Had a very hot woman match with me and message me first with a variation of the "I'm new here be gentle" approach. Got suss and found her Facebook, she was legit but she had two kids. Eh, I'm a bit of a man child but fuck it, we'll go on a date - dinner and drinks, the usual. Sooooo many times during the conversation it would have been natural to mention her kids but she didn't. I'd caught public transport in so I could have a few drinks, she dropped me off home and came inside but by that point I was doing my own head in "just tell me about the fucking kids so I can move past it!". She eventaully mentioned them, as well as the fact that she has a really big thing for
John Farnham, like seen him 10+ times, he knows her by name and signs her chest everytime. Needless to say, I decided against getting down.
No bots or hookers for me so far, but I'm pretty damn fussy on who I swipe.