FortunateSon
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MmKP_nI2uXg&feature=related
Basically, that's your cue to get leave the thread. Thanks.
So I asked her out.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MmKP_nI2uXg&feature=related
Basically, that's your cue to get leave the thread. Thanks.
ViewtifulJC
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Didn't you hear him earlier? He's totally over her, and he's not thinking about her anymore.
But maaaan she totally came with us on a group date and talked to him and stuff she's totally into him now
Tawney Bomb
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That's next weeks update, don't spoil the surprise.
Syph Medwes
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Ask her if she has a boyfriend (still). If she says yes ask her if he treats her well, when she says yes, respond with "I wouldn't".
Also hit on other chicks in her presence if possible. You said you were with a group? Engage the other girls. And if she were over you all night and was so "into-you" as you're implying, you should escalate before you let this drag on any longer.
Just my two cents.
SouthernDragon
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I feel sorry for him...
man your comedy posting has been on point recently
Damn, too bad I don't have any videos of the Leafs in the playoffs for the last 8 years.
FortunateSon
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Well, Read the thread. They were all saying how I have no chance because she's just being nice because of tips or whatever. Tips this, tips that. But at least, even with me asking her out already, she still came out with us and I'm part of that "us".
And lets see how it goes, I'll keep this thread updated whether it completely backfires or it goes smooth when I actually do the transition.
And I'll even post a picture of her and me.
I honestly think she's in it to simply be friends which I'm completely cool with (she drinks, smokes etc...). No issues with that but I'm not blowing the off-chance that it could work after a couple of hangout sessions. I do plan to ask her out depending on how I feel her and vice-versa outside of her work meets. And there is no torture because I'm not keeping myself confined to her, I flirt with other girls and have other friends that keep me occupied etc...
I actually want to ask her about her boyfriend as you stated with all those questions and stuff but meh, I'll find out sooner or later.
Yeah, before was "didn't you hear, just because she chats with him / drinks with him / chills with him after work means she's totally into him" or "she's doing it for the tips"
Whatever happened to that? Oh man.
Syph Medwes
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I'm loving these hockey beaks! Even on GAF people hate the Leafs haha
Dastardly Jerks
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Oh FortunateSon, I bet you fall in love with strippers too.
Don't ask her out again, but stay with the flirting.
Make her so into you without giving in or asking her out.
If all goes well, eventually she'll be the one who'll do the move. Either she'll be more aggressive on the flirting or she'll say something about her and her bf not working out lately or something.
But never ever ask her out again if she's still with her BF. That would be dumb.
Make her so into you without giving in or asking her out.
If all goes well, eventually she'll be the one who'll do the move. Either she'll be more aggressive on the flirting or she'll say something about her and her bf not working out lately or something.
But never ever ask her out again if she's still with her BF. That would be dumb.
Count Dookkake
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You won't get in her pants...
...without being charged.
...without being charged.
Messofanego
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FortunateSon
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Probably. :/ And I like I said, I'd laugh it off. They are my good friends so good on them if she likes one of them.
That's because we don't want to play 82 games, get out in the 1st and and get a low draft pick.
The leafs organization = Genius.
Oh he's just a bitter old Montreal canandians fan hat can't tolerate the love leafs get.
Thank you. I'm just going to go with the flow and see how it goes. I'm going to play this to my advantage and no, I'm not going to ask her out anytime soon. She's the aggressive type so I'm pretty sure she'd make the move if she wants too as well.
So what you're saying is he's "In Luv with a Stripper?"
Bingo. Combine this with the fact that some girls are just flirts. No matter how much you over think the situation, she probably isn't into you and is just a flirty personality.
I've fallen for this trap a few times as well, only it messed up the friendships I had with the girls, so consider yourself fortunate you still talk as if it didn't happen.
ViewtifulJC
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Oh shit, you a real balla now. I bet she touched your arm and everything. Eye contact and shit. You'll be in those panties in no time at this rate.
StormyTheRabbit
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I sighed out loud as I read the first post.
Grimm Fandango
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I think you're still over thinking it. I'm guilty of it from time to time and hate it.
If it doesn't work, you must move on. No question.
If it doesn't work, you must move on. No question.
Count Dookkake
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Oh snap, it was an old thread.
Wow I feel so defeated.
Edit: The real test is to ask her out to dinner, just 1 on 1. See if she bites on that.
Wait, so it wasn't just the two of you this time? Ask her out again, if she says no or reiterates the bf thing, then it's done. If you're reluctant to ask her out again, then deep down you know she doesn't want you and you're trying to play it safe while thinking "you won".
Friend zoned, fuck yah!
If the answer isn't Yes, its always No. This is a little secret older, experienced men try to tell younger guys all the time. Alas, younger guys will fail, trip fall and eventually have to learn on their own. The secret to getting women isn't getting them at all, its making them come to you. Thats all there is to it.
edit. Sounds like the OP thinks this girl likes him when she already told him No, I have a boyfriend. Hanging out like friends and giggling isn't the same as getting a tuggy or in the least a real date or making out. She isn't into you, slhe already made that crystal clear when she turned you down. Now ... even if she doesn't have a boyfriend my guess is she wants to get with one of your friends.
Beware of red flags.
edit. Sounds like the OP thinks this girl likes him when she already told him No, I have a boyfriend. Hanging out like friends and giggling isn't the same as getting a tuggy or in the least a real date or making out. She isn't into you, slhe already made that crystal clear when she turned you down. Now ... even if she doesn't have a boyfriend my guess is she wants to get with one of your friends.
Beware of red flags.
Count Dookkake
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ViewtifulJC
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Probably the only good thing an old friend of mine passed on to me years ago: YOU are the man. YOU are the prize.
This grabbing at bread crumbs shit aint a good look, but hey, when you're desperate...
CrushDance
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shanshan310
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She's already turned you down OP. Even if you perceive her to have been flirting with you on the group outing, she has already told you she's not interested. Leave her alone, she clearly just wants to be friends.
TwiztidElf
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From the OP:
Because when I heard* "I have a boyfriend", all I heard was "My boyfriend is better than you."
*married.
I hate this. I realise this is usually a nice way to say "Not interested", but seriously, I'd rather hear a polite "No, I'm not interested" than this.
Because when I heard* "I have a boyfriend", all I heard was "My boyfriend is better than you."
*married.
shanshan310
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Then your hearing is off, since that's not the intent of the phrase at all. Saying "I'm not interested" is more abrupt and rude than "I'm already seeing someone", which is probably why a lot of people prefer to use the latter - even if ultimately they have the same meaning.
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