't really believe calling a group "dirty" is no big deal. I could even understand you taking the position that caricatures and stereotypes shouldn't be fussed over, but please at least concede the point that you don't need a PhD in World Culture to know that calling any group dirty is wrong.
 
The point. You missed it. You're still generalizing a lot here and your other posts based on your anecdotal experiences of white people and their ideas. You saying that black resentment is not the same as white supremacy ideals is completely irrelevant to what I'm calling you out for (downplaying people's offense at your generalizations about white people and their ideas about race). You made the point that it is insensitive to downplay people getting offended by what's going on in the OP (which I agree with) but also at the same time make statements that can offend other people. You literally could have removed all instances of "white" in your posts and it would have been just about arrogant/ignorant people and it would have still made sense. What you've said just makes you seem like a hypocrite. I didn't call you racist, so I don't know where that came from.


He wasn't generalizing white people though.
 
I honestly don't understand how you could worry about being unforgiving to someone labeling an entire group dirty. Calling an entire group dirty requires a level of ignorance that should not be tolerated, especially among kids attending college who should have the education to know better. I really hope you are just stubbornly defending your position after being called out, and that you don't really believe calling a group "dirty" is no big deal. I could even understand you taking the position that caricatures and stereotypes shouldn't be fussed over, but please at least concede the point that you don't need a PhD in World Culture to know that calling any group dirty is wrong.

Yes, calling any cultural group "dirty" in your daily life, and for no reason, is wrong and racist; in fact, it borders hate speech.

This epithet however, was mentioned in the confines of a themed party, where drunk students whose native language is not English, were trying to dress themselves as "realistic" as possible to the Mexican person that Far West movies have shaped in their ignorant minds.

Seriously, a party is the last place where I would expect to have a conversation regarding racism, with people.
 
1. this is racist, it's a teaching moment, people could stand to learn something

2. it's a party. they were just having fun. don't worry about it. you're overreacting.

why are so many people setting up flags around #2?
 
1. this is racist, it's a teaching moment, people could stand to learn something

2. it's a party. they were just having fun. don't worry about it. you're overreacting.

why are so many people setting up flags around #2?

Because they would rather stay stuck in their happy land of ignorance instead of looking at people of other races and cultures different from their own as individuals or people.

Stupid, isn't it?
 
The point. You missed it. You're still generalizing a lot here and your other posts based on your anecdotal experiences of white people and their ideas. You saying that black resentment is not the same as white supremacy ideals is completely irrelevant to what I'm calling you out for (downplaying people's offense at your generalizations about white people and their ideas about race). You made the point that it is insensitive to downplay people getting offended by what's going on in the OP (which I agree with) but also at the same time make statements that can offend other people. You literally could have removed all instances of "white" in your posts and it would have been just about arrogant/ignorant people and it would have still made sense. What you've said just makes you seem like a hypocrite. I didn't call you racist, so I don't know where that came from.

My original post was criticizing the tendency that the ethnic majority(white people) has to only see racism from their perspective as the ethnic majority,("I wouldn't get mad if they had a white party") rather than trying to understand and empathize with the perspective of the minority, and labeling this as a form of racism.

I also absolutely condemned the original post as racist.

So when people are calling me a hypocrite, I assume they are accusing me of doing the same thing that I'm criticizing, which is being a racist by the above definition.(for using the term "white people" presumably)

If you're not criticizing me for that then you're either misunderstanding my post or the definition of the word hypocrite.
 
My original post was criticizing the tendency that the ethnic majority(white people) has to only see racism from their perspective as the ethnic majority,("I wouldn't get mad if they had a white party") rather than trying to understand and empathize with the perspective of the minority, and labeling this as a form of racism.

I also absolutely condemned the original post as racist.

So when people are calling me a hypocrite, I assume they are accusing me of doing the same thing that I'm criticizing, which is being a racist by the above definition.(for using the term "white people" presumably)

If you're not criticizing me for that then you're either misunderstanding my post or the definition of the word hypocrite.
Can you post the dictionary definition of the word hypocrite?
 
This thread just keeps on giving. lol

Can't tell if some people are being serious when they try to dismiss even the "dirty" comment, or if they are just being contrary.
 
I need to vent GAF.

I work at a liquor store in a college town. We get customers from all over the world.

So today, a bunch of the Norwegian students decided to throw a "Mexican party."

All day long I've been dealing with these fucking assholes in sombreros, ponchos and fake mustaches buying tequila and Corona.

Some of them even had dirt on their face. I asked a girl why and she responding by saying "because Mexicans are dirty!" Like WHAAAT THEEE FUUUUUCK?????

