I rather my family survive and not play the pacifist which would just further encourage the robber, but please fear monger me with statistics about how my whole family will die by self inflicted gunshot wounds.
But, that is what the statistics say. There are no countering statistics which show the reverse. There have been countless studies done on gun safety, and the vast majority point in the direction of guns making us less safe. It's not scare mongering.
You're assuming a lot. First of all if I had a gun I would not leave my families side, idk what makes you think I'll go out into the house like John Rambo
First of all, I thought we were talking about a hypothetical. I honestly did not picture you personally or your family in those examples. As for the assumption of going John Rambo, that was just because I assumed that was the opposite behavior to locking yourself in. I assumed that when you wrote "what's a door going to do" (or something like that), you were advocating NOT locking yourself in but rather confronting the assailant. If your suggestion was to lock yourself in BUT have a gun as backup, I'd say that's a far better option than going John Rambo. But still more dangerous than not having a gun.
What I do know is I'm shooting anything that tries to come through that door.
So, potentially, someone who's not a burglar? You just said you're not going to be thinking rationally during a home invasion. This is my point. People aren't always rational, and when guns enter the mix, irrational decisions can have permanent results.
Bonus question: do you think I like the fact that I own a gun? That I get off on it? We live in a fucked up world, and our economy sucks so I can't afford to move into some ritzy neighborhood with patrolling security guards and gates. My neighbors have bars on their window man. So yeah whatever, you do you and I'll do me.
No, I don't think so. You're doing a pretty good job of convincing me you don't. But, that doesn't change the fact that the statistics show what they show. People with guns are more likely to be shot. Guns in households are more likely to be used to harm the family than a burglar. The statistics aren't fuzzy on this. I'm not saying YOU will do something irresponsible with YOUR gun. We're talking about society here. And I can't see how one can argue for guns as safety when the statistics say what they say.
You do what you have to do to keep your family safe.