I asked one if they were any actual Mexicans at the party and she just gave me a blank stare. Like I was crazy for asking that.

The worst part is that every time I tried to explain to them that what they were doing is fucked up, they responded by saying that it was all in good fun, or that they weren't trying to be offensive or that it was no big deal etc.

I just left work and I'm still fucking angry. None of these kids had any fucking awareness of what they were doing. In a town where a lot of Mexicans live and work.

FUCK, man!
Should have taken pictures and posted them OP to get them in trouble.
 
My original post was criticizing the tendency that the ethnic majority(white people) has to only see racism from their perspective as the ethnic majority,("I wouldn't get mad if they had a white party") rather than trying to understand and empathize with the perspective of the minority, and labeling this as a form of racism.

I also absolutely condemned the original post as racist.

So when people are calling me a hypocrite, I assume they are accusing me of doing the same thing that I'm criticizing, which is being a racist by the above definition.(for using the term "white people" presumably)

If you're not criticizing me for that then you're either misunderstanding my post or the definition of the word hypocrite.

Bro, I'm not trying to knock you, but there's a lot of irony in this. Here we have a group of college kids that may be generalizing Mexican culture with "no intention to offend anyone". People ITT got offended. Other people ITT are downplaying their offense. You call out two posters on their arrogance as "a common mentality I see employed by white people towards topics of racism." One guy may or not be white, and we don't know about the other one. Someone got offended by you, and now you were just downplaying that. Look, I agree with your original point but these things need to be pointed out.
tl;dr you criticized how people can't see the events in the OP as offensive while simultaneously offending others (intentionally or not) and then downplayed that fact when it was pointed out to you

Not gonna post anymore about this as it's pointless derailing at this point.
 
This thread has been enlightening. The next time someone calls mutters "dirty mexican" under their breath in reference to me, I will understand that it's totally not racist -- it's merely some misguided ~ignorance~.
 
The dirty part is a statement only a moron would say/think.

but i don't think a whole party themed as a Mexican party is racist, its rather to embrace parts of another culture... (in an ignorant way, i do admit that)
even if this means following stereotypes (poncho, sombrero and tequila)

to be serious, sounds like a fun party (and i would invite mexicans to it because i don't think they would be butthurt about it)
are mexicans on this board that think the whole idea is offensive?
if yes, than sorry for my foolishness
(i myself think its hilarious how germans are displayed with only lederhosen+beer
and i take no offense in that)
 
I'm a white Mexican, but I'm also very, very dirty.

I honestly know nothing about Denmark, but they shouldn't be drinking dirtxican-made beer.
 
Yes, calling any cultural group "dirty" in your daily life, and for no reason, is wrong and racist; in fact, it borders hate speech.

This epithet however, was mentioned in the confines of a themed party, where drunk students whose native language is not English, were trying to dress themselves as "realistic" as possible to the Mexican person that Far West movies have shaped in their ignorant minds.

Seriously, a party is the last place where I would expect to have a conversation regarding racism, with people.

I honestly know very little about Norwegians. According to television there's a depraved mass murdererer there, vikings and neutrogena? Should I choose to throw a party centered around these things you'd find my ignorance acceptable? I'm no authority on Mexican culture either but I sure as hell wouldn't think to associate 'dirty' with it. Might as well throw drug cartels in there.
 
This thread has been enlightening. The next time someone calls mutters "dirty mexican" under their breath in reference to me, I will understand that it's totally not racist -- it's merely some misguided ~ignorance~.
Ignorance and racism aren't mutually exclusive. In fact, they go hand in hand. I'm not even a dirty Mexican and I want to strangle those people.
There's no defense for shit like this.

Maybe they are having a Mexican party because they can have food with flavor and real (non-watery) beer
I'm with you on the first part, but the only Mexican beer is Corona and that's skunk water, dude.
 
The dirty part is a statement only a moron would say/think.

but i don't think a whole party themed as a Mexican party is racist, its rather to embrace parts of another culture... (in an ignorant way, i do admit that)
even if this means following stereotypes (poncho, sombrero and tequila)

to be serious, sounds like a fun party (and i would invite mexicans to it because i don't think they would be butthurt about it)
are mexicans on this board that think the whole idea is offensive?
if yes, than sorry for my foolishness
(i myself think its hilarious how germans are displayed with only lederhosen+beer
and i take no offense in that)

Why wouldn't you just invite them to help plan the party?

I mean I believe that you genuinely think a Mexican Theme party would be a good idea to embrace another culture

but to honestly think that and then just base your entire party around stereotypes and inviting Mexicans to come drop by just seems like such a backwards way to go about it.

Which is why I think we can safely cross that off the list of motives behind the party described in the OP
 
